How old were you your first time?

I think what’s being asked is when you became consciously aware of other people’s different perspectives and that the things that establish the framework for that perspective differ from person to person.

If that’s the case, I’d say it was probably when I was in middle school and I became a therapist for my friends.

If you’re asking when I became aware that people have different opinions, then that happened much earlier, like most people stated. It was kind of beat into our heads that “everyone was different and that’s okay” as kids.
 
Thread title is bait, I came here to read lies about virginity losing.
Anyhow, I have a very strong memory of being distressed that everything and everyone was a dream and that I would wake up and it would all be gone. I reckon age 4 or 5. This solipsistic angst hasn't entirely gone away.
 
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Buster O'Keefe said:
Thread title is bait, I came here to read lies about virginity losing.
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I know that feel. I was all primed to jump in and say "I don't remember 😭" and then it was some other thing.

OT but a good buddy of mine bragged once to me that he got his first blow job at five years old from a girl roughly the same age. I asked him if he realized in retrospect she was being molested and it ruined his day.
 
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I remember when my mom told me that her friend was a lesbian (She's now married to a woman, though she was in the closet at the time), and then I asked the woman about it in front of my mom. The woman denied it, and my mom took me aside and said not to repeat the things she tells me about people in public.

That's probably when I realized that people had their own experiences outside of my bubble that were very different from mine.
 
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I remember when my mom told me that her friend was a lesbian (She's now married to a woman, though she was in the closet at the time), and then I asked the woman about it in front of my mom. The woman denied it, and my mom took me aside and said not to repeat the things she tells me about people in public.

That's probably when I realized that people had their own experiences outside of my bubble that were very different from mine.
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.. Was she hot?
 
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>tfw you scrolled past the op, thinking this was gonna be about sex and that you were gonna read a bunch of amusing lies from autistic virgins and it turns out its just some philosophical bullshit.
 
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4-5 like everyone else.

A more substantial moment for me personally is when I noticed how different my views were on social things compared to my parents, specifically my mother since I spent the most time with her. It clicked when I realized I had a crush on an Asian girl but didn't really tell my parents since they were the "dating any other race as a Black man is Uncle Tom behavior" type.

Mom mellowed out when I explained how fucking stupid that concept was a few years later.
 
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Excellent question.
I want to say: Do people really think differently from me? I just thought they were in denial....
But TBH I was 4 or 5 and I remember my parents saying that some aunt was a laugh a minute. I thought she was really really odd and frightening and cruel. that might have been because she rolled me for a piece of cake. I was really wary of her, I remember that. They put it down to the fact I was absolutely exceptional. Then a year or two later I realized she was bat-shit crazy. So, I started watching the humans more closely and realized I did not really like a lot of them.....It just grew from there.
Now I'm here on KF.
 
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