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To be fair to Sprig, bisexuals are treated pretty shittily by LGT. They're too straight for gays, too gay for straights and apparently huge unethical sluts who will be betray you for the other gender just to be assholes. The rest of LGBT is quite promiscuous though, obviously.
 
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Shiversblood said:
Why is it so easy for a female to be bisexual but not males?
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Because bi females don't face as much backlash as bi males?
I remember that my wife and sister-in-law were quite unsettled when I told them I enjoy gay stuff. For some reason bi males are seen as chronically unfaithful and manwhores.
 
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Heinrich Himmler said:
Because bi females don't face as much backlash as bi males?
I remember that my wife and sister-in-law were quite unsettled when I told them I enjoy gay stuff. For some reason bi males are seen as chronically unfaithful and manwhores.
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The last woman I went on a date with flipped her shit about it when I let it slip after the date, was blowing up my phone with all sorts of crap on text. Got to the point where I said "alright, we're done here, have a nice life." Her tone suddenly changes to a "wait no I didn't mean all that like that" and a sudden revelation that she was actually bi too and this was still workable and she was sorry. I respond with "stop contacting me or I'll file a TRO, goodbye".
 
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Sprig of Parsley said:
The last woman I went on a date with flipped her shit about it when I let it slip after the date, was blowing up my phone with all sorts of crap on text. Got to the point where I said "alright, we're done here, have a nice life." Her tone suddenly changes to a "wait no I didn't mean all that like that" and a sudden revelation that she was actually bi too and this was still workable and she was sorry. I respond with "stop contacting me or I'll file a TRO, goodbye".
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What a bitch lol, I guess you really dodged a bullet there.
I kinda expected it with my wife and SIL, they are of a conservative family, vote right and the latter served in the army.
Then again, they know I'm a serious person and I have no intention of cheating or make some poli shit.
My inner fag limits to fapping on gay stuff.
 
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Heinrich Himmler said:
What a bitch lol, I guess you really dodged a bullet there.
I kinda expected it with my wife and SIL, they are of a conservative family, vote right and the latter served in the army.
Then again, they know I'm a serious person and I have no intention of cheating or make some poli shit.
My inner fag limits to fapping on gay stuff.
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Fun fact: she quickly got married to some other dude about 2 months after our last message. I vaguely knew who he was, heard that he had some kind of criminal history but nothing really dangerous (probably something like theft or fraud if I had to guess). She apparently cheated on him not long after their honeymoon and got pregnant, not sure if he stuck around after that.

One of the things she vomited at me via text was how I was probably planning to cheat on her with a guy and bring home AIDS or something. O irony.
 
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At this point I'd be more willing to date a guy, but it'd have to be after I move out and can live on my own, seeing as I currently live with non gay friendly parents (not the "kick you out" type but I doubt they'd take the announcement of me having a boyfriend well).

Though even then the very prospect of finding another bi/gay guy feels so daunting considering my preferences. Like in this day and age similar political leanings are goddamn essential in a relationship, and from my experience right-leaning guys that are into penises are few and far between. And that's even before getting into more mundane interests I'd hope to find similarities with another dude as I'd like to at least have some interests in common.

And on top of all that, they'd have to be close enough for a real life relationship. I already was in a long-distance one with a woman for a few years and I don't want to go through something strenuous like that again. So in short the prospect looks like searching for a needle in a haystack...
 
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Like it or not, lesbians don't face even 10% of the backlash and stigma that gay men do. Gays are seen as being weak or compromised, feminised men and that goes for bisexual men too, which is why I (kinda flippantly, kinda not) said they're just homos that won't commit. The social ostracism for being a lesbian is way lower, so the barrier to experimenting is lower. Chicks experimenting or being bisexual is seen as exotic and hot but if a teenage boy blows his best mate, they're both likely to get bullied out of existance for it.

There's a lesbian in our book club who won't shut up about how hard it is being a woman, and how just being female made her the most oppressed. I asked her if she'd ever had to hide the fact that she was a woman to keep a job or a friendship, and she didn't speak to me for months.
 
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polonium said:
Like it or not, lesbians don't face even 10% of the backlash and stigma that gay men do. Gays are seen as being weak or compromised, feminised men and that goes for bisexual men too, which is why I (kinda flippantly, kinda not) said they're just homos that won't commit. The social ostracism for being a lesbian is way lower, so the barrier to experimenting is lower. Chicks experimenting or being bisexual is seen as exotic and hot but if a teenage boy blows his best mate, they're both likely to get bullied out of existance for it.

There's a lesbian in our book club who won't shut up about how hard it is being a woman, and how just being female made her the most oppressed. I asked her if she'd ever had to hide the fact that she was a woman to keep a job or a friendship, and she didn't speak to me for months.
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Gay is considered straight now. Trans is all the rage.
 
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polonium said:
Gays are seen as being weak or compromised, feminised men and that goes for bisexual men too, which is why I (kinda flippantly, kinda not) said they're just homos that won't commit.
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I don't know, is that really true for all bi men? I mean, I've always found men more attractive, but I still find myself physically interested in women too so, where's the cutoff of just being a gay in denial or legit bisexual? Maybe I am gay and I've just had it so ingrained growing up that I'm supposed to be with the opposite sex that by sheer association I don't have an exclusive attraction to men and men only, but I can't really tell either way honestly.
 
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I don't know, is that really true for all bi men? I mean, I've always found men more attractive, but I still find myself physically interested in women too so, where's the cutoff of just being a gay in denial or legit bisexual? Maybe I am gay and I've just had it so ingrained growing up that I'm supposed to be with the opposite sex that by sheer association I don't have an exclusive attraction to men and men only, but I can't really tell either way honestly.
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Are the women you're attracted to usually more like an effeminate boy? Do you think Thai ladyboys are more attractive in porn than real women? If you answered yes to either then you're definitely gay and in denial.
 
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Are the women you're attracted to usually more like an effeminate boy? Do you think Thai ladyboys are more attractive in porn than real women? If you answered yes to either then you're definitely gay and in denial.
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Nope, regular ol' women. Not even into trans people.
 
polonium said:
Like it or not, lesbians don't face even 10% of the backlash and stigma that gay men do. Gays are seen as being weak or compromised, feminised men and that goes for bisexual men too, which is why I (kinda flippantly, kinda not) said they're just homos that won't commit. The social ostracism for being a lesbian is way lower, so the barrier to experimenting is lower. Chicks experimenting or being bisexual is seen as exotic and hot but if a teenage boy blows his best mate, they're both likely to get bullied out of existance for it.

There's a lesbian in our book club who won't shut up about how hard it is being a woman, and how just being female made her the most oppressed. I asked her if she'd ever had to hide the fact that she was a woman to keep a job or a friendship, and she didn't speak to me for months.
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You made the horrible mistake of reminding a special snowflake that she might not actually have had the worst hand in the world dealt to her, and robbed her of her precious "BIGGEST VICTIM EVAR" status
 
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vertexwindi said:
To be fair to Sprig, bisexuals are treated pretty shittily by LGT. They're too straight for gays, too gay for straights and apparently huge unethical sluts who will be betray you for the other gender just to be assholes. The rest of LGBT is quite promiscuous though, obviously.
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The only winning move if you're bi is just to deny it. Even if your love says they trust you, there will always be this niggling doubt in their minds that you won't be able to be monogamous and content, and that will subtly influence their behavior in destructive ways.
 
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