Why don't you just get yourself a sex toy with all that welfare money and dominate her, it would save the poor girls you use as victims all the heart ache and mental health issues. Better yet just go away, you're not going to listen to anybody because you are set on this, and because you are a very sad little boy sucking his thumb and wanting his mummy.
You can not change a mind of a person like him, they are sly horrible creature that pray on the weak. The best thing is to just castrate him or better yet have some law that puts them away for a very very very long time.
You are a horrible, disgusting, rude, and nasty little boy who needs to have a girl show you what for.