Snowflake Alyssa Waldrop / Vade / Scoutgender / AutisticLeafeon / SpiritLore / Zexper - Kiwi Farms' Favorite Otherkin Tumblrina

You've perfectly articulated why most of us find Vade's reaction to Kenneth's death disgusting. We're not soulless monsters picking on a girl who lost her boyfriend, we're people who are genuinely sickened by Vade's callous treatment of her boyfriend's death. Especially considering that there's an ample amount of evidence that Vade treated Kenneth like shit before he died. I really don't think it's fair to say that she "drove" him to suicide (as it seems like Kenneth was already suffering from clinical depression, which in and of itself is enough to drive someone to commit suicide), but at the same time, she certainly didn't alleviate his suffering.

I could be wrong, but has Vade ever admitted that she was a shitty partner to Kenneth towards the end of his life? That she deliberately strained their relationship by refusing to confide in him and explain her decisions? Because it seems like, when it comes to Kenneth, all Vade ever does is say "Oh, woe is me, I lost my partner, I'm so miserable! Please don't remind me that death exists or I'll totally be triggered and it will all be your fault!" If that weren't enough, she uses every opportunity to bring him up. "Oh, I played this game with my boyfriend. He's DEAD, so seeing this game triggers me. If you're actually a good person you'll tag this and not ever mention it to me because it reminds me of my DEAD BOYFRIEND." I don't think it's fair to say whether or not Vade is truly saddened and upset by his loss (because in my opinion, she probably really does miss him) but I think we can all agree that the way she's milking his death for pity points is sick.

And I'm very sorry for your loss. That's a really horrible thing to go through, especially considering that your sister was so young.

thank you, its been rough but i think my family as a whole is pushing through. i still get these intense feelings of what if it was my fault (there was A LOT going on before it happened) or what i could have done to stop it but im not letting it consume me like it has to vade. thankfully i had a lot of friends to talk to me at the same, which i dont think vade really had? i mean they had their followers but they werent someone they could vent to and receive the kind of words they needed aside from asspats and such.

i spent a year at home working before i went back to college, which i think they should do and maybe try to get further in life than living at their parents house working minimum wage at a petstore. maybe theyd find some friends there and actually become a decent human being? idk, maybe im thinking too much on this, realistically i doubt any of that would happen. im not that up to date on the news in america but if obamas plan of giving kids two free years of college works out they definitely wouldnt have a reason to go. they could try to be a marine biologist or something since they enjoy marine life so much.

im trying to have hope for the little shitlord, but its hard. i empathise with them with the whole same age/gender identity problems/loss of loved one but jesus christ theres only so much someone hope for with a walking disaster like vade
 
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@Meowthkip What is she even talking about.
 
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@Meowthkip What is she even talking about.

I guess Vade reblogged a video I posted onto my blog and got triggered by just seeing my name.

Oh my GOD Catbisquick broke into Vade's house and is poking her with a stick while she's sleeping!!

YES, IT WAS ME ALL ALONG!

I WENT MORE THAN HALFWAY ACROSS THE COUNTRY TO FUCK WITH VADE FOR ABSOLUTELY NO REASON.
 
I sometimes think that Vade and her ilk have decided that literally any sort of feeling beyond "blissful, ecstatic happiness" is "depression" and anything that evokes any reaction beyond that counts as a trigger.

Example, I play Left 4 Dead 2 a lot. For some reason, Witches scare the poo out of me. The guys I play with can pinpoint the moment I find one because of the sudden screaming and the fact that I'm running the opposite way as fast as humanly possible. I suppose Tumblr would say that's a trigger. Me? Honestly, I think it's funny. It's not a "real" phobia in that I don't dread finding a Witch or have nightmares about them anything (the way I do about things I truly am phobic about), I just freak out when I see one in the game. Hell, my teammates will sometimes set a Witch off just to listen to me yelling at them. I still really enjoy playing L4D2 though and the knowledge that I'm going to run into one of those things doesn't deter me. In fact, it's exciting in a sense. It's FUN to be scared, it's kind of part of the game for me. (Hard Rain is still bullshit though oh my God.)

But in this case, even feeling anything less than wonderful is Bad. Seeing someone you don't like or that causes an emotion that isn't a good one breaks your veil of happiness and it automatically must be destroyed. AKA Vade's "panic attack" at Meowthkip. "This person does not fit into my preconceived notion of a perfect world, they must be marked as Unclean and eliminated from it."

Maybe Vade needs to watch Pleasantville and see if the way that movie presents the message is over-the-head enough for her.
 
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Someone tie my body down before my sides just blast off into fucking outer space, im laughing too hard for this shit
I can't even find words for how ridiculous this is. Why does anyone take this seriously? If someone came to me and asked for attention this directly I'd think they were joking. How about if she feels so bad she do something productive to keep her mind off it like most people do? Not that I believe she was 'triggered' to begin with.
 
I sometimes think that Vade and her ilk have decided that literally any sort of feeling beyond "blissful, ecstatic happiness" is "depression" and anything that evokes any reaction beyond that counts as a trigger.

Example, I play Left 4 Dead 2 a lot. For some reason, Witches scare the poo out of me. The guys I play with can pinpoint the moment I find one because of the sudden screaming and the fact that I'm running the opposite way as fast as humanly possible. I suppose Tumblr would say that's a trigger. Me? Honestly, I think it's funny. It's not a "real" phobia in that I don't dread finding a Witch or have nightmares about them anything (the way I do about things I truly am phobic about), I just freak out when I see one in the game. Hell, my teammates will sometimes set a Witch off just to listen to me yelling at them. I still really enjoy playing L4D2 though and the knowledge that I'm going to run into one of those things doesn't deter me. In fact, it's exciting in a sense. It's FUN to be scared, it's kind of part of the game for me. (Hard Rain is still bullshit though oh my God.)

But in this case, even feeling anything less than wonderful is Bad. Seeing someone you don't like or that causes an emotion that isn't a good one breaks your veil of happiness and it automatically must be destroyed. AKA Vade's "panic attack" at Meowthkip. "This person does not fit into my preconceived notion of a perfect world, they must be marked as Unclean and eliminated from it."

Maybe Vade needs to watch Pleasantville and see if the way that movie presents the message is over-the-head enough for her.
Yeah, it's almost like they're faking it or something. Weird.
 
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