I can't become a programmer. If you think I can you're fucked in the head.
Dude, my degree is in the
humanities and I used to work as a programmer, for the Dulles, VA location of America Online. I no longer live near there, sadly. I didn't say you could necessarily be one, though. I said you sounded like another self-defeating user from a different thread, who also repeatedly rejects the idea that he can improve (in his case, his writing).
You and several other women online said that I might be saved if I met a women who would be like myself.
I'm not sure I meant "like you" in every way, rather having some interests in common. Mr. Horse has a completely different background than mine, grew up 2000 miles away from me, plays the guitar (my hands are too small), follows American football (I don't care), enjoys coffee and salsa (I hate both)... if I had only been open to people who were similar to me as far as life experiences, I wouldn't have this amazing relationship now. I'm not saying it's perfect. Sometimes he leaves his underwear on the bathroom floor after a shower. But life goes on.
My point was simply this- yes, of course she was mentally ill. You are also mentally ill. Healthy women reject every single feminist policy.
On this, we will have to agree to disagree. I mean, assuming the job is equally important and a woman doing it is equally qualified, do you honestly think the woman ought to be paid less? That seems strange. I don't want people doing jobs they're not qualified for either, but there are plenty of women who are highly skilled medical professionals, for example. If a woman takes out my appendix someday, I want her paid equally to a male doctor who might have done the same operation on another patient the same day.
She'd be happy if I wasn't hurt by her breaking up with me. Few of them ever did try to hurt me on purpose (like that lesbian girl before I put her pic). This is irrelevant.
But why? It would suggest that no one was trying to punish you for not being an insane criminal, or for anything, just having normal human flaws of their own. (The descriptor "mentally ill" isn't much of an insult as it covers depression, PTSD, and many other extremely common mood disorders.)
You seem to have an odd fixation on punishment, from your posts, which I do in fact read. Either you insist that men are being punished for things which are not against the law in any way, or that women should be as part of an ordinary relationship. You wouldn't have improved anything by breaking your true love's spine. You would then have a very angry woman who needed highly specialized levels of health care every day, and would be more than ready to sue you for your benefit check, your parents' assets, or anything necessary to pay for such health care. Some people -- not me, but some -- even believe wheelchair users shouldn't be parents because they can't run after a kid in an emergency. So it's possible she wouldn't even have been effective as a mother if you did that, which I think you know because you didn't say anything about harming the woman you believe you impregnated, just blocking her on Facebook. I've been blocked on Facebook and I can tell you it's not nearly as painful as a bone injury. But really, why is all of life some kind of punishment in your view? Your parents should be punished for not running the Prostitute Scam... men are punished for not hurting, which is like being punished for not stealing or embezzling, in that it doesn't really happen the way you might think... punish punish punish. You know you're not Gregor Samsa, right?
