Off-Topic Let's talk about second-wave radical feminism - Dynastia's Daycare for the emotionally troubled.

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The porn "gonzo" industry was inspired by Max Hardcore. As of 20 years back, it was way more than 0.5 percent. It's expanded since. Forced vomiting (gagging), fisting, slapping happen as par for the course. This one guy Mark Handel (the brother of the Handel on the Law radio show guy) developed a show called Meatholes where he picked up homeless guys in a van, then ordered the women to do these things with them. He was eventually PNGed, not for doing that, but for not requiring that the guys have a current HIV test. Kink.com did similar, they'd take women to closed bars in SF with dozens of men basically tearing the women apart. One had her breast implant ruptured, but it was only when one got HIV that the city/state cracked down on them. They moved to Vegas.

Not that the details here really matter, but I'm familiar with this stuff from working in the industry - I don't think Mark Handel (Khan Tusian) did the homeless van gimmick, and definitely not under the name Meatholes. He had a site called Meatholes but no vans or homeless people were involved. And the Kink routine was 100% fake, the men were all established porn actors working within strict rulesets, and they definitely still have their office space in the same way building in San Francisco and shoot throughout California.

The gonzo industry has definitely expanded, but the ease of creation of it just sort of cements how far the porn industry has moved away from these companies. Just go check pornhub's most viewed videos and see how many are from big name studios and how many are from channels that are just one girl making videos on her own/with her boyfriend. The latter is far and away the most common expression of pornography in 2019 and is definitely how young girls envision their involvement with porn when they mull it over.
 
This the last I'm going to speak to you about this. You're literally just trying to antagonize people. If others want to argue with you all day, that's on them but I will not. I really don't care if you like my answers or anyone elses. I don't care if you think it's inconsistent. It's been argued it's not, you disagree. No ones mind is changed. Fucking move on.

I'm not trying to antagonize anyone, I'm pointing out the wildly inconsistent standards presented. I happen to be doing so on a forum that prides itself on not being inconsistent, illogical, or data-shy, and everyone that's been disagreeing with me has presented nothing but subjective faffery and anecdata.

If you think women should be recognized as being agents, as completely autonomous human beings, capable of granting informed consent, then demand that they not be granted that recognition because it's being expressed in a way you don't like, you're a dishonest asshole, and you're no better than the Religious Right.

The positions you've all taken -

- Women should have complete reproductive autonomy, except surrogacy.
- Women should have complete sexual autonomy, except for sex work.

No one here has presented data showing that surrogacy is any more harmful than adoption or Baby Moses Surrender, but they've claimed that a baby removed from the mother that carried them is harmful; if that harm exists, then it exists for the latter 2 cases, as well, and the position being taken is that women should not be permitted to surrender their children, under any circumstances. That is the exact opposite of recognizing their reproductive autonomy. No one has presented data that demonstrates that legal sex work is as bad as illegal sex work, but I can find a lot of material that indicates that the growing acceptance of legalized pornography coincides with dropping rates of sexual violence. Here's a link, for example. I can undoubtedly find a bunch more.

Don't even try to present yourself as in favour of women's freedoms, if you're going to parrot shit that sounds like the same crap the Religious Right spouts.
 
The positions you've all taken -

- Women should have complete reproductive autonomy, except surrogacy.
- Women should have complete sexual autonomy, except for sex work.

I don't have a dog in this fight but I think the crux of the matter involves coercion vs consent. Is someone exercising bodily autonomy if they are coerced into a situation? Can someone really consent if they aren't given other options? The trafficking industries put women in situations where they may not have other options.

That being said, I can also see the argument that this might be what someone chooses to do even when they have other options. I don't have data, only anecdotes. The only surrogate I knew personally was a single mum without education looking for a way to pay the rent. The only sex workers I've known had disabilities and drug problems. I think until Canada raises the mimum wage to a living wage, creates affordable housing and childcare, and adds a lot more mental health resources, it's hard to argue that the women choosing sex work here are doing so without coercion.
 
I don't have a dog in this fight but I think the crux of the matter involves coercion vs consent. Is someone exercising bodily autonomy if they are coerced into a situation? Can someone really consent if they aren't given other options? The trafficking industries put women in situations where they may not have other options.

That being said, I can also see the argument that this might be what someone chooses to do even when they have other options. I don't have data, only anecdotes. The only surrogate I knew personally was a single mum without education looking for a way to pay the rent. The only sex workers I've known had disabilities and drug problems. I think until Canada raises the mimum wage to a living wage, creates affordable housing and childcare, and adds a lot more mental health resources, it's hard to argue that the women choosing sex work here are doing so without coercion.

I can accept that there's an argument about the presence of coercion, but that makes me believe there's a need for greater public awareness of the kind that comes with legalization and (as much as I despise gov't interference) regulation.

And the issue with a federal minimum wage is that San Francisco, CA costs a lot more than Bumfuck, IA. You can't set a federal minimum wage reflective of the needs of people in Toronto or Vancouver, and have that not fuck over people in Manitoba. Best way I can explain it is to post a RedPanels strip.

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And as far as I know, childcare is heavily subsidized in most jurisdictions in Canada, and is still stupidly expensive.

In fact, this is a good example of how wage adjustments don't do as much as people hope they will - if minimum wages go up for daycare workers, the already high cost of daycare will have to be adjusted upwards, to cover the increased labour overhead. The actually solution (as difficult as it is to manage) is to find ways to control inflation.
 
Female findoms, e-thots (Belle Delphine), and camgirls soaking men for money happens. Any exchange of a person's capacity/skills/etc. is a commodification of some kind, whether it's intellectual, physical, sexual, or professional.
Yes, reproductive issues get simplified down to this point a lot. It's about as reductive as the (technically true) assertion that most men are superfluous from a survival-of-the-species standpoint and therefore their deaths and suffering don't really matter that much because we don't actually need every male anyway. Just because someone can be commodified doesn't mean that they should be, and it doesn't mean that absolute commodification of every interaction is a great end-point for society! We restrict organ donation despite organs being, like, technically a commodity, because the social externalities become really dark really fast, check: China.

Surrogacy is always a luxury. Kim K has had two children via surrogates. Children are a luxury. We do not need children. The third world already makes more than enough. Should it be legal to have the ability to contractually force someone to bear a child just so a rich lady can keep her vag tight? Nobody is legally entitled to have their genes passed down. That's never been the case, and it shouldn't be in the future.

I'm not trying to antagonize anyone, I'm pointing out the wildly inconsistent standards presented. I happen to be doing so on a forum that prides itself on not being inconsistent, illogical, or data-shy, and everyone that's been disagreeing with me has presented nothing but subjective faffery and anecdata.

Don't even try to present yourself as in favour of women's freedoms, if you're going to parrot shit that sounds like the same crap the Religious Right spouts.
This forum is mostly for gossip and lols so I don't know what you're expecting tbh but okay here goes: some behaviours generate significant social externalities. Externalities that affect everyone. Opposition to sex work includes opposition to men who do it. It's not inherently gendered except for the risk of pregnancy. Prostitution is a profession that generates significant social externalities. Happy normal men and women overwhelmingly do not choose to do sex work. Sex, for humans, has emotional and relational factors that make sucking dicks for 12 hours a day very different from stacking rocks for 12 hours a day even if one of them makes your arms more tired. Legalizing prostitution would technically allow men and women more autonomy, but it also steeply increases the demand curve for hooking (ref: Amsterdam and Germany). Hooking is a really dirty and dangerous job because men that buy hookers are mostly not that normal, plus STDs etc. Increasing demand for hookers does not increase the supply of happy hookers - normal men and women don't become any more eager to take it up the butt for $ - and it leads to hookers making less money individually, because now they can't even charge their danger pay for the legal risk. Nobody is going to willingly hook for less money. So hookers have to be created by force. This spreads the basic misery of the job out over an even bigger body of hookers, who now include a lot of Romanian and Vietnamese girls who don't even speak their john's language and don't understand that the cops would help them. The net result is a larger negative social externality, not less. I guess the johns are happy but they could have just jerked off for the same result. It's not really about sexual autonomy but about labour autonomy. Nobody is telling these women not to fuck who they want. It's just that money can't be part of it.
 
That's my question to you. How are the two not different? Sucking the cock or risking death in a "acid mine" are both high risk professions, often undertaken when no other option is available. Is the man in the mine not prostituting himself out as well through his labor? And what is stopping the sex workers from organizing for better conditions the these hypothetical acid miners can? I am genuinely curious as to to your thoughts on this.
Yes, both are extremely exploitative industries; radical feminism is a small extension of Marxism, so of course most of us will have sympathy for the working class.

When a miner dies of blacklung, it's considered a failure of the industry, and things are changed to become safer.
When a prostitute dies, it's considered the cost of business. Nobody considers it out of the ordinary or changes anything.
Did you see how I ended that paragraph without a snide remark? You get that?
Well, you almost made it.
 
Yes, reproductive issues get simplified down to this point a lot. It's about as reductive as the (technically true) assertion that most men are superfluous from a survival-of-the-species standpoint and therefore their deaths and suffering don't really matter that much because we don't actually need every male anyway. Just because someone can be commodified doesn't mean that they should be, and it doesn't mean that absolute commodification of every interaction is a great end-point for society! We restrict organ donation despite organs being, like, technically a commodity, because the social externalities become really dark really fast, check: China.

Just because you don't want to commodify something, that isn't grounds to restrict it. I refer you to the greater harms caused by all other forms of prohibition, including escalation of crimes to ensure that the base level criminality is not discovered, like the mob murdering witnesses to Prohibition-Era alcohol shipments.

China is an authoritarian state, where the gov't sincerely believes that they're entitled to force people to do whatever the fuck the gov't wants, so it's not anything like a 1:1 for western countries, which has been the focus of the discussion, to the extent that at least one person has noted that while they do feel for women oppressed in MENA/etc., they know that they can have limited influence there, and focus themselves in their own locale.

Organ donation is also highly regulated in all western nations, so the Chinese organ markets are hardly a great comparison.

Surrogacy is always a luxury. Kim K has had two children via surrogates. Children are a luxury. We do not need children. The third world already makes more than enough. Should it be legal to have the ability to contractually force someone to bear a child just so a rich lady can keep her vag tight? Nobody is legally entitled to have their genes passed down. That's never been the case, and it shouldn't be in the future.

A Kardashian isn't exactly a representative example of the average person that needs access to surrogacy. The relative privation of millions of babies elsewhere is entirely irrelevant to the case of a western couple that wants to have a child of their own, and has arranged surrogacy because they aren't capable of it. If you're going to make that argument, provide evidence that the majority of women seeking surrogacy in western countries (which IS the context of this thread) are doing so "because they want to keep their vag tight", and not because they don't have something that prevents her from having a healthy pregnancy.

This forum is mostly for gossip and lols so I don't know what you're expecting tbh but okay here goes: some behaviours generate significant social externalities. Externalities that affect everyone. Opposition to sex work includes opposition to men who do it. It's not inherently gendered except for the risk of pregnancy. Prostitution is a profession that generates significant social externalities. Happy normal men and women overwhelmingly do not choose to do sex work. Sex, for humans, has emotional and relational factors that make sucking dicks for 12 hours a day very different from stacking rocks for 12 hours a day even if one of them makes your arms more tired. Legalizing prostitution would technically allow men and women more autonomy, but it also steeply increases the demand curve for hooking (ref: Amsterdam and Germany). Hooking is a really dirty and dangerous job because men that buy hookers are mostly not that normal, plus STDs etc. Increasing demand for hookers does not increase the supply of happy hookers - normal men and women don't become any more eager to take it up the butt for $ - and it leads to hookers making less money individually, because now they can't even charge their danger pay for the legal risk. Nobody is going to willingly hook for less money. So hookers have to be created by force. This spreads the basic misery of the job out over an even bigger body of hookers, who now include a lot of Romanian and Vietnamese girls who don't even speak their john's language and don't understand that the cops would help them. The net result is a larger negative social externality, not less. I guess the johns are happy but they could have just jerked off for the same result. It's not really about sexual autonomy but about labour autonomy. Nobody is telling these women not to fuck who they want. It's just that money can't be part of it.

Legal brothels under the Nordic Model require the sex workers use condoms, and I've already mentioned that I've spoken to East Germans about East German brothels, where the majority of women are trafficked, because the local women that might have been willing to engage in sex work wanted to be paid better than women kidnapped by criminal syndicates. Imagine my shock, discovering that criminal syndicates that are already involved in massive drug, contraband, and weapon trafficking operations might also be involved in human and sex trafficking!

In the US, such syndicates can be prosecuted under RICO statues, and the human trafficking occurring at the US/Mexico border is under those kinds of investigations, among others. Germany has also passed laws mandating workplace inspections, mandatory condom use, banned gang-bangs and flat-rate brothels, sets minimum standards for hygiene and safety, and gives sex workers access to gov't funded health checkups.

And "social externalities" doesn't mean anything, when you aren't presenting anything that proves that prohibition of sex work makes women safer than the legalization of sex work. You haven't shown anything that indicates that legalization will have women beating down the doors of brothels, depressing the going rates, and impoverishing the existing sex workers.

You also sound, exactly like every other anti-sex-work person in the thread, exactly like the religious right, demanding that women be protected from their own sexual and reproductive agency, except when it aligns with your interests, so I'm going to repeat myself - Her body, Her choice.

PS - "Labour autonomy" can and does include "sexual autonomy", if you're treating a woman as a competent agent, in her own right.

Yes, both are extremely exploitative industries; radical feminism is a small extension of Marxism, so of course most of us will have sympathy for the working class.

When a miner dies of blacklung, it's considered a failure of the industry, and things are changed to become safer.
When a prostitute dies, it's considered the cost of business. Nobody considers it out of the ordinary or changes anything.

Call this optimistic, but I'm going to bet that if Robert Pickton had been forced to go to regulated, legal brothels, he wouldn't have been nearly as able to coax women to his farm, where he immediately murdered them and fed them to his pigs. In fact, being forced to rely entirely on a smaller pool of streetwalkers would have likely brought vastly more attention to his actions, much faster.

Also, in construction, they budget in the lost hours associated with injuries, illnesses, and deaths, for all bids. They simply don't leave it out in the open, and euphemize it. I'd bet it happens in crab fishing, and all sorts of other, predominantly male, high-risk professions.
 
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I'm obviously not being literal when I say that professional porn only comes from southern california, but I'm saying that the porn studio system that results in the abuses that you're talking about is based there and most pornography isn't coming from that system. The economy of porn is much more dispersed.

I'm not going to make any assumptions about how old you are, but you have a boomer's understanding of the economic systems at play, which is made very clear by your imaginary distinction between "camgirls" and "porn actresses." Girls are not fantasizing about moving across the country to do become studio girls for Hustler like Jenna Jameson or whatever - they're opening Patreons, verified pornhub accounts, premium snapchats, onlyfans accounts and clips4sale stores to peddle their wares. They want to be chic porn "influencers" like Julia Rose and Belle Delphine who operate out of their bedrooms. This is important to understand because that's what third/fourth wavers are talking about when they say that sex work and prostitution is liberating. If you just wanted to say that porn is bad, I'm with you, but the I think your implication was that third wave feminism is pro-pornography, and it is - but not the kind of industrialized porn that you're talking about. They're not going to talk badly about any consensual pornography because they're doing the whole "sexual freedom, anything goes" routine, but it's intellectually dishonest to act like they're seriously promoting the likes of Kink.Com or Evil Angel and the like, much less the Max Hardcores of the world.

Nah, I'm in my 20's. You just keep conflating two subsets of porn that have nothing to do with each other. Getting gangbanged at a set and taking coochie photos are completely two different jobs. The girl taking coochie photos or solo dildoing a cam show is clearly more "liberated". However, there will always be the girl that will opt to go get gangbanged. That is the girl I am talking about. You seem to think that porn production companies are magically going to die because someone like Belle Delphine has a patreon. Not gonna happen. As long as these production companies are going to pay girls to make movies, the girls are going to be there. This was the whole goofy argument that people had with record labels and the internet. Record labels still exist in the days of patreon, youtube, itunes, torrents, etc. Artists still willingly sign to them even though there are more independent routes one could take.

I wasn't even trying to make a political statement about porn. There will always be women that will sell their body in a myriad of ways. They usually have had fucked up lives but you can't stop them, so whatever. I don't feel like it is anyone's right to stop them either. I do think it is nearly always predatory and will have negative psychological effects on the woman. Cam girl or gang bang. It isn't an ideal job was really my whole point.
 
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I mean, men are 93% of all workplaces fatalities in the US, the vast majority of crippling workplace injuries, 78% of murder victims, and the overwhelming majority of victims of violent crime. You were saying something, though?

I won't claim to know what it does to the figures myself, but does anyone know what the difference is if prostituted women and surrogates are included in the stats for "workplace" injuries and fatalities?
 
I won't claim to know what it does to the figures myself, but does anyone know what the difference is if prostituted women and surrogates are included in the stats for "workplace" injuries and fatalities?

I'm going to guess that it's a "dark number" since a lot of women might not admit to ever having engaged in prostitution or porn, in exactly the same way that lifetime DV victimization of men is a "dark number", because men never used to be willing to admit it occurred.
 
this thread has been interesting/entertaining as hell.

i think its a pitiful fucking shame that if I wanna read a good balls-out discussion about feminism among a variety of ppl who have actually thought deeply about it (the kind of discussions you could find on internet bulletin boards back in the day), i gotta go to what i am told is a "troll site".

the state of the 'discourse' my friends.

i think its a lot of the problem. nobody even knows what "feminism" means anymore because ppl feefees get hurt during these intense discussions, so nobody is allowed to discuss it anymore.

consequently, people getting more stupid.
 
this thread has been interesting/entertaining as hell.

i think its a pitiful fucking shame that if I wanna read a good balls-out discussion about feminism among a variety of ppl who have actually thought deeply about it (the kind of discussions you could find on internet bulletin boards back in the day), i gotta go to what i am told is a "troll site".

the state of the 'discourse' my friends.

i think its a lot of the problem. nobody even knows what "feminism" means anymore because ppl feefees get hurt during these intense discussions, so nobody is allowed to discuss it anymore.

consequently, people getting more stupid.

This is the 2nd thread I've been in, the last 2 days, where someone has expressed that kind of sentiment, and it makes me wonder "Where did all the nazi and bigots and hatemongers I was reliably informed haunted this accursed shithole disappear too?"
 
I'll need to see citations for the post-partum effects you're claiming, as well.

Firstly you have the negative effects of IVF on genetic abnormality rate. That was roughly 2x the norm last time I was looking. That risk is well known from other IVF needs such as preimplantation genetic diagnosis.
The risks of harvesting eggs are significant. 5% of women have some degree of ovarian hyper stimulation syndrome.
Implantation of multiple eggs increased risks of multiple births which starts ramping your risk factors up dramatically. Plus the effects of pregnancy itself, which are substantial and more importantly- unpredictable. Some women sail through pregnancy. Some vomit dozens of times a day for nine months. Some have severe and lasting effects. It’s a lottery and you dont know how you will react. To do that altruistically? Well Ok. To have ANY kind of coercion which WILL happen when money is involved is different. Again - why can’t you be paid to donate your kidneys? After all some people donate freely?

I’m assuming you aren’t a parent (please correct me if I’m wrong, it is an assumption) because if you were you’d have a very visceral response to the idea of carrying a baby then giving it away. But data is what you want. Bear in mind that western surrogacy at the moment is generally altruistic which will select for a population who are willing to undergo the procedure. This: http://abolition-ms.org/en/news/sur...exploitation-interview-with-sheela-saravanan/ is the reality in India which has commercial surrogacy. Have a read of that - that’s what happens when you introduce money. The power balance shifts.

This: https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/full/10.1111/j.0963-7214.2006.00412.x
Archive: http://archive.is/54i7r

Is quite a nice article accessible to the layperson about the neurobiology of bonding.

Am I anti adoption? No. Children here aren't adopted out unless they have very serious issues at home. It’s a last resort thing - there aren’t many newborns either, most adoptees needing family are older and many are extremely challenging and need specialist experienced foster families.


thus far, no one has presented data that shows that legalized prostitution is more dangerous than illegal prostitution.

No one has presented the converse either. What’s clear from Germany is that the number of women who are willing to service the demand isn’t enough when demand is unfettered, and so trafficking increases. We need to ask what legalisation says about us as a society. It says that bodies are for sale and women are chattel, and for fucking.

Thank feminists in favour of self-ID as the sole threshold for "being trans."

Yes exactly. Third wavers. The whole intersectional bollocks and putting men first. That can fuck off. Liberal third wave feminism is a nightmare for women. However that is NOT what many feminists stand for. Feminists like Meghan Murphy are getting real flack for pointing out the madness of trans ideology. In the Uk, the type of feminist I probably am are leading the revolt against it. We aren’t raving man haters. We want fairness and sensible, safe legislation. Most of us have probably never even thought of ourselves as particularly feminist until this trans stuff happened and showed us that our rights were about to be repealed.

The media has done a brilliant job of turning feminism into either a joke (hello third wavers, with ya pole dancing empowerment and your naked brexit interviews!) or as a hive mind hellbent on crushing men. This sets up yet another us v them binary thing, and the resultant squabbling is a nice distraction.

Human beings should not be for sale. Our labour and skill can be loaned. Our bodies are our own. Babies are not commodities, and nobody has a right to reproduce.
 
Not that the details here really matter, but I'm familiar with this stuff from working in the industry - I don't think Mark Handel (Khan Tusian) did the homeless van gimmick, and definitely not under the name Meatholes. He had a site called Meatholes but no vans or homeless people were involved. And the Kink routine was 100% fake, the men were all established porn actors working within strict rulesets, and they definitely still have their office space in the same way building in San Francisco and shoot throughout California.

The gonzo industry has definitely expanded, but the ease of creation of it just sort of cements how far the porn industry has moved away from these companies. Just go check pornhub's most viewed videos and see how many are from big name studios and how many are from channels that are just one girl making videos on her own/with her boyfriend. The latter is far and away the most common expression of pornography in 2019 and is definitely how young girls envision their involvement with porn when they mull it over.

I took your suggestion and checked out the thumbnails of Pornhub's most watched. A lot of it looks like basic BG cam stuff, but I'm guessing a lot of those guys come in as content trades. LA producers and Kink have access to TTS (the industry HIV-testing database). I don't know if camgirls do. Plus camming makes money by allowing fans to interact directly, which will lead to fans wanting more in a market that pays less in an environment with even less regulation than straight Porn Valley sets, which at least are pretty strict about checking ID and having a current HIV/STD test. And the market will move that way away from these vanilla scenes if it isn't already.
As that industry becomes more lucrative, it'll bring more investors, producers, suitcase pimps all taking a cut from the woman. In a couple years or less, you'll see them circus acts that would have netted them $3,000 in 2005 and clearing $600 now. Maybe.

People advocate for more regulation. Observe Nevada's legal brothel industry, which is tightly regulated. Condoms are mandated, the workers are checked weekly, they can push a bed alarm that'll bring bodyguards and bouncers immediately. They recruit saying there's unlimited earning potential. But the women working there usually have to live on prem. At Bunny Ranch/Sheri's, that costs over $1,200/month plus paying for weekly gyno exams plus their own beauty routine. The house takes half of the revenue. Whales aren't easy to catch nor even the more typical $600-$700 clients, who have 15 women to pick from. Someone could easily end up clearing $500/week or less to basically be on call 24/7.

So now instead of paying $700 and driving an hour to a somewhere in the middle of nowhere, or paying $1,200/month to live there, people are gonna say fuck it, if it's legal here, it should be in a Reno or Vegas casino and act accordingly. So now you have dudes paying less while the women are allegedly making more. Well, before the pimp's cut. The likelihood of criminal prosecution is so low that most clients don't worry about legality. Robert Kraft didn't. He cared only about convenience and cost. He went to a massage parlor near his house in Florida to get sucked off twice in 12 hours for $79/hour. Even though he owns the Patriots as part of his conglomerate, he went for the cheapest option. He and them got caught, it was publicized, and it is THAT kind of publicity that incents people to avoid illegal options.

The sex work industry likes to glamorize it as a field of unlimited agency and money, just like MLM. But there are things that cut into it: The suitcase pimp, the agent, the Webmaster. Rent to the house. Health issues. To say nothing of the mental health consequences of blowing 300-pound strangers' flaccid cocks erect enough to fuck you, or driving to set to find out that the BG you thought you had is now a BBG DP and they'll throw in an extra $200, or letting some doxx slip during DMs and worrying about your cam fan stalking you.

As far as harm reduction? Not a religious-right approach so much as a common-sense approach. As with MLM, most will fail. Seniority is a negative. Education counts for nothing. You can't put the customer-service and Internet skills on your resume. You have to pay for guys to drive you, haul your shit to scene, act as bouncers while also investing massive money and time to glam up all day so you can pretend you love rando flaccid fapping cocks for $250 or $20 tips online. No other job is like this.
 
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Firstly you have the negative effects of IVF on genetic abnormality rate. That was roughly 2x the norm last time I was looking. That risk is well known from other IVF needs such as preimplantation genetic diagnosis.
The risks of harvesting eggs are significant. 5% of women have some degree of ovarian hyper stimulation syndrome.
Implantation of multiple eggs increased risks of multiple births which starts ramping your risk factors up dramatically. Plus the effects of pregnancy itself, which are substantial and more importantly- unpredictable. Some women sail through pregnancy. Some vomit dozens of times a day for nine months. Some have severe and lasting effects. It’s a lottery and you dont know how you will react. To do that altruistically? Well Ok. To have ANY kind of coercion which WILL happen when money is involved is different. Again - why can’t you be paid to donate your kidneys? After all some people donate freely?

Which studies are you referring to on heightened genetic abnormalities in IVF? If your referring to the older studies that examined the older method (implantation via injection, or "turkey baster"), part of the reason that they no longer perform IVF via injection - because they developed a better process that reduced the risk of such defects.

I’m assuming you aren’t a parent (please correct me if I’m wrong, it is an assumption) because if you were you’d have a very visceral response to the idea of carrying a baby then giving it away. But data is what you want. Bear in mind that western surrogacy at the moment is generally altruistic which will select for a population who are willing to undergo the procedure. This: http://abolition-ms.org/en/news/sur...exploitation-interview-with-sheela-saravanan/ is the reality in India which has commercial surrogacy. Have a read of that - that’s what happens when you introduce money. The power balance shifts.

That's basically a blog post that affirms your position. And I'm a parent that has lost children to miscarriage, and may have to consider surrogacy in the future, if being able to carry safely to term isn't an option.

This: https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/full/10.1111/j.0963-7214.2006.00412.x
Archive: http://archive.li/54i7r

Is quite a nice article accessible to the layperson about the neurobiology of bonding.

That's paywalled.

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Am I anti adoption? No. Children here aren't adopted out unless they have very serious issues at home. It’s a last resort thing - there aren’t many newborns either, most adoptees needing family are older and many are extremely challenging and need specialist experienced foster families.

Children here are adopted out of the foster system, and via private arrangement. Nicholas Cruz and his brother were adopted by the family that raised him, for example.

No one has presented the converse either. What’s clear from Germany is that the number of women who are willing to service the demand isn’t enough when demand is unfettered, and so trafficking increases. We need to ask what legalisation says about us as a society. It says that bodies are for sale and women are chattel, and for fucking.

Except that that's YOUR interpretation of what it says. By the same logic, the high male mortality rates in industry, war, and more can be posited to mean that (as you mentioned) the majority of men are entirely unnecessary for the propagation of the species, and that Julie Bindel and her colleagues are 10% justified in claiming that we can safely cull the male population by 90%. I'd like to think we're both smart enough to not tread down such unethical roads.

The other interpretation of the information for Germany's legalize prostitution is that German women are unwilling to settle for the wages that the criminal syndicates are willing top provide, which means that criminals are going to criminal, and engage in human trafficking.

Yes exactly. Third wavers. The whole intersectional bollocks and putting men first. That can fuck off. Liberal third wave feminism is a nightmare for women. However that is NOT what many feminists stand for. Feminists like Meghan Murphy are getting real flack for pointing out the madness of trans ideology. In the Uk, the type of feminist I probably am are leading the revolt against it. We aren’t raving man haters. We want fairness and sensible, safe legislation. Most of us have probably never even thought of ourselves as particularly feminist until this trans stuff happened and showed us that our rights were about to be repealed.

I'm going to argue that classical liberal feminism is vastly better than your anti-agency feminism, where women are permitted to have only so much agency as you permit them. If you're referring to the Butlerian tack (poilered below), then you'll have to talk to all the feminists that ARE viscerally and vitriolically anti-man. That sentiment was also definitely found in the 2nd wave, amongst the likes of McKinnon, Brownmiller, Solanas, Dworkin, Morgan, and their contemporaries.

And so far as "trans ideology" is concerned, if it were a matter of the tiny number of people that have legitimate dysphoria/dysmorphia, I wouldn't have any issues with their pursuing their transition under their own financial steam, but I'll wholeheartedly agree that the Yaniv, et al.'s of troondom are astroturfing via social constructionist feminism, and need to be stopped.

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The media has done a brilliant job of turning feminism into either a joke (hello third wavers, with ya pole dancing empowerment and your naked brexit interviews!) or as a hive mind hellbent on crushing men. This sets up yet another us v them binary thing, and the resultant squabbling is a nice distraction.

Media didn't do anything other than report on the advocacy of feminists, and there's no end of 2nd Wave feminists that are demonstrably misandrist. The philosophical origins of Patriarchy is firmly in the 2nd Wave, amongst the Marxist Feminists that were insistent that men were the bourgeoisie, and women the proletariat, declaring men some kind of hivemind hellbent on oppressing women.

Human beings should not be for sale. Our labour and skill can be loaned. Our bodies are our own. Babies are not commodities, and nobody has a right to reproduce.

That's fascinating, but I don't think my bank account is going to be sated, nor the mortgage satisfied, by any claim that "my body is not for sale", when it's my job to build things. The rest of that is entirely an appeal to emotion, no different from Mrs. Lovejoy screaming "Won't someone please just think about the children!" on the Simpsons.

Her body, her choice. You don't have to like it, and you can demand the greatest reduction of harm possible without impeding the agency of anyone else, but I'll be damned if you'll have me agree that I'm restricted from surrogacy, if it's a viable and safe option for my family, because a pregnancy is not. The fastest solution to the issue of surrogacy is the creation of artificial wombs, which will still fall prey to your suggestion of inadequate bonding during the course of pregnancy.
 
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A Kardashian isn't exactly a representative example of the average person that needs access to surrogacy.
Okay, here's the question, though: is surrogacy a thing that is ever "needed"? What is the need for surrogacy? Is it like access to food and shelter?

And "social externalities" doesn't mean anything, when you aren't presenting anything that proves that prohibition of sex work makes women safer than the legalization of sex work. You haven't shown anything that indicates that legalization will have women beating down the doors of brothels, depressing the going rates, and impoverishing the existing sex workers.
So the point I was making is that they don't beat those doors down just because it's legal. That's why labour has to be imported and forced by gangs. The wage surpression is a feature of the demand and not the supply side. In terms of "safer", yeah, it's really hard to pull stats on that. Even legal hookers really don't like interacting with police at all, so murder rates are the most transparent they ever get. Brothel owners aren't going to advertise that their girls are stealing trick's wallets or getting raped by their valued customers. So who knows. It could be better, it could be worse. Cite stuff if you have it! I'd like to know!

You also sound, exactly like every other anti-sex-work person in the thread, exactly like the religious right, demanding that women be protected from their own sexual and reproductive agency, except when it aligns with your interests, so I'm going to repeat myself - Her body, Her choice. PS - "Labour autonomy" can and does include "sexual autonomy", if you're treating a woman as a competent agent, in her own right.
We regulate labour in a lot of ways. You can't deal drugs even if you're really good at it and like doing it. We, as a society, don't want to deal with the results of that job (screaming meth hobos under the Interstate) and don't want to encourage people to take it up. You can't work as a doctor without having really specific training and registration. That violates the autonomy of a LOT of quacks, but Western societies agree it's a rule for a reason. You can't sell most bodily fluids even though they're yours. There are lots of regulations on forms of labour that don't involve vaginas. Sex work isn't really special that way except that involves sex so people lose their minds.

Prostitution is an old profession. It's not going to go anywhere. It's going to cause damage. The question is how much damage can be mitigated and that's where these discussions get fun.

Call this optimistic, but I'm going to bet that if Robert Pickton had been forced to go to regulated, legal brothels, he wouldn't have been nearly as able to coax women to his farm, where he immediately murdered them and fed them to his pigs. In fact, being forced to rely entirely on a smaller pool of streetwalkers would have likely brought vastly more attention to his actions, much faster.
Yeah, it's :optimistic:. Part of the issue with legal prostitution models is that there will ALWAYS be black-market street hookers no matter what set-up the law actually tries to create. Paying taxes, running a clean brothel, and buying health insurance costs money that keeps brothel girls a bit more expensive vs. the girls standing on a street corner for free yelling at cars. There will always be girls, boys, and pimps who carpe that diem and try to undercut the clean houses, risking their lives and getting murdered. When you're hooking for a heroin habit you don't want to deal with anyone harshing your buzz and telling you to get tested. Pickton would have done juuuust fine. He'd probably have picked them up for cheaper, actually.
 
The fastest solution to the issue of surrogacy is the creation of artificial wombs, which will still fall prey to your suggestion of inadequate bonding during the course of pregnancy.

So...what would be fair if say at 3-4 months, this hypothetical fetus is diagnosed with Down's syndrome or Kleinfelter's and they no longer want it? Is it fair for you in your view to just offer to pay for the abortion and if she doesn't accept, to then be free of child support obligations even though the guy's sperm created half of it? How about if the baby is born with FAS or something, do you get to nope out on paying because you asked her if she drank and she said no? What if she wants to keep it after delivering? She did put in the labor and assuming you're the bio father, you're still responsible for child support under US law as the kid had nothing to do with this. If you're going elsewhere to avoid these possibilities, how is that ethical to the kid?

You don't need to have a kid at all to survive. You don't need the kid to be biologically related to you to parent. It's a want that you're turning into a consumer product. That's the problem that 2nd-wave feminists have with it.
 
Sometimes people are never going to agree and they need to realize that arguing is pointless. If someone fundamentally believes that coercion is either non-existent or not an important element to consider when deciding if something is a choice, they are never going to agree about things like sex work or surrogacy with people who do believe those things. If a person fundamentally believes that an imbalance of financial/social capital doesn't effect a person's choices they are never going to agree with a philosophy that does. Some people think individually and others don't. Some people's minds can't be changed.
 
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