Lolcow Timothy "TJ" Church / Cowlick - Failed Literotica Writer &/or Null's Best Friend

Sigyn said:
See, I think it would just fuel his victim complex and provoke white knights (should they even exist). There has to be a compromise in this situation, a middle ground. Anyone have any ideas?
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MrsFrizzle said:
It's trivial to find Mr. Church's address (and landline number). But only a jerk would act on that information!
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I agree with @MrsFrizzle , and I would ask staff before doxing anyone.

As for white knights, I think TJ's health is a much bigger concern. The dude is fading away and no one seems to be intervening. His defenders would slay internet trolls while letting him slowly die fade away from failing health. Besides, where were his knights when he was on lit-erotica? If any knights want to help TJ, get him to a doctor and off the internet.

Although, I have a feeling he comes here for two reasons - attention and interaction. If he is being allowed to deteriorate to this point, I worry that in real life almost no one there may actually care about him. :(
 
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@AWB-81 , that's a really good point. Hey, If the dude who had his info is still there, maybe use it to contact some sort of health or psych support organization in his area. Someone who can help him. I think that would be the kindest and most efficient thing anyone could do to get him the help he needs and (hopefully) off of this forum.

http://www.nami.org/Template.cfm?section=Find_Support

This would be a really good one to contact because There's a NAMI Center in pretty much every big city/state. Either that or a community outreach/volunteer program.
 
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Sigyn said:
@AWB-81 , that's a really good point. Hey, If the dude who had his info is still there, maybe use it to contact some sort of health or psych support organization in his area. Someone who can help him. I think that would be the kindest and most efficient thing anyone could do to get him the help he needs and (hopefully) off of this forum.
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I almost made that mistake with a cow myself. It has a bad ending too. The best thing to do is ask staff. If ever in doubt ask them!

It is good to care, but also remember that TJ may not fair quite well if that type of approach is used. It is a no win.
 
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Yeah, I see your point. But which way is worse? Letting him harrass others or trying to get him help? I'm certainly not going to contact anyone cause I've had it happen and it sucks, but with his extreme delusions of grandeur he could justify anything he does to himself and that's dangerous. Can I ask what happened to the cow you mentioned? I don't need names, but like, were they hurt or was someone else? @AWB-81
 
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I've heard that most organizations which purport to offer help will tend to use an overly aggressive approach. For example, if someone's possibly suicidal, they may send cop cars instead of ambulances. One only needs to dredge up that video of the university lecture on why you should never talk to the police to see how that will go awry, especially given how feeling as if the world's against you can make a person prone to an argumentative nature. I don't know to what extent this might be an issue, but it occurs to me that malignant entities oftentimes can pose as such care groups (for example, Scientology ran an anti-cult hotline, because hypocrisy isn't in the OT dictionary).
 
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The anti-cult hotline that Scientology ran, the Cult Awareness Network (CAN), was originally founded in part by Scientology survivors and was then forced out of business by the CoS. They then bought up the name and started using it to push their message. It's not just hypocrisy, it's an actual act of vengeance.
 
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Yeah, I can see how that would be an issue. And the reason I put NAMI is because it is a reputable, trusted mental health organization that I use for therapy referrals for my PTSD. In my experience using their services, they've always been good and understanding of the need for sensitivity and compassion. Very unthreatening. Then again, I'm in sunny Los Angeles, and as a major city we tend to take mental health a lot more seriously than say, Ruckersville would for CWC's health. Not sure where Teej lives, but I don't think it matters. I'm just saying that if it comes down to it and he's a danger to himself or others and it's only escalating further, NAMI would be a very good place to contact because while they may not intervene directly, they do have the resources to point someone in the right direction of what to do. But yeah, I agree that staff should be contacted first.
 
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TJ's actually given out his state in his blog. Speaking of which, I really wish he'd open that up again. As long as we don't pester him on there, I don't see what the big deal is with an added readership. If he really enjoyed writing enough to brag about his prowess to such consequence, you'd think he'd be above the censorship of hiding it from anybody. But then there's that paranoia again, and so he treats the internet like his own personal diary. You get where people get these impressions from, given what other sites are available and what gets green lit for television, but still, without even the ironic readers, it's kind of lonesome.
 
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Yeah, I can see how that would be an issue. And the reason I put NAMI is because it is a reputable, trusted mental health organization that I use for therapy referrals for my PTSD. In my experience using their services, they've always been good and understanding of the need for sensitivity and compassion. Very unthreatening. Then again, I'm in sunny Los Angeles, and as a major city we tend to take mental health a lot more seriously than say, Ruckersville would for CWC's health. Not sure where Teej lives, but I don't think it matters. I'm just saying that if it comes down to it and he's a danger to himself or others and it's only escalating further, NAMI would be a very good place to contact because while they may not intervene directly, they do have the resources to point someone in the right direction of what to do. But yeah, I agree that staff should be contacted first.
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He's from the Cleveland metro area so he should have some resources available to him. Mm, yeah.
 
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UPDATE: He's online right now, posting his usual rant and has updated his thread once more:

I stopped reading after you incorrectly said both were acceptable. They may be acceptable to you, but not the majority of people. Also, if low-quality work like those mistakes are acceptable to you, then you certainly should have accepted my original thread the first time I submitted it. (I still have it saved on this computer, so if you apologize & beg enough, I might submit it in its old spot again.)

Also, auto-correct or not, you did type the wrong word the first time & I know you did because I got it that way. I was lying about the auto-correct the same way you were lying about not making the mistake the first time (the same way you can now lie about the mistake you made this time, adding an apostrophe to the word "rejections" when lying by saying people take yours to heart... Or when you wrote a false claim about my "lying" with an exclamation point & a blank line in the middle of the word).

Lastly, I "get out" plenty... Not out of the closet like you, but out among people, where they talk so you aren't aware if they spell properly or like... Well, you.
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Discuss.
 
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Cowlick said:
I've only read the last few posts, but much of it seems to be discussion about people/things, & not at all random.

Maybe that's because the forums are "ran" (run) by "dom" people (who think that is how to spell the word).
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I didn't think it possible, but you somehow made Discussion even more retarded than it was before. gg Teej!
 
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Cowlick said:
I've only read the last few posts, but much of it seems to be discussion about people/things, & not at all random.

Maybe that's because the forums are "ran" (run) by "dom" people (who think that is how to spell the word).
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What is your opinion on Chris's current situation? Do you think he'll be going to jail?
 
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Cowlick said:
I've only read the last few posts, but much of it seems to be discussion about people/things, & not at all random.

Maybe that's because the forums are "ran" (run) by "dom" people (who think that is how to spell the word).
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Reading comprehension. Get you some.
 
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