r/FemdomCommunity

[TaimuRadiu]

Want your girl to maybe "force" you to get on your knees and lick her pussy? Fine

Want your girl to literally pierce your testicles? Uhhhhhhhh

 

[OB 946]

Jesus Christ.
I'm one for open-mindness and free kinks (as long as they are SSC) but why the fuck those autists have to make their life all about a kink?
Showcases how sad, pathetic and empty they actually are.

A lot of the time the "full time" doms are legit sociopaths and are legitimately abusive to their subs. OP is a fucking autist sperging about the "BDSM community" but he's right when he says these people are fucking crazy as shit. Full time D/s relationships are heavily frowned upon by most people into BDSM due to the inherent lack of consent. How can someone consent to being a fucking full time slave? How can you have a safe word when you are literally treated as property of another person? It's super fucked up and goes against safe sex practices, especially safe BDSM in which consent at every step is a must.

Edit: As always on the internet, most of this shit seems like wank fiction, and after looking over some of the threads it seems relatively tame with a handful of wtf outliers. It's a kink group, they are into kinks. Maybe a megathread of all weirdo, extreme BDSM fetishists would be better, that way you can accumulate things from all of Reddit's kink groups. Now that would be a spicy thread. Tbh I think most of the funniest content has already been posted, I don't see this one subreddit churning out enough ball-piercing content to keep the thread alive.

 

[Takodachi]

I'm getting some awful deja vu. Didnt we have a similar thread?

 

[Monika H.]

A lot of the time the "full time" doms are legit sociopaths and are legitimately abusive to their subs. OP is a fucking autist sperging about the "BDSM community" but he's right when he says these people are fucking crazy as shit. Full time D/s relationships are heavily frowned upon by most people into BDSM due to the inherent lack of consent. How can someone consent to being a fucking full time slave? How can you have a safe word when you are literally treated as property of another person? It's super fucked up and goes against safe sex practices, especially safe BDSM in which consent at every step is a must.

I agree with you and this actually ties in with what I said about not making a kink one's lifestyle.
I mean, most couples enjoy weird stuff in the bedroom, I do too but that's where it stays - in the bedroom.
Outside we are too busy being actual decent and productive member of society.

 

[OB 946]

I agree with you and this actually ties in with what I said about not making a kink one's lifestyle.
I mean, most couples enjoy weird stuff in the bedroom, I do too but that's where it stays - in the bedroom.
Outside we are too busy being actual decent and productive member of society.

Yeah same. I don't think most people, especially young people, stick to missionary in the dark. For that reason I really try to not kinkshame that hard. That being said the extreme ones, the lifestyle ones, are almost invariably insane, like honest-to-got batshit out of their mind. A good example is that one couple into DD/lg in the UK that managed to convince the NHS to give them free diapers for their kink, I think Jim made a video about them. A lot of them live on government hand outs and don't have a family or real job to take care of, letting them spend all their free time on complete degeneracy.

 

[Monika H.]

Yeah same. I don't think most people, especially young people, stick to missionary in the dark. For that reason I really try to not kinkshame that hard. That being said the extreme ones, the lifestyle ones, are almost invariably insane, like honest-to-got batshit out of their mind. A good example is that one couple into DD/lg in the UK that managed to convince the NHS to give them free diapers for their kink, I think Jim made a video about them. A lot of them live on government hand outs and don't have a family or real job to take care of, letting them spend all their free time on complete degeneracy.

That's because when they were little nobody taught them about differentiating "work/duty time" with "play/fun time". Those same rules apply to adult life, and healthy human beings apply that to kinks too.
It's so basic smh.

 

[sweet-cereal-killer]

Maybe a megathread of all weirdo, extreme BDSM fetishists would be better, that way you can accumulate things from all of Reddit's kink groups. Now that would be a spicy thread. Tbh I think most of the funniest content has already been posted, I don't see this one subreddit churning out enough ball-piercing content to keep the thread alive.

One megathread of all BDSM crazy of reddit? Sounds good. What subs (pun unintended) would go into it, aside from r/FemdomCommunity? Or I could just post links and screenshots from a few and let people post whatever they find?

 

[OB 946]

One megathread of all BDSM crazy of reddit? Sounds good. What subs (pun unintended) would go into it, aside from r/FemdomCommunity? Or I could just post links and screenshots from a few and let people post whatever they find?

Yeah I mean you could literally name it like "reddit BDSM community" or something. I don't browse reddit so I don't know what subs they have but I'm sure it's plenty.

 

[sweet-cereal-killer]

Yeah I mean you could literally name it like "reddit BDSM community" or something. I don't browse reddit so I don't know what subs they have but I'm sure it's plenty.

Aren't there already similar threads? Maybe it's just of the individual communities...

 

[WW 635]

Aren't there already similar threads? Maybe it's just of the individual communities...

This thread could be edited for that. But one big thing that really needs to happen for this thread to work at all is to make the OP less angry-sounding. Right now it's still coming off like one of those OPs where someone makes a thread about some political group they don't like, except this one is about kinks. Having a kink (which BDSM isn't an unusual one) isn't in and of itself very thread-worthy. However, communities that have a said kink and sperg out about it can be funny (see the period fetishists thread: https://kiwifarms.net/threads/period-fetishists-on-fetlife.51278/) but it really needs to be something more beyond just a general discussion of a topic.

 

[Monika H.]

Maybe take example from the poly thread - lower the vitriol, and post some caps of some community drama if you can find it.

 

[Vampirella]

Aren't there already similar threads? Maybe it's just of the individual communities...

Even looking in to /r/sex on reddit can get you some good stuff. There was a while when they always pushed anal, to the point that if your girlfriend didn't like anal they would suggest breaking up with her because need aren't being met. The "sex life" of redditors is really kind of sad.

 

[sweet-cereal-killer]

Even looking in to /r/sex on reddit can get you some good stuff. There was a while when they always pushed anal, to the point that if your girlfriend didn't like anal they would suggest breaking up with her because need aren't being met. The "sex life" of redditors is really kind of sad.

I saw a thread once where this chick said... well an anal experience went badly, something about... things coming out of her butt... another one said she vomited during sex and felt the need to share the embarrassment.
Yep, there are some gems to be found over there.

 

[Monika H.]

Even looking in to /r/sex on reddit can get you some good stuff. There was a while when they always pushed anal, to the point that if your girlfriend didn't like anal they would suggest breaking up with her because need aren't being met. The "sex life" of redditors is really kind of sad.

That's because they are so selfish they have no idea that an healthy, long-lasting relationship relies on compromise - inside the bed and out.

 

[WW 635]

I saw a thread once where this chick said... well an anal experience went badly, something about... things coming out of her butt... another one said she vomited during sex and felt the need to share the embarrassment.
Yep, there are some gems to be found over there.

You really need to focus a thread though. If you're making a femdom or BDSM CW thread then rando buttleakage posts aren't going to work to well. Also if the OP isn't restructured then it's not going past PG, so that is probably where you should concentrate your efforts right now.

 

[sweet-cereal-killer]

You really need to focus a thread though. If you're making a femdom or BDSM CW thread then rando buttleakage posts aren't going to work to well. Also if the OP isn't restructured then it's not going past PG, so that is probably where you should concentrate your efforts right now.

Alright, other than making the OP less angry I also need a focus instead of a "reddit BDSM community general"? Like specific fetishes, a particular type of lolcow...?
I get what you mean about the OP, I am not so sure about the rest.

 

[WW 635]

Alright, other than making the OP less angry I also need a focus instead of a "reddit BDSM community general"? Like specific fetishes, a particular type of lolcow...?
I get what you mean about the OP, I am not so sure about the rest.

If you want to focus on a more "reddit BDSM community general" thread then that could be doable with this one since you're already part of the way there. r/femdom has some lulzy posts but overall it might not be enough to sustain a CW thread unless there's some actual community drama. You and others will have a better time finding content if you expand into something more general, which allows for other subreddit posts to be included (like the reddit trans community thread).

I would suggest digging around for other similar reddit communities that might have content (like r/sex which is already suggested) and adding those to the OP to make it easier for others to find. Another suggestion is to also dig around for more of the unusual stuff. Femdom and BDSM in general aren't exactly unusual fetishes BUT there are definitely some very unusual people in those communities. It's kinda a matter of what stands out as extreme for that type of thing.

If you would like some help putting this together PM me and I will help you work on it.

 

[Hecate]

may i suggest possibly a thread focusing more on the crazy women of reddit bdsm communities? not r/femdom in particular, but more a general thread. most of the time that i see people screengrabbing and laughing about the bdsm community on reddit its about the men.
that might limit the amount of content you can find, as i imagine the venn diagram of women into bdsm, that use reddit, and also talk about it is probably small, but i think it would be pretty easy to find other weird communities like this by just checking the accounts of the posters on r/femdom and following the breadcrumbs.

just a thought though, i dont use reddit enough to know if this would be a good road to follow for laughs

 

[WW 635]

may i suggest possibly a thread focusing more on the crazy women of reddit bdsm communities? not r/femdom in particular, but more a general thread. most of the time that i see people screengrabbing and laughing about the bdsm community on reddit its about the men.
that might limit the amount of content you can find, as i imagine the venn diagram of women into bdsm, that use reddit, and also talk about it is probably small, but i think it would be pretty easy to find other weird communities like this by just checking the accounts of the posters on r/femdom and following the breadcrumbs.

Why not laugh about men and women? You can always add content about crazy women in the BSDM community to this one without limiting other's ability to find content.

 

[sweet-cereal-killer]

@Cricket Thanks, I know a few more communities of the same type with exceptional individuals. Maybe this thread could be a "reddit kinky horror & drama general" for all exceptional reddit kinky people?

There's some funny drama on r/sugarlifestyleforum with sugar daddies and sugar babies complaining the other doesn't notice their personality and only wants sex/money and them going at each other, on the BDSM subs you have people posting things like "my sub has PTSD from a sexual trauma. Is it healthy for me to degrade them sexually?"
Another good one is r/SexWorkers. The others don't have as much drama going one that I've noticed but this one is full of feminazis and drama. On r/SexWorkers they are all feminists and at the same time, they think that a job that objectifies them is liberating. It's funny to watch them try to rationalize that one.

I don't want this to be an anti kink and anti sex thread. I would like it to be about those exceptional people take take kink waaay too far and promote it as being the best thing in the world and you aren't allowed to disagree. They act like they are better than everyone else.