Me and my bestie saw a chick today wearing a shirt with "Less gender roles, more sushi rolls" on it (she was ok-looking otherwise, with a terminal resting bitch face, tho) - I wonder if she realises how dumb it is to wear this in fucking Russia (then again, local sjws also wear those obnoxious NASA logo shirts, so...).
Nah, she was local - or, specifically, from asian part of the country, or mixed, she had that "a korean somewhere in immediate ancestry except not" look they have.
And oh, we do have SJWs, they mostly do crap online (partially took over a site I liked T_T) and 50% of what they spew are translations of shit american SJWs say - without even thinking it doesn't apply to life here...but they exist. Especially here in Moscw.
I still can't believe that there's tolerance for actual SJWs in Russia. Stop fucking around and come home to America before you get shot for being gay or something...
I still can't believe that there's tolerance for actual SJWs in Russia. Stop fucking around and come home to America before you get shot for being gay or something...
they're tolerated because most russians don't even know it's a thing. although you can maybe meet a couple in the wild (moscow and st. petersburg, especially).
there are a lot of them in vk if you know where to look, but they don't have balls to speak up offline unless they're lecturing you one-on-one.
Me and my bestie saw a chick today wearing a shirt with "Less gender roles, more sushi rolls" on it (she was ok-looking otherwise, with a terminal resting bitch face, tho) - I wonder if she realises how dumb it is to wear this in fucking Russia (then again, local sjws also wear those obnoxious NASA logo shirts, so...).
But I thought rigid "gender roles" are how you identify tranny eggs or whatever they call them--people who clearly are trans because it's a girl who likes guns or a guy who likes arranging flowers?
I still can't believe that there's tolerance for actual SJWs in Russia. Stop fucking around and come home to America before you get shot for being gay or something...
I guess powerleveling is inevitable in a thread like this just because of the topic we're discussing, but fair warning anyway.
I attended group therapy for some personal shit I was going through a couple of years ago. And let me tell you, outside of academia, I'm pretty sure the place you will find the largest group of SJW type people is in group therapy. Not in regular one on one therapy mind you, in group therapy specifically because that's where they can whine about fake oppression and give each other asspats for being so brave in an "oppressive male patriarchy"
Anyway, I was the only dude in the room of 14 people. Plenty of the girls there "identified" as men, but I was the only one with an actual fucking penis. Pretty much every one of them identified as some variation of nonbinary and most of them looked like some bizarre amalgamation of male and female. I think the funniest thing about the 6 months I was there was the time we had to almost cancel the entire program because one day someone accidentally "misgendered" another girl by calling her a fucking girl and half of the group left because they "didn't feel safe" in group therapy anymore. The second notable thing I remember was when I met one of those godforsaken creatures outside of the therapy group. I was at a con with a couple of buddies when she (it?) approached me out of the blue. It was this one girl with a completely shaved head and she said that she didn't know I enjoyed going to conventions. I gave her a non-answer and fucked off as fast as I could. The next time day she was telling me how much fun she had and how she was blowing a dude in the hotel bathroom.
I have plenty of stories from that hellhole, like the time a straight-up redneck teenage dude got put in the therapy group. If anyone is interested.
I guess powerleveling is inevitable in a thread like this just because of the topic we're discussing, but fair warning anyway.
I attended group therapy for some personal shit I was going through a couple of years ago. And let me tell you, outside of academia, I'm pretty sure the place you will find the largest group of SJW type people is in group therapy. Not in regular one on one therapy mind you, in group therapy specifically because that's where they can whine about fake oppression and give each other asspats for being so brave in an "oppressive male patriarchy"
Anyway, I was the only dude in the room of 14 people. Plenty of the girls there "identified" as men, but I was the only one with an actual fucking penis. Pretty much every one of them identified as some variation of nonbinary and most of them looked like some bizarre amalgamation of male and female. I think the funniest thing about the 6 months I was there was the time we had to almost cancel the entire program because one day someone accidentally "misgendered" another girl by calling her a fucking girl and half of the group left because they "didn't feel safe" in group therapy anymore. The second notable thing I remember was when I met one of those godforsaken creatures outside of the therapy group. I was at a con with a couple of buddies when she (it?) approached me out of the blue. It was this one girl with a completely shaved head and she said that she didn't know I enjoyed going to conventions. I gave her a non-answer and fucked off as fast as I could. The next time day she was telling me how much fun she had and how she was blowing a dude in the hotel bathroom.
I have plenty of stories from that hellhole, like the time a straight-up redneck teenage dude got put in the therapy group. If anyone is interested.
I think the funniest thing about the 6 months I was there was the time we had to almost cancel the entire program because one day someone accidentally "misgendered" another girl by calling her a fucking girl and half of the group left because they "didn't feel safe" in group therapy anymore.
This made me bit sad. The whole point of group therapy is that it’s a safe place to be horrible, uncomfortable and talk about socially unacceptable topics. You get talk about your problems that most people don’t get or that makes them uncomfortable, hearing what similar but different experiences or feelings others have and what coping mechanism others use or recommend. Making mistakes, having hard time finding right words and wierd feelings, all that should be uncomfortable and emotionally unsafe, that’s why it works. You are meant have situation where it’s safe to be very faulty and imperfect human being so you cn figure out how to be a better one. I think many people just hear the term “safe space” and really don’t understand what type of safe is being talked about here.
Alright, this is one of my other favorite stories from my time in group therapy. I believe it was about 3 weeks into our 6-month program and the group was still bringing in new members on a weekly basis. On this particular day, my jaw just about dropped when I saw another actual man walk into the group therapy office. He looked like your stereotypical redneck from the midwest. A long mullet with a Harley-Davidson T-shirt and a camo hat that had something pro-gun-related on it. I can’t quite remember but it was something like “Protected by the 2nd amendment” or something along those lines.
If I'm being honest, I felt kind of bad for the guy. The tension was fucking palpable when he walked into the room. It was like watching a gazelle get stared down by a pack of hungry lions. For the sake of anonymity, I’ll just call the guy Cletus. Now, Cletus was obviously just as intimidated by them as they were by him. After coming from a farming town up north in the middle of bumfuck nowhere, I’m pretty sure he thought that he had entered Bizzaro world when he walked in and the first thing he saw was a room full of girls with shaved heads and exorbitant amounts of body hair.
I wish I could tell you a whole treasure trove of stories about Cletus but sadly he only lasted one day. Now, what could cause him to leave after only one day? It’s very simple, he walked to his seat, sat down and turned to the girl next to him (Coincidently the same girl with the shaved head) and asked the one question that any redneck thrust into a similar situation would ask. “Are you a guy or a girl?” This lead to the entire room erupting into a frenzy as every singly shemale in the room attempted to chastise the poor guy for his lack of knowledge on the intricacies of the gender spectrum. A couple of girls ran out of the room because it was “too much” and the two group leaders we had gave up and ended the group early after 15 minutes of trying to calm people down.
Cletus had this “What the fuck is happening here?” look on his face throughout the entire ordeal and I never saw him again after his first and only day in the group. Hopefully, this gives you an idea of what group therapy for young adults is like should any of you choose to attend.
Thanks for the stories but I was curious if they have counselors for one-on-one sessions. I would hate to be in Cletus shoes and join a counseling group then find out it's Tumblr IRL.
Got an acquaintance that definitely taps into social justice and black pride (I don't think she's full on WE WUZ KANGS, but she definitely thinks about this a lot). Her insta likes have a lot of "Black Gurl Magiccccc WE KWEENS WE RULIN" stuff to it and she's gone on about privilege before. Told me that my general race was usually pretty privileged in some random conversation about racism. Not entirely wrong, but definitely from a skewed viewpoint imo.
Today this group conversation turned to whores. Apparently a friend of a friend does BJs for $60. Well. I cheekily told everyone that I preferred top dollar hoes. Probably due to facetious group pity, I was assured I'd never need to pay for sex. I definitely needed to make the conversation worse, so I claimed that I had a great need for hot Russian bombshells with double Ds.
"Wait? Why Russians?! Why not Africans?!" She was previously sitting pretty far from me, but she'd gotten up to get real close to my chair. She then started listing off other (nonwhite) nationalities while someone inquired about Wakandans and briefly hijacked the convo to make BP jokes. However, she was still laughing her ass off with the rest of us idiots. Good fun.
Not as nearly as exciting as the stories told here, but as my first encounter with a SJW that hit me really hard.
Been working in a hotel bar for a couple of months when the meeting happened. This owerweight, rosegold-haired american woman sits at the counters and orders a whiskey on the rocks. She starts blabbering how she doesn't like sweet drinks and pink stuff because they are always associated with women and that’s anti-LGBT
Not getting the point I just nod and proceed making other drinks.
She then starts digging deeper and asking personal questions: where are you from? What do you do here? How much you make a month? And so on.
Why does every american i meet at this goddamn bar want to know our income? why is it so important to you guys?
She asks me if I have a bf. I say yes. She asks if he's the same narionality as me. I say no, I can see se got triggered, so i just decide to drop the bomb on her: "he's from Motherland Russia"
She suddenly slams her hand on the counter, scarying the shit out of my manager that was making coffee right behind me, and goes on an hour-long rant that i'll summarize in two main points:
1) all the Russians are scum and want to bomb America and rule the world with their army of Chernobyl Bears;
2) I am even worse than the Russians because I’m cultural appropriating, cultural shaming him and his country.
Her last words were “It’s like you rape him every time you meet”
Yup, though everywhere you go, people will ask you what you do for a living and try to extrapolate how much you make with followup questions. It's a terrible question to ask anyone who's not 100% happy with their line of work or doesn't have a glamorous job since things inevitably get awkward, so I don't even know why it's the defacto question everyone asks.
Thanks for the stories but I was curious if they have counselors for one-on-one sessions. I would hate to be in Cletus shoes and join a counseling group then find out it's Tumblr IRL.
Oh, they had 1 on 1 counseling. The reason I even attended group therapy was because my personal counselor was one of the people who led group therapy.
((minor powerleveling ahead and rambles since I'm back from a party and drunk as shit.))
Another story since I recently realised one of my (ex) close friends is a massive cow. We've not spoken like one on one in a few months now but we've not like, fallen out but I don't like her anymore. She has quite a big following on Instagram and Twitter, 10K+ on each and has recently became quite popular for sharing 'raw' pictures about mental health. She also has a Tumblr filled with SJW shit.
Let's call her Alexa. We met a few years ago and immediately bonded. Alexa likes to be the victim in everything and anything yet she is a complete narcissist. She evolved from being an open minded girl to being an arrogant, 'bisexual', men-hating Tinder slag, munchie who is obsessed with being right, having a 'lit' Instagram and thinking everything is a slight against her.
MEN R TRASH
As a feminist, Alexa is all about uplifting and empowering woman aka by calling anything done by a cis straight white guy offensive even if the woman/minority is in the wrong. She went from being someone who calls themselves a feminist because they believe in equality to the type of person who gets annoyed if more male authors are on a 'top 10' list than female ones.
She's 'bi' and speaks a lot about being 'proud' of being bi and talking about how much she HATES MEN and how all men are EVIL TRASH who deserve to DIE yet she has never dated a woman and always seems to go on Tinder dates with guys, never girls. I think Alexa once met a girl from Tinder but as a 'friend', like wtf? Her Tinder obsession is hilarious. Obviously, females (and gay guys) DO get a lot of creepy messages on Tinder and I've had many-a-friends send me screenshots of utter arseholes sliding into their DMs with downright disgusting messages but Alexa would screenshot very innocent guys trying to talk to her not only for the groupchat but to share on all her social media.
Despite being massively man hating she has been OBSESSED with a number of guys. Yet as soon as the 'relationship' ends she talks shit about them and if they've been properly dating she always says they're manipulative or abusive. I recall once she decided to 'press pause' on something as she had a lot of uni deadlines yet when she was seeing someone else when they did the exact same thing to her she said they fucking gaslight her... like... okay Alexa.
Recently, she has been dating a really boring guy who she is head over heels in love with. Ironically, she's had messages from not one but two girls saying he's bad news. As Alexa is a feminist you'd think she would believe and uplift other woman but no she has actually labelled them 'psycho' (despite getting angry at guys for saying this) and blocked them.
MUNCHIE N PROUND
Alexa is incredibly outgoing, popular and not at all awkward in front of new people but at the same thing likes to pretend to be an 'anxious lil sinomin rowl :3' and acts like she can't speak to anyone on social media. She does live videos on Instagram at least twice a week and does spoken word irl. Of course, mental illness can often be invisible and all that shit but I know Alexa very well and I know she just likes to be a tragic mentally ill girl so anything she achieves anything (top marks in a class, getting a new job, being accepted for summer school or a workplacement) she can act like she is SO SHOCKED (despite working her butt off) because HER HEALTH HAS BEEN HELL. She recently decided she had bipolar disorder without consulting her doctor AS WELL AS 'clinical depression' because her anxiety meds got upped during last exam season. She spoke about self harm and cutting her arms, etc quite frequently yet worn sleeveless tops where she had no visible scars.
The one thing that irks me about the MH shit is that a few years back, when we were close, my MH took a nosedive and when I tried to go to her for help she was less than helpful. I think she told me to write a list of things that bothered me and speak to my doctor. No emotional support whatever. Since then, I haven't went to her about stuff like that yet she has constantly sought my help and advice about things. If I (or any of our shared friends) have spoke to her about any issues, usually as a ramble a stressful day, my comments are met with one or two words answers, or even worse: emojis !!!
In terms of physical health, she likes to give a name to every minor thing wrong with her. If anyone else has a health problem hers is 100% worse. Her being double-jointed means she is 'hypermobile' and period pain is 'dysmenorrhea'. She 100% likes to one-up people.
For example, I was experiencing problems with physical health and from looking up my problem I concluded I probably had [condition]. People in my family had [condition] and all the symptoms I had pointed towards me having this. I spoke about this with Alexa who immediately was like "oh yeah I have that and [more serious condition] LOL'. Since being diagnosed with this health condition, Alexa likes to act like she has it way worse than me.
She also made up a random eating disorder. She's quite a thin girl and I remember once she said something like 'I don't have an ED but I do have disordered eating habits like forgetting to eat when I'm stressed or eating junk food instead of proper means' but around about 10 months ago, Alexa started talking about how she had body image problems and bulimia which turned into anorexia??? Like she 100% exaggerated a time she had a bit of problem with food, undermining people with legit ED'S. It was fucking bs and then she started talking about 'trigger foods' and all this shit.
I AM THE BEST
Alexa has a massive God-complex whilst also talking about how little self esteem she has. She is a constant poster and likes to include a lot of pictures of herself. I recall once she said she was 'insecure' and liked to 'post the perfect picture' and then started posting 'realistic' pictures like her without makeup on or a picture where she was sitting down and had a bell roll - typical white girl Instagram shit. BUT THE FUNNY THING IS she started doing this after she became a full up her own arse social media addict. Beforehand, she used to constantly post 'ugly selfies' of her without makeup or her doing silly faces. She gets good grades because she's a hard worker and she admits to being ambitious. She also loves to be that guy who acts like she started an essay the day before yet still got an A in it 'without even trying' whilst she also posts about how hard she's worked and how because of how much of a muchie she is she thought she was going to be dead and not achieve anything ever etc.
As she is defo the wrong type of leftie she likes to use Twitter to be a moron and openly insult her allies, getting into arguments with people who are not as woke as her. She enjoys quoting other peoples Tweets to slag them off but gets proper butthurt if a right wing man does it to her. Her block button is used very liberally.
If a friend confronts her about something, she will fall out with them for a couple of days and acts like the victim even if she is in the wrong.
One of the funniest things about her arrogance is that she thinks everyone wants to be her. We once had a friend who had a bit of friction of Alexa to the point they fell out and Alexa to this day claims that everything this innocent girl does is because she wants to be her. One of her exes is dating a girl who on occasion has viewed Alexa's Instagram story (something a lot of girls do) and instead of laughing it off and thinking its sad she instead likes to stalk the girl back and accuse her of copying her posts. Tbh in reality the girl is similar in style to Alexa and studies the same thing at uni as her, her ex probably has a type.
Anyway, as always this ended up longer than I thought. TLDR - someone I'm not really friends with anymore is a stupid cow.