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[Chamaelirium]

"This is not a plea to be F-----"

What a story

The author, D'Shaun Harrison, is someone who write a whole lot of thinkpieces and tweets demanding that everyone start ~desiring~ fat people.

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"This is not a plea to be F-----"

What a story

The author, D'Shaun Harrison, is someone who write a whole lot of thinkpieces and tweets demanding that everyone start ~desiring~ fat people.

Da'Shaun Harrison (@_iAmRoyal) | Twitter

The latest Tweets from Da'Shaun Harrison (@_iAmRoyal). looking for @_iAmRoyal? reroute to @DaShaunLH

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The crossover between FA and incels is hilarious. Having people find you desirable enough to have sex with is not a human right. This reminds of Riley Dennis’s infamous video on dating people that are fat, trans, black and disabled.

 

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Glitter’s Instagram post from yesterday

Read: she’s so hungover she’s barfing.

 

[NototiousUnit]

Or you just put it on backwards zip and twist it around. Though i guess for someone that fat that be akin to running the ironman...
At the end she says she returned most of the stuff yea for whoever has to deal with stretched out and/or ripped items (Shes purposely on an older video ripped something to send it back)

That's fucking maddening! I can't believe the gall of some of these women. Angry that more places don't produce tent-sized clothing but then send back stretched out, tattered pieces and expect a full refund. Like don't they see how as a business getting that damaged stuff back would affect the bottom line?? As a large corporation who is already going out of their way to make clothing for fats, I know I would seriously consider cutting back after enough sweat-soaked clothing from YouTube hauls made its way back to the warehouse.

And you know those clothes stink after being in Anna's place and on her body for even a short period of time. By the second outfit change she looks like how most normal people would look after a nice brisk jog. And I'm sure the dog dander and filth in that place is out of control. Those thighs definitely do not get out to walk that poor dog regularly.

 

[JuniperFalls]

The crossover between FA and incels is hilarious. Having people find you desirable enough to have sex with is not a human right. This reminds of Riley Dennis’s infamous video on dating people that are fat, trans, black and disabled.

Clearly we need a new constitutional amendment: "The right of fat people to be someone else's masturbation fodder shall not be infringed."

 

[thewiz]

Life by Jen posting this photo of fruit with a big long hair right center.

 

[Coral Apples]

Sit your fat candy juicy thigh ass down, and eat a damn Twinkie bitch. It’s friday night, should be par for the course for you.

...a Twinkie? You know she gonna eat the box.

Also, why does she do the pigtail braids? They look so bad and I just think of an old German bar maid when she has them in. I assume it’s maybe easy to just leave in and if it’s greasy, then it won’t show as much. Not flattering though. And does she do them herself, can she do it?

 

[Chamaelirium]

Clearly we need a new constitutional amendment: "The right of fat people to be someone else's masturbation fodder shall not be infringed."

You joke but Sonalee Rashatawar said in 100% earnest that it was your duty to condition yourself with that pornography if you weren’t attracted to fat people.

These extreme FA people are so nuts no truly sarcastic jokes can be made because somebody has advocated for whatever you might joke about.

her ig:https://www.instagram.com/thefatsextherapist/?hl=en

 

[eternal dog mongler]

her ig:https://www.instagram.com/thefatsextherapist/?hl=en

she posts some creepy fuckin' Dees shit, goddamn



dees, for those who are not aware

 

[rocknrollmartian]

if you enjoy porn and you do this already, great. and if you don’t, why not? (protip: if you said yes really easily, it could be bc your race, body size, and sexuality are not marginalized)
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for some of us, we just don’t have porn that fully represents us yet. but for those of us that do, do we avoid seeing ourselves in porn due to being conditioned to only relate to thin straight white people in porn? is it connected to shame about the kind of sexual fantasies that arouse us? are we struggling with internalized homophobia or fatphobia or racism so much that we are afraid of creating new pathways to arousal that include the non-straight, non-thin, and non-white representation we don’t see in mainstream media?
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we can only be what we can see/imagine. our imagination is fed by these visual representations and sexual fantasies are constructed largely with images, even erotica. if you are avoiding seeing yourself in porn, why? if you’re having a hard time seeing your body as arousing or desirable or erotic, seeing your body represented in porn can help with that. this also helps heal trauma by encouraging embodiment during arousal in eroticizing the marginalized body. our lack of desire to see ourselves represented in porn can be rooted in self hate or shame. if you want to diversify the bodies you are aroused by, it can help to add different bodies and sex scenes into your porn mix. seeing fat bodies as sexual and desirable normalizes fat bodies as arousing.
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looking for ideas on where you can go to support your favorite sex workers? where do you go to watch your queer fat brown porn? which fat porn stars do you follow? (i asked a question like this earlier this week and many folks responded requesting my survey results bc they’d like to see themselves represented in porn. so share away!)
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Unrelated but irritating:

Yes, look at all these woke brown historical fatties from the 15th century:

Only white people are and have ever been thin! Blame colonialism and white supremacy for everything wrong ever!

 

[LetThemEatCake]

Honestly, that pron screed nearly made me Mad at the Internet, but then I remembered who exactly writes and takes that stuff seriously, people like lividlipids and the Fat Sex Therapist bint, and I had to laugh at the utterly demented, delusional, unselfaware nature of the whole exercise.

Imagine claiming you are oppressed at multiple 'intersections' and yet being privileged enough to sit around demanding the right to have porn made of someone who looks like you, so you can feel sexy.

It's the least oppressed position I can really think of. Some people demand the vote. Some demand labour rights, Some demand a living wage. Some demand a pay rise inline with inflation. Our fatties, they demand pornography that would make a cat sick, featuring people who look like themselves, but clearly not themselves. I mean, they COULD conceivably make their own these days. But no. That's up to Other People and Big Companes (that capitalism again) to produce so they can feel good about seeing their rolls and flaps and FUPAs being greased up and penetrated onscreen by buff, studly males. No doubt no male roly-polys need apply!

Seriously, how have we got to a point in western society where some women feel massively aggrieved because they think there aren't enough naked pics or demeaning films of people who look like them being used as cumdumpsters?

 

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if you enjoy porn and you do this already, great. and if you don’t, why not? (protip: if you said yes really easily, it could be bc your race, body size, and sexuality are not marginalized)
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for some of us, we just don’t have porn that fully represents us yet. but for those of us that do, do we avoid seeing ourselves in porn due to being conditioned to only relate to thin straight white people in porn? is it connected to shame about the kind of sexual fantasies that arouse us? are we struggling with internalized homophobia or fatphobia or racism so much that we are afraid of creating new pathways to arousal that include the non-straight, non-thin, and non-white representation we don’t see in mainstream media?
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we can only be what we can see/imagine. our imagination is fed by these visual representations and sexual fantasies are constructed largely with images, even erotica. if you are avoiding seeing yourself in porn, why? if you’re having a hard time seeing your body as arousing or desirable or erotic, seeing your body represented in porn can help with that. this also helps heal trauma by encouraging embodiment during arousal in eroticizing the marginalized body. our lack of desire to see ourselves represented in porn can be rooted in self hate or shame. if you want to diversify the bodies you are aroused by, it can help to add different bodies and sex scenes into your porn mix. seeing fat bodies as sexual and desirable normalizes fat bodies as arousing.
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looking for ideas on where you can go to support your favorite sex workers? where do you go to watch your queer fat brown porn? which fat porn stars do you follow? (i asked a question like this earlier this week and many folks responded requesting my survey results bc they’d like to see themselves represented in porn. so share away!)
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Yes, look at all these woke brown historical fatties from the 15th century:
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Only white people are and have ever been thin! Blame colonialism and white supremacy for everything wrong ever!

Do these people really think that forcing others to get off to fat people will suddenly make fat people more sexually attractive? Fat people are very much a part of the porn world, but it’s mostly just a fetish. Newsflash: not everyone finds you sexually attractive and it’s super narcissistic to demand that people get off to those that look like you.

Here’s a better idea, find someone you love and loves you back for who you are. Make and keep yourself attractive for that one person.

If that doesn’t work out and you’re still mad about everyone not wanting to have sex with you, make yourself more sexually attractive. Get a better haircut, up your hygiene, get a better wardrobe, go to the gym and eat healthier. It’s not society that’s the problem, it’s you.

 

[Smiling Honeybadger]

Also I find it telling that in Sonalee's world you are getting off to your own body. That's Narcissus in a nutshell. He got off on his own reflection in a lake, coining the term narcissism.

People usually get aroused by the bodies they find attractive... That's something that can't be forced. But tell that to self obsessed, yet terminally insecure fatsos.

 

[Angry New Ager]

Oh, Sonalee. This cow deserves her own thread, I swear. She attended CurvyCon (of course), and here's what she had to say about it:

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thefatsextherapist
this is a photo of me in my glory. new favorite dress by @asos & sandals by @torrid standing in front of the @diaandco sign Big Girl Energy at @thecurvycon during #NYFW
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being at curvy con was weird as a person both aware of late stage capitalism and mostly uninterested in fashion. but my bestie @sharminultra described it as a dreamy place where we got to imagine what it would look like if fat femmes ruled the world it wasn’t overrun by small white fats. there were so many fat designers and freelancers of color. and i’d be lying to you if i said it didn’t excite me to be able to shop for FASHIONABLE clothes IN MY SUPER SIZE, in real life, with sweet and supportive fat sales people who fluffed my confidence and handed me bigger sizes without shame while i was in the dressing room sweating and taking selfies
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all non binaries won’t agree. but for me as a non binary person, it didn’t feel weird to stand in front of this sign. while i don’t like others to assume i’m a woman, i like to still be gendered in ways that feel playful and non judgmental. like i love to call myself the best man for the job & still have my friends call me their girl or bitch. i feel like others assume my gender bc i enjoy wearing dresses (it’s an easy one piece outfit tbh) and occasionally wear high femme makeup featuring prominent flirtatious dramatic false lashes (my faves are @kokolashes in goddess). but why does masculine androgyny get to be the sole representation of gender neutral expression? this is what my gender neutrality looks like
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no, i don’t wear makeup every day. mostly bc it takes time i’d rather spend sleeping and people treat me so differently (read: better) when i’m wearing it. i wonder if it’s bc of the extraordinary demand for hyperfemininity that’s expected of fat women and feminine folks. i also have light and "good" skin privilege here, which feels important to name when considering lookism and shadeism
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do you have questions about gender fluidity or neutrality? or gender and fatness? i and other non binary folks can answer them below hope everyone is having a gay day

What kills me (and by "kills" I mean "makes me laugh myself sick") is that she describes herself as "as a person both aware of late stage capitalism and mostly uninterested in fashion"--while at the same time crediting the manufacturers of both the dress and sandals she's wearing in the pic; pays money to attend a conference catering to women whose defining trait is gross overconsumption, and the purpose of which is to encourage even greater overconsumption of fashion and beauty products; gives a shoutout to the corporate entity (an online plus-size fashion retailer) that created the backdrop she is standing in front of; and then goes on at length about shopping for FASHIONABLE clothes manufactured (under no doubt horrible conditions, by brown women getting paid a pittance) and being cheerfully catered to by the sales staff who didn't make her feel the least bit self-conscious about her corpulence.

Sonalee's entire existence is entirely due to "late-stage capitalism," as is that of every obese heifer in the Fat Acceptance movement. She is utterly blind to any privilege she has--except for her "light and 'good' skin privilege." She's of Indian descent, yet that Indian (and other brown) women are exploited ruthlessly in order to bring her FASHIONABLE clothes in the supermassive size she needs because she has the luxury of eating herself to death while pondering what her gender is, while performing no physical labor whatsoever--my god, her hypocrisy and sense of entitlement are even greater than her girth. She is eminently hateable for that.

 

[NototiousUnit]

Oh, Sonalee. This cow deserves her own thread, I swear. She attended CurvyCon (of course), and here's what she had to say about it:
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Spoiler

thefatsextherapist
this is a photo of me in my glory. new favorite dress by @asos & sandals by @torrid standing in front of the @diaandco sign Big Girl Energy at @thecurvycon during #NYFW
.
being at curvy con was weird as a person both aware of late stage capitalism and mostly uninterested in fashion. but my bestie @sharminultra described it as a dreamy place where we got to imagine what it would look like if fat femmes ruled the world it wasn’t overrun by small white fats. there were so many fat designers and freelancers of color. and i’d be lying to you if i said it didn’t excite me to be able to shop for FASHIONABLE clothes IN MY SUPER SIZE, in real life, with sweet and supportive fat sales people who fluffed my confidence and handed me bigger sizes without shame while i was in the dressing room sweating and taking selfies
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all non binaries won’t agree. but for me as a non binary person, it didn’t feel weird to stand in front of this sign. while i don’t like others to assume i’m a woman, i like to still be gendered in ways that feel playful and non judgmental. like i love to call myself the best man for the job & still have my friends call me their girl or bitch. i feel like others assume my gender bc i enjoy wearing dresses (it’s an easy one piece outfit tbh) and occasionally wear high femme makeup featuring prominent flirtatious dramatic false lashes (my faves are @kokolashes in goddess). but why does masculine androgyny get to be the sole representation of gender neutral expression? this is what my gender neutrality looks like
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no, i don’t wear makeup every day. mostly bc it takes time i’d rather spend sleeping and people treat me so differently (read: better) when i’m wearing it. i wonder if it’s bc of the extraordinary demand for hyperfemininity that’s expected of fat women and feminine folks. i also have light and "good" skin privilege here, which feels important to name when considering lookism and shadeism
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do you have questions about gender fluidity or neutrality? or gender and fatness? i and other non binary folks can answer them below hope everyone is having a gay day

What kills me (and by "kills" I mean "makes me laugh myself sick") is that she describes herself as "as a person both aware of late stage capitalism and mostly uninterested in fashion"--while at the same time crediting the manufacturers of both the dress and sandals she's wearing in the pic; pays money to attend a conference catering to women whose defining trait is gross overconsumption, and the purpose of which is to encourage even greater overconsumption of fashion and beauty products; gives a shoutout to the corporate entity (an online plus-size fashion retailer) that created the backdrop she is standing in front of; and then goes on at length about shopping for FASHIONABLE clothes manufactured (under no doubt horrible conditions, by brown women getting paid a pittance) and being cheerfully catered to by the sales staff who didn't make her feel the least bit self-conscious about her corpulence.

Sonalee's entire existence is entirely due to "late-stage capitalism," as is that of every obese heifer in the Fat Acceptance movement. She is utterly blind to any privilege she has--except for her "light and 'good' skin privilege." She's of Indian descent, yet that Indian (and other brown) women are exploited ruthlessly in order to bring her FASHIONABLE clothes in the supermassive size she needs because she has the luxury of eating herself to death while pondering what her gender is, while performing no physical labor whatsoever--my god, her hypocrisy and sense of entitlement are even greater than her girth. She is eminently hateable for that.

So what is it Sonalee??? Are you disinterested in fashion or are you excited to find a bunch of fashionable clothes? Do you like makeup and have your favourite false lashes or can you not be bothered by it?

Coming from someone who actually has a low maintenance beauty routine, I just find it hilarious that this chick claims to be soooooo low maintenece but then goes on to clearly describe how much goes into her thought process behind getting dressed and ready.

I just don't know how anyone could go outside with a dress, women's shoes, and makeup on and expect to not be labeled as a woman by most people?? Imagine believing everyone should take time out of their day to consider your gender but you actively engage in making yourself look entirely feminine. It's just disgusting how she believes men and women fit into these black and white categories.

 

[a bootiful jung woman]

Oh, Sonalee. This cow deserves her own thread, I swear. She attended CurvyCon (of course), and here's what she had to say about it:
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Ah yes, the smallfat aggression is a Sonalee signature.

 

[rocknrollmartian]

Sonalee is a prime example of why you never should even try to appease SJWs. Worthless infinite hypocrisy and anger rooted in her own obvious self-hatred.

 

[Suzuki Beane]

Okay, Sonalee....my questions begin with how much special training the sales assistants she mentioned required in order to stand by while she took an armload into the fitting room that wouldn't fit, so they could then bring her ever larger sizes, "fluffing" and "without shame." Presumably they were delighted for her to lather up a succession of garments because the exertion of trying on clothes has resulted in sweating. Ugh. Why tell us this?

I would also like to know if Sonalee's parents ever stop screaming inside when they see what she's become. Maybe they aren't stereotypical Asian parents, but they would have had some ambitions and expectations for her....

 

[Angry New Ager]

Okay, Sonalee....my questions begin with how much special training the sales assistants she mentioned required in order to stand by while she took an armload into the fitting room that wouldn't fit, so they could then bring her ever larger sizes, "fluffing" and "without shame." Presumably they were delighted for her to lather up a succession of garments because the exertion of trying on clothes has resulted in sweating. Ugh. Why tell us this?

I would also like to know if Sonalee's parents ever stop screaming inside when they see what she's become. Maybe they aren't stereotypical Asian parents, but they would have had some ambitions and expectations for her....

By now, her parents will have expected her to be married to an Indian man of the same caste (Brahmin, I assume) and of a good family, with an excellent, high-paying career, and to have had at least a couple of kids.

Her parents, I am sure, are immensely disappointed.

 

[LetThemEatCake]

I would also like to know if Sonalee's parents ever stop screaming inside when they see what she's become. Maybe they aren't stereotypical Asian parents, but they would have had some ambitions and expectations for her....

She had a panic on her stories the other week about whether she should hide her vast supplies of junk food because her parents were coming to visit. She was clearly anxious about being judged by them. I imagine her aggressive infinifat demeanour and SJW belligerence falls away when confronted by her Highly Disappointed Indian parents and she goes into freefall. Bit like the way Chantal's Proud Fat Girl shit disintigrates when she's actually forced to confront other human beings in normal social settings.

Here’s a better idea, find someone you love and loves you back for who you are. Make and keep yourself attractive for that one person.

If that doesn’t work out and you’re still mad about everyone not wanting to have sex with you, make yourself more sexually attractive. Get a better haircut, up your hygiene, get a better wardrobe, go to the gym and eat healthier. It’s not society that’s the problem, it’s you.

But but but ... MONOGAMY? Worse still, PERSONAL RESPONSIBILITY and SELF-DISCIPLINE?

Are you a FASCIST? Were you raised by the PATRIARCHY?

Step away from the keyboard, before your HATE and BIGOTRY kills the self-worth of a proud fat girl!

It's amazing the people out there of both sexes who feel they should attract a 10/10 or at least, whoever they fixate their eye onto, without making the slightest effort themselves to look attractive physically or present themselves a notch above something that dwells in a gutter or even has any worthwhile personal qualities beyond the physical. Worse still, when instead of a bit of effort toward self-improvement, decides they will compensate by declaring themselves 'poly' or whatever and cultivating a series of squalid low-quality hookups and drama that makes them more depressed and feeling generally worse about themselves.