I think she's using "baby" drag because she calls her child(ren?) "baby" despite he ain't an actual infant.
But yes, she's disgusting. She's actually using her son as a shield. t's like a loop: she wouldn't be called "abusive" if she wasn't forcing Desmond to perform and she uses this performance to defend herself saying "I have haters". She's not different from the Munchies of the Beauty Parlor section who cause themselves a lot of diseases and when they're dogpiled for being morons, claim "haha, you can't make fun of me, I have a disease!". Holy shit.
Wendylou, you read this thread: we don't hate your son. We feel sorry for him. Many of us would support him if this was something he wants to do himself, but it's BLATANTLY obvious for anyone who isn't deep into these stupid social justice causes that he would rather be doing something else. He can be drag and still be part of the soccer team, do theater, dance, cheerleading, whatever. He only does drag at 3am when a kid that young SHOULD BE SLEEPING. And he's also very much below his weight. HE IS NOT EATING PROPERLY. You're sacrificing your kid's childhood so yuo have endless media calling YOU amazing. That's why you chose that name, so YOU can be called "Mama Amazing".
You are not amazing, you're awful. Your kid's ok, you're not. And, one day soon, he's gonna find out himself.