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- Jun 27, 2014
If you ever see stories about someone shooting the other side's lawyer, shooting their own lawyer, shooting a judge, or even the judge himself shooting someone, or just shooting up a courtroom in general, it's nearly invariably in family court.
I'd believe it. I ever tell you about what happened to an old friend of mine?
I have a friend who, a few years ago, had his son kidnapped by his ex (they weren't divorced yet) and she fled the state. Law enforcement was no help whatsoever and he wound up having to hire a private investigator to track her ass down and get his son back, as well as formally file divorce screenings.
You would think, that given that she committed several felonies, violated an order of protection, wound up in a protracted standoff with local police, and the fact that my friend was the one who was actually taking care of his son prior to this horror-show, this would be a pretty open and shut case. Well, you'd be right, because it was - but in her favor. The Judge basically shelved all evidence and ignored everything because his ex cried a lot, awarding her full custody of their son and ordering him to pay alimony (despite her earning roughly four times his salary) for good measure.
The judge wouldn't even read the police reports, or even hear the testimony of one of the cops involved. It was a fucking botch. Thus began a nearly 2-year string of trials before this absolute abomination of a ruling was overturned by someone who actually gave a shit, the alimony was cancelled, and his son back where he belonged. Fucking ridiculous that it came to that and anyone who has zero faith in the system is completely within their rights to do so.
You would think, that given that she committed several felonies, violated an order of protection, wound up in a protracted standoff with local police, and the fact that my friend was the one who was actually taking care of his son prior to this horror-show, this would be a pretty open and shut case. Well, you'd be right, because it was - but in her favor. The Judge basically shelved all evidence and ignored everything because his ex cried a lot, awarding her full custody of their son and ordering him to pay alimony (despite her earning roughly four times his salary) for good measure.
The judge wouldn't even read the police reports, or even hear the testimony of one of the cops involved. It was a fucking botch. Thus began a nearly 2-year string of trials before this absolute abomination of a ruling was overturned by someone who actually gave a shit, the alimony was cancelled, and his son back where he belonged. Fucking ridiculous that it came to that and anyone who has zero faith in the system is completely within their rights to do so.