Secret Gamer Girl / SecretGamerGrrl / Googleshng / "Violet Hargrave" / Jacob Lawrence (Jake) Alley / Violet Cassandra Ocean - Delusional Zoe Quinn Stalker, Libelous Tweeter, Thirsty Gnome, Faux-Tranny Neckbeard Incel, Micropenis, "Known Troubled Person", Creator of "Massive vs the Masses", Self-Described "Noise Making Thing"; Lives in Niantic, CT

In that tweetstorm Jake complains about troons being victimized and then admits that their abuser is a chaser and would thus not be in the secret female whisper networks. What he fails to understand is that those female whisper networks are sometimes social but often professional. In neither case would they need to include a shut-in who hasn't had any professional experience... ever... since working as a bag boy at a grocery store. In fact, I daresay that they don't need to include any unemployed troons. Jake, those networks are to prevent women from being sexually assaulted or harassed, not tweeted at. I'm pretty sure they don't apply to you in any way.

But then Jake turns around and declares that everyone should get rid of whisper networks (because he's not in them). Instead he suggests:
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Here we have a hulking white guy telling women that they need to be public with their safety warnings AND "provide evidence" and testify instead of quietly telling other women to beware or... shut up, I guess? I'm pretty sure Jake is strongly contributing to rape culture here.
Funny how we need evidence for a guy being creepy, but we’re supposed to accept without question that Jesse Singal is a sexual abuser, that KF have killed multiple trans women and that Jake passes.

Ultimately he just wants to rules-lawyer people into being his friends. Unless you can provide evidence of wrongdoing, you just have to be his friend.
 
Here we have a hulking white guy telling women that they need to be public with their safety warnings AND "provide evidence" and testify instead of quietly telling other women to beware or... shut up, I guess? I'm pretty sure Jake is strongly contributing to rape culture here.
Here's what I find interesting about that thread: Jake emphasises several times that "whisper networks" are too uncritical and create a culture of belief without evidence. Bit of an out of character concern for "Violet Hargrave" right? Well he gives his reasons, namely "they're also a really fantastic way to "get the word out" that totally innocent people are "dangerous scumbag[sic] you should avoid." " and...
Since Jake has no friends, we can assume he's talking about himself here. Jake, I propose, believes he has been whisper network blacklisted. Hell, he's probably right; it's been said before but imagine you're a woman organising a women's event, or an offline meeting with a "woman" and a quarter ton of bearded fun shows up breathing heavily, talking in that nervous patter Jake has in real life, avoiding eye contact and generally fitting the stereotype of creepy male geek. I'd tell my friends to be cautious too.
 
Here's what I find interesting about that thread: Jake emphasises several times that "whisper networks" are too uncritical and create a culture of belief without evidence. Bit of an out of character concern for "Violet Hargrave" right? Well he gives his reasons, namely "they're also a really fantastic way to "get the word out" that totally innocent people are "dangerous scumbag[sic] you should avoid." " and...
Since Jake has no friends, we can assume he's talking about himself here. Jake, I propose, believes he has been whisper network blacklisted. Hell, he's probably right; it's been said before but imagine you're a woman organising a women's event, or an offline meeting with a "woman" and a quarter ton of bearded fun shows up breathing heavily, talking in that nervous patter Jake has in real life, avoiding eye contact and generally fitting the stereotype of creepy male geek. I'd tell my friends to be cautious too.
He absolutely believes that - he’s said as much many times. It deeply frustrates him that people can just make up their own minds about him, even when he tells them not to, so he chooses to believe that there’s a malevolent conspiracy behind the fact that no one likes him.
 
He absolutely believes that - he’s said as much many times. It deeply frustrates him that people can just make up their own minds about him, even when he tells them not to, so he chooses to believe that there’s a malevolent conspiracy behind the fact that no one likes him.

The alternative--that he's a repulsive autist who scares people away by being clingy and incoherent--is too terrible, so he believes the conspiracy instead.
 
He absolutely believes that - he’s said as much many times. It deeply frustrates him that people can just make up their own minds about him, even when he tells them not to, so he chooses to believe that there’s a malevolent conspiracy behind the fact that no one likes him.

They can't admit it, but not even troons believe that complete bullshit that you are whatever you say you are, and when they see a man like Jake, it breaks the willing suspension of disbelief and they just treat him as the actual dude he is. He doesn't put in enough effort even to have troons pretend to believe his bullshit, at least not after seeing the physical reality of this obvious neckbeard male without even the laughably bogus mannerisms of a "real" tranny.
 
He absolutely believes that - he’s said as much many times. It deeply frustrates him that people can just make up their own minds about him, even when he tells them not to, so he chooses to believe that there’s a malevolent conspiracy behind the fact that no one likes him.

It's obvious that Jake is divorced from reality, and anything that defies his self-created illusions is all part of some vast conspiracy against him.

Pay no attention to the fat balding gnome behind the curtain. Believe her when she says that she is not Jake Alley of Niantic, CT, and is actually pretty animu princess Violet Harper of [redacted location]. Anyone who says otherwise is a part of a Nazi lesbian rape gang assassin network devoted exclusively towards murdering her for reasons that require 42,000 Twitter posts to properly explain, but only if you watch every episode of Kamen Rider with her.
 
Ultimately he just wants to rules-lawyer people into being his friends. Unless you can provide evidence of wrongdoing, you just have to be his friend.

In this way, he reminds me of @xtamarlover. Both believe that as soon as you've called yourself someone's friend once, even in passing, you have to have reasons acceptable to the other person for discontinuing the friendship.
 
In this way, he reminds me of @xtamarlover. Both believe that as soon as you've called yourself someone's friend once, even in passing, you have to have reasons acceptable to the other person for discontinuing the friendship.
No, I think it has to be acceptable reasons to end a friendship. Not acceptable to the person being unfriended but acceptable in a grander ethical basis. So if i do something that deserves the loss of friendship it doesnt matter if i think i deserve the friendship; i dont. But if i dont deserve the loss of the friendship it is wrong to end it for invalid reasons.
 
I suspect this is also why he likes games so much for his social interactions. Strict rules, preferably ones he sets.

Now I come to think of it, before CON, do we have any evidence of anyone hanging out with Jake voluntarily? There was his cousin, but that’s the closest I can think of. If he’d never had friends who could walk out, that might explain why Zoe ending things was such a blow.
 
before CON, do we have any evidence of anyone hanging out with Jake voluntarily?
He had friends back in the Googleshng days, but they all went off to college and got lives while he stayed up in the attic growing his beard.
September 2002 appears to be when he lost his last friend:
https://archive.li/eUtFl

Some of the RPGamer people seemed to have been friendly with him while the site lasted, but I doubt any of them ever met him in person.
 
No, I think it has to be acceptable reasons to end a friendship. Not acceptable to the person being unfriended but acceptable in a grander ethical basis. So if i do something that deserves the loss of friendship it doesnt matter if i think i deserve the friendship; i dont. But if i dont deserve the loss of the friendship it is wrong to end it for invalid reasons.

Read this thread sometime and let us know if you think Chelsea had acceptable reasons to end her friendship with Jake. We're all on tenterhooks here.
 
He had friends back in the Googleshng days, but they all went off to college and got lives while he stayed up in the attic growing his beard.
September 2002 appears to be when he lost his last friend:
https://archive.li/eUtFl

Cousin Bobby was attending Boston University at the time of his death in 2004. I'm pretty sure when we looked into this before we concluded that he's actually talking about Jono and Bobby here, not one cousin and one friend (he's mischaracterised family relationships in this way before - most notably when talking about the death of his "brother").
 
Cousin Bobby was attending Boston University at the time of his death in 2004. I'm pretty sure when we looked into this before we concluded that he's actually talking about Jono and Bobby here, not one cousin and one friend
Sure, I'll gladly amend that to "lost his last IRL acquaintance who's not his mom".
He did make references to going over to friends' houses and things like that in his Googleshng blogs though:
https://archive.li/mdsh3 and a few others.
Of course those could all be cousins too, but my impression is that he did have an actual friend or two back in the day.
 
Some of the RPGamer people seemed to have been friendly with him while the site lasted, but I doubt any of them ever met him in person.

I've been looking more into his time at RPGamer, he started on the site in 2000 and did the letters column as well as the occasional game review.
In the summer of 2005 he just vanished. There was some talk of a construction disaster happening at his home, but nobody really knew what was going on.

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Five months later:

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My view on early Jake: He quit his job stocking shelves because he was on his way to greatness as a game writer. He thought of everyone at RPGamer as his contractually obligated best friend. After five years of being a community manager he sees other people moving on without their loyal gnome. Realizing that he has been betrayed and abandoned by his friends and left with no possibilities for advancement; he rage quits to become a game designer.

Mistaking polite disinterest for firm commitment, he goes deeply into debt to publish his masterpiece. It's a smart move because all his fans on RPGamer and best friends online will buy it; that's what friends do. No doubt Jake has a mental tally of all the things he has ever done for other people and what he expects in return. In this case, his readers owe him for five years of backbreaking labor, buying M vs M is the least they could do.

Oops.

Forsaken, abandoned and now deeply in debt Jake settles into the attic writing occasional articles for other gaming blogs. RPGamer was early enough to be influential and many people remember Jake's time there. Here the gnome sits and ferments for a decade.

September 2014 our rotten egg hatches. He created that account right as gamergate was kicking off. Was CON based on a previous mailing list they had for gaming topics that Zoe turned into her personal army? If that is the case some of the members of CON must have known that SGG = Jake. The timing makes it clear that this account was made specifically for the great autism holy war.

Either way, Jake's pattern repeated itself and will continue to repeat itself as long as Jake continues to be Jake. People have a sixth sense for this kind of clinger and women are going to be especially on their guard around him.
 
Was CON based on a previous mailing list they had for gaming topics that Zoe turned into her personal army?

Jake's account of the formation of what eventually became known as CON is that is was something which existed in at least bare bones form before someone suggested inviting Zoe to join. He sounded quite resentful of her becoming its figurehead and her rules being applied to the group as a whole when he recounted it, but a lot of that could be sour grapes over her not providing him with a job, housing, health insurance, and a flying monkey butler. I don't think he ever mentioned who the original group members were, though.

The original group members obviously "knew" each other somehow, even though Jake insists that he kept his irl identity secret form the group.
 
Either way, Jake's pattern repeated itself and will continue to repeat itself as long as Jake continues to be Jake. People have a sixth sense for this kind of clinger and women are going to be especially on their guard around him.

Because he's a man. A very particular kind of man who takes advantage of women.
 
I was reading Jake’s replies to Chu and Basic Becky and it’s amusing what a sniveling worm he is. He’s so spineless and conformist. If they don’t like a movie, Jake chimes in with “I was just discussing this with my women’s knitting group and we ranked Terminator 2 the worst Terminator too, Chu!”
 
I can't help but wonder: does Jake actually enjoy his life? Does he wake up every day and think "I abso-fucking-lutely cannot wait to spend 16 hours on Twitter! I love feeling powerless and outraged!"? Are his insane strategies for getting out of the attic (like getting CHELSAYYYY to slob on his fat-embedded knob) deliberately unrealistic, so that he has an excuse not to do anything?

I have a theory that the reason Rat Kingers gravitate towards troonery in particular is because it gives them an excuse to be parasites; they can take as much as they want from the people around them, but not feel any guilt or desire to reciprocate because the aforementioned people won't fully accept their "genuine selves".

Jake is a perfect example of this: he leeches off of his family for a "living", and seemingly has no ambition to do anything other than channel his shit from his rectum to his fingers and send it via HTTP to an audience of three insane trannies and this thread's regulars. He justifies this by claiming that life is so difficult for an oppressed transwomxn like himself, and his mom is literally murdering him every day by misgendering him, and the twansfobik medicab driver gives him the evil eye, and so on and so on.
 
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