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Someone with BED (A real eating disorder) could eat around 30 apples, 40 bananas, 50 carrots and 20 avocados in one sitting. However, That kind of food is filling and would result in the person vomiting. Someone could become overweight or even obese with eating only fruits and viggies. A person could never become morbidly obese, from eating like that though.100% of people who say this are lying, consciously, through their teeth. While it may be possible theoretically to eat only fruit and veg and not only maintain a huge bulk but ADD to it (in other words eat a calorific excess) it's improbable that anyone would do it, because the amount of fruit and veg needed to do it would take hours and hours to chew and - more to the point - the fibre would fill them up long before they got anywhere near even maintainance calories.
OK, you could do it it you ate only avocados, maybe, the most calorifically dense fruit out there, but most fruits and certainly veg are fibrous, full of water and pretty low calorie.
As we all know, pretty much anyone who gets to superfat status does it by inhaling calorifically dense, lardy,sugary sludge in large, inhuman portions, multiple times a day.
Someone with BED (A real eating disorder) could eat around 30 apples, 40 bananas, 50 carrots and 20 avocados in one sitting. However, That kind of food is filling and would result in the person vomiting. Someone could become overweight or even obese with eating only fruits and viggies. A person could never become morbidly obese, from eating like that though.
Come on now, you know the answer to this: thin privilege.I also love the whole IG post about calories in and out not being a valid method for weightloss.
Ok, so what is then?
Here's the shopping cart thing. It's about halfway down this list of highlights. Unfortunately the full blog post (here) doesn't go into detail about the incident, which 100% 0% really happened.New blog post from, "Your fat friend."
Here are some of the highlights:
"What have you been writing about?”
“Being fat,” I say. “I write about the social realities of living as a very fat person.”
Upon hearing the word — fat — she screws up her face, ready to object, but instead asks for examples. I tell her about the fat tax, the constant street harassment, the intense loneliness in the face of endless judgment and discrimination.
“I just can’t believe it. I just treat everyone the same. Why would they do that to you?” She shakes her head ruefully. I watch her face and remember her gift to me the last time we saw one another: a small stack of books about the paleo diet.
This, then, is the gulf between the two of us — she sees anti-fatness as an exception, an intentional break from a norm of acceptance. For her, it is an act of purposeful harm, a conscious slight rooted in malice. To me, it is something else entirely. Anti-fatness has wrestled me to the ground so many times, pinned me mercilessly — but there’s so much intimacy in that fight.
Each of us has spent a lifetime breathing in the polluted air of anti-fatness. How could we exhale anything else?
The worst of it comes from a purported concern for my health, I tell her. Strangers take items out of my grocery cart, change my orders at restaurants, shout slurs and directives. She is startled, suddenly, and angry.
“But that’s not discrimination,” she snaps. “They just said it — they’re doing it for you. They’re looking out for you. They love you. That’s love.”
Three years of writing, and she’s still the person I write for. She always has been.
I do all of that for her, yes, and so I can set one small boundary at a time, and know that she can hear it. I write all of that so I can ask her tenderly to stop recommending gastric bypass surgeons to me, or so I can ask, yet again, that she stop telling me how she “feels fat.” I write all of that so I can make a request, one judicious request to help fix some major recent harm.
Because even with all that groundwork, even with both hands so tenderly held, she still cannot hear me. She has become too accustomed to thinking of her own body — white, thin, able, lithe — as the home of all the body-based hurt in the world. Her trauma is real and immediate, a membrane that encases her, but still shields her from so much.
Her bigotry, she tells herself, is for my own good. And god help me, I think she believes it.
I have spent so much of my life waiting for thin people to care. In moments like these, my faith in people who do not wear plus sizes is shaken.
I have grown frustrated, isolated, exhausted at the sound of so many thin people justifying and explaining away even the most cruel examples of anti-fatness.
We’re trained by a deeply anti-fat culture to fear and revile fat bodies, and to justify the pain and harm that springs from our revulsion. I long for a thin person who understands that owning that hurt and complicity isn’t an indictment of herself, but of the culture that created all of us. Instead, I find so much defensiveness, denial, justification. Instead, I find flimsy explanations for inexcusable behavior. Instead, I find behaviors that are minimizing at best, and abusive at worst.
It’s deeply disheartening to know that mercy won’t extend to the next fat person who comes along.
so many thin people choose to focus on the character of fat people, rather than the policies and practices that made us.
It hurts that so many thin people will so comfortably claim the moral high ground while pitting eating disorder survivors against fat people, and implicitly erasing fat people with eating disorders in the process.
It hurts that you can’t hear fat people when so many of us tell you that your “concern for our health” is both hurtful and harmful — that some of us can’t lose weight, and others of us might not want to
And it’s endlessly frustrating that so few thin people will just own it. Own that they’ve been disgusted by fat people, that they do not trust us with our own bodies, that they see us as failures. Own that they have hurt us without making us repeat it 10, 20, 50 times. Own that like anyone, they are products of a culture that fears and reviles fatness wherever it exists.
Link to blog post: https://humanparts.medium.com/when-thin-people-hurt-fat-people-out-of-love-89bba707c629
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On a toddler, this would look adorable. On an adult, this looks pitiful.
This guy is nuts! I mean, I’m going through his Twitter feed and absolutely everything is about oppression and maginilization and patriarchy and a bunch of different socjus buzzwords. It doesn’t look like this guy uses the toilet without first considering how imperialism effects how he shits.Re this image:View attachment 1043234
Ya know, I had a hard time seeing the comparison of FA rhetoric to AIDS denial rhetoric. It seemed like a bit of an overstatement. I stand corrected.
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On a toddler, this would look adorable. On an adult, this looks pitiful.
Someone with BED (A real eating disorder) could eat around 30 apples, 40 bananas, 50 carrots and 20 avocados in one sitting. However, That kind of food is filling and would result in the person vomiting. Someone could become overweight or even obese with eating only fruits and viggies. A person could never become morbidly obese, from eating like that though.
The Slaton fat forehead is growing out nicely in this one.Found a 'body positive' lardo on Reddit (archive) who alternates between posting pictures of her reborn dolls, dildos, and dying grandmother.
Pure class. Any haters are just fatphobic:
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That's more along the lines of food addiction. Psychologist don't know if they should treat food addiction the same as an eating disorder. Sorry, don't mean to get off topic. Most FA's don't have a reason for being fat, other then pure laziness.Binge eaters simply wouldn't choose those foods though. Too hard to get down fast. The time it would take to eat even five apples would be too long and honestly, even a binge eater would have difficulty with a fractionof the amount of fibre. Look at what the likes of Chantal and Amber eat and that's what bingers eat. Slop. Creamy, soft, easily swallowed slop you barely need to chew.
I'm sure it's technically possible to become overweight/obese eating only fruit/veg (unprocessed, not slamming down smoothies which are basically pureed like baby food) but I doubt anyone can find a modern example. We all have countless examples in our lives and online of people becoming huge eating anything BUT unprocessed fruit and veg though. There are also a lot of skinny raw vegans/fruitarians etc around. Not that I'm recommending that diet either, for the record, but they eat ludicrous amounts of fruit and veg and often look on the emaciated side.
As for Gaga, she had plenty of hate for her appearance and dress choices during her peak of fame.
Much like this blob, gaga got a lot more mockery than she ever did genuinehaaaaaate
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I guarantee almost nobody on the planet is actually mad at this fat bitch. But you know how it is with these people, anything other than asspats is "hate"
Yeah, I doubt this friend really exists, too. She is made up to represent "thin priveledge". Nobody gives diet books as gifts unless the recipient has requested them.Here's the shopping cart thing. It's about halfway down this list of highlights. Unfortunately the full blog post (here) doesn't go into detail about the incident, which 100% 0% really happened.
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Just what kids need, a human blob confusing kids about gender. Again, just because your secondary sex characteristics don’t show well from being too fat, does not mean you have transcended gender. The only thing you’ve transcended is a healthy BMI.