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So you had your user name changed to xtamarlover, despite still going through with your insane plan to win her back? How did her "husband" feel about this?
see a therapist
see a therapist
Lolcow Andrew Peter Carlson / Anaiah Carlson / Tamarlover / Xtamarlover - Jewish/Christian Wannabe Cult Leader, Stalker, Ugly af, dogfucker, mayor of spitsville
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Xtamarlover because i dont love her anymore. I had a lapse of judgement this summer by giving her another chance after my ex girlfriend broke up with me because i was desperate. I was trying to restore friendship because she told me she had forgiven me and wasnt made at me anymore and was ok talking with me periodically. She said we couldnt be friends mainly due to her theological belief men and women who arent married cannot be friends but also because she was trying to be cautious letting me back into her life. But anyways, xtamarlover because i love my ex girlfriend now and not Melinda anymore. Theres only one woman on my mind all the tine and thats my ex g. Im tryibg to kove on from her now. But melinda is long dead to me. I am not even bothered anymore that shes out of my life. Im quite happy without her in my life. When she betrayed me and i had to cut her off, i wasnt even upset. I was relieved and it was a huge weight off my shoulders to not have to deal with her stressful circumstances anymore.
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Who reached out first this summer, you or Melinda? Was there still some sort of protectice order in place?
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I'm telling you man, the only way to set these harlots straight is putting them under your direct and complete control. God is leading you to them for a reason.
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Are you currently (or since the break up) in contact with your recent ex?
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I reached out and she accepted my actions.
No; the protective order from Melinda ended in february 2019. We reached an agreement of peace in february 2019 shortly after it ended so she wouldnt have to get it renewed. She offered me peaceful academic/professional contact if i agree to not stalk her. I agreed (she claims i violated our agreement by stalking her, but i disagree)
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No. My recent ex in june she told me if i email her again shed get a PO. I emailed her four months later in October. So she decided to petition for a PO. However, i emailed her saying id voluntarily agree to a 2 year PO if she answered 1 question. So when we went to family court, she half answered my question. So i was like ok whatever im not goung to fight it this time. So instead of trying to fight getting the PO i voluntarily agreed to a 2 year PO for her sake. But to be clear, i didnt do anything bad compared with Melinda stuff. All i did was send her emails to try to make her feel guilty for cutting me out if her life and to ask for closure and for her to reconsider. Althiugh i agreed to a 2 year PO i said in front of the judge in her hearing that i would possibly reach out to her after the PO ends and that im only agreeing to leave her alone for these 2 years to give her space.
Contrary to Melinda, my ex girlfriend bombarded me at court. I was by myself whereas she brought her dad, her sister, her brother, her best friend, and a lawyer. Shes such a coward. She woukdnt even look at me the entire time. And refused to talk to me i had to talk to her through her lawyer.
Just what kiwi farms people do; i kept tabs on her online activity.
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So you did the exact same thing to your ex that you swore you wouldn't do?
What holiday (if any) have you been celebrating this week?
What holiday (if any) have you been celebrating this week?
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Considering we are the internet's premier stalking and tranny killing website, I think she's it you dead to rights, bucko. You will feel the wrath of Yahoowa.
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No. With Melinda it was far worse. Not very comparable. My ex is just a wimp. She has major anxiety so she wanted a Po only to prevent me from talking to her not cause she was genuinely afraid of me hurting her.
I celebrated christmas with my family but if i had my own family id celebrate chanukah and christmas around 2 weeks before christmas.
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Working at the warehouse still. Ill be hired on probably around march 2020
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So you beliefs are strong enough to dedicate your whole life to them and stalk people who want no part of you, but not strong enough to celebrate the holidays you supposedly believe in and dedicate you life to because your family doesnt?
get a therapist
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No point in having a party if no one is attending the party. Thus until i can find people to attend my desired celebrations, i will just celebrate with family for the time being
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But you are celebrating holidays you don't believe in? Perhaps you aren't the religious leader you think you are.
Also stop stalking women.
see a therapist and listen to them
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I believe in the holidays i just think they are being celebrated on the wrong day
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Then I question your religious beliefs. You sound like an opportunist. For someone who wants to be a religious leader, you sound way to willing to compromise for the sake of gifts and sacrilegious activities.
see a therapist