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- Jan 15, 2019
I agree. Lying about something like that is cruel, and learning someone you care about has lied to you about that must be absolutely devastating. It must also lead to plenty of awkward self-doubt and uncomfortable questions about yourself. Stuff like "how didn't I know?" and "why was I attracted to this person if I'm straight?" and maybe a little bit of "how should I hurt this motherfucker back for doing this?"That lie is going to put them in much more danger than just coming out and saying it. If they suspect the person they are pursuing isn't okay with trans stuff, they shouldn't be doing anything with them in the first place, and hiding it until they're already committed, having spent time/emotions/money/etc on their relationship is a good way to piss someone off. If you get over that hump before it gets to that point, the worst they'd have to fear is rejection, because believe it or not, most people aren't going to murder someone just because they are a tranny.
I won't pay any lip service to the "naw, you shouldn't hit people" ideal on this one. If you actually do this to someone, you've earned the beating that's coming. You don't deserve death, but a stint in the hospital as a bruised, bent and lumpy human might improve your character a little.