Community Tard Baby General (includes brain dead kids) - Fundies and their genetic Fuckups; Parents of corpses in denial

[Pimpkin Pumpkin]

Genetic genealogy using databases like 23andme and Ancestry is great for solving cold case homicides though, and for identifying John and Jane Does. Recently they announced that through genetic genealogy they found a man who was abducted from the hospital the day after he was born, back in the early sixties.

I can’t remember if it’s state by state or what, but I’ve heard that they’re looking at changing the laws regarding that kind of thing.
Because of privacy concerns. Ffs.
Wish I could remember any details about that beyond “idk, they might not be allowed to use the details in that way anymore”, because if it’s an actual thing and not me misremembering things like a sped... Then people are dumb.

Anyway, back on main topic, you could make a drinking game out of how many times that Connie chick mentioned “God” or “prayers” in that one comment.

 

[Non-Expert!]

They're not showing her face because: either

Option A - Privacy concerns.
Option B - She looks like what she is at this point - a horrifying, bloated, brain-decayed corpse being kept artifically breathing via medical technology.

Which do you think is most likely the truth, fellow Kiwis?

Honestly, the whole 'God's will' thing bugs the shite out of me. If it's all God, then unplug and let God decide what to do with her. I guarantee that will be a quick, merciful death, which is obviously the point, isn't it? The rhetoric is god, god god, and the reality is these children only 'survive' in their artificial death-suspended state due to purely human intervention.

God's will?

Actually God's will is pretty clear here. The kids are dying. It is God's will that they die. Please don't burn me alive for saying this. An organism's (natural) death is just as much a part of the life cycle, as it's birth. This doesn't make God a "bad guy" for knitting together defective kids in their mother's wombs, unless you are unwilling to accept that God never promised us a rose garden to begin with.

Honestly this pray to change God's plan for an ill-fated child, is beginning to drive me batty, also. It is both out of sync with Christian doctrine, and science.

 

[MiniMuffin]

I can’t remember if it’s state by state or what, but I’ve heard that they’re looking at changing the laws regarding that kind of thing.
Because of privacy concerns. Ffs.
Wish I could remember any details

They are changing it to an “opt in” system. Instead of your DNA automatically being checkable for unsolved crimes/unidentified dead people, you now have to specifically opt in.

Most of the time, in cold cases getting solved this way, it’s not from the exact people but from their relatives. Like, the DNA shows the submitter is a second cousin of the serial killer or unidentified murder victim, and then they start trying to identify the second cousins in the records and then track those people down.

This is kind of OT though.

 

[Cheesegirl78]

They are changing it to an “opt in” system. Instead of your DNA automatically being checkable for unsolved crimes/unidentified dead people, you now have to specifically opt in.

Most of the time, in cold cases getting solved this way, it’s not from the exact people but from their relatives. Like, the DNA shows the submitter is a second cousin of the serial killer or unidentified murder victim, and then they start trying to identify the second cousins in the records and then track those people down.

This is kind of OT though.

The police found the mother of an abandoned baby some 30 years after the baby was found dead through this, and also a serial killer here in California.

 

[MiniMuffin]

Anyway, back on main topic, you could make a drinking game out of how many times that Connie chick mentioned “God” or “prayers” in that one comment.

Too early to get blind drunk. New Years isn’t for another couple of days.

 

[The Husbando Collector]

Too early to get blind drunk. New Years isn’t for another couple of days.

Who's to say you can't get started early? After all, if you are gonna slog through that garbage you may as well do something about it to make it a bit more bearable.

 

[Freya]

They're not showing her face because: either

Option A - Privacy concerns.
Option B - She looks like what she is at this point - a horrifying, bloated, brain-decayed corpse being kept artifically breathing via medical technology.

Which do you think is most likely the truth, fellow Kiwis?

Honestly, the whole 'God's will' thing bugs the shite out of me. If it's all God, then unplug and let God decide what to do with her. I guarantee that will be a quick, merciful death, which is obviously the point, isn't it? The rhetoric is god, god god, and the reality is these children only 'survive' in their artificial death-suspended state due to purely human intervention.

I don't think pulling the plug is legal in many cases

 

[LetThemEatCake]

I don't think pulling the plug is legal in many cases

The whole point in this case is that the UK hospital which had been treating her wanted to withdraw life support i.e. pull the plug as they said she was brain damaged beyond any hope of recovery.

 

[JaneThough]

I don't begrudge parents who are going through the loss of a child and having a hard time coming to terms with it. I am sure something that horrific would make any of us a bit crazy, and wanting to do absolutely anything to save your child is normal. Instead, I point my ire at those who try to fan the flames around the parents, turn their struggle into some pro-life bullshit, and protest outside hospitals and give the parents completely wrong information which doesn't help anyone. Fuck those people.

 

[Non-Expert!]

I don't begrudge parents who are going through the loss of a child and having a hard time coming to terms with it. I am sure something that horrific would make any of us a bit crazy, and wanting to do absolutely anything to save your child is normal. Instead, I point my ire at those who try to fan the flames around the parents, turn their struggle into some pro-life bullshit, and protest outside hospitals and give the parents completely wrong information which doesn't help anyone. Fuck those people.

I agree with you about the parents. Until we've stood in their shoes, we really can not bring the gavel of judgment down too hard. Parents are also being yanked in multiple directions. They are under pressure to pull the plug, but they also risk being seen as monsters and murderers in their own circles, if they don't do "everything possible" - in addition to grieving a dying child.

Problem is, amid family drama, pro-lifers, protesters and journalists also muddy the waters, a lot. And keeping futile cases alive costs lot of money.

 

[Allo Vera]

While we are on the subject of delusional religious nuts Eva Sherbondy is home . She won't get therapy until after the new year but the bible is being read to her by her dad because apparently that is the big priority to him.

Can you imagine being on the receiving end of a conversation that goes “So, Eva suffered a catastrophic brain injury but it’s fine because she’s going to be miraculously healed”.

If he wasn’t such an asshole I’d feel sorry for him. But he’s mocking his brain damaged daughter’s facial expressions for lols on Instagram, so on second thoughts, he can get to fuck.

 

[Montage]

Can you imagine being on the receiving end of a conversation that goes “So, Eva suffered a catastrophic brain injury but it’s fine because she’s going to be miraculously healed”.

If he wasn’t such an asshole I’d feel sorry for him. But he’s mocking his brain damaged daughter’s facial expressions for lols on Instagram, so on second thoughts, he can get to fuck.

I’m so fucking glad you caught this. I was just about it post it, this is disgusting. Playful or not, it’s mocking her - they’re mocking their daughter and openly expressing that they’re mourning the loss of her when she hasn’t even really begun to heal.

Like I said earlier, if they had the chance to leave her behind? They would and that makes them the worst kind of people.

And then there’s some chick in the comments saying,”my parents have this hope too for my brother who has cerebral palsy.” Do they even know? His body might be shutting down but his brain is still there. Call me mad at the internet but some people are just delusional and fucking stupid.

 

[Allo Vera]

I’m so fucking glad you caught this. I was just about it post it, this is disgusting. Playful or not, it’s mocking her - they’re mocking their daughter and openly expressing that they’re mourning the loss of her when she hasn’t even really begun to heal.

I think it’s OK to mourn the loss of her. It’s OK to hate what their lives have become. It’s OK to be furious and frustrated and sad. What’s not OK is to show the world how much you really resent your kid’s failure to be miraculously healed by posing next to her with a fucking derp face.

If they weren’t leaning so heavily on their religious delusions, maybe they would be able to come to terms with reality.

 

[The 3rd Hooligan]

If he wasn’t such an asshole I’d feel sorry for him. But he’s mocking his brain damaged daughter’s facial expressions for lols on Instagram, so on second thoughts, he can get to fuck.

Something tells me he wasnt a very good father.

Also the whole incident seems to be a result of an epilepsy/ seizure attack of sort with the lack of noise or trying cover the fall thing I heard about.

Maybe daddy dearest refused to acknowledge his daughter having a condition, or even deep down resented her.
It would make sense he would try to scream for miracle just like Mama Nails or other potato farmers.

 

[AlabamaWhitman]

Can you imagine being on the receiving end of a conversation that goes “So, Eva suffered a catastrophic brain injury but it’s fine because she’s going to be miraculously healed”.

If he wasn’t such an asshole I’d feel sorry for him. But he’s mocking his brain damaged daughter’s facial expressions for lols on Instagram, so on second thoughts, he can get to fuck.

Holy shit I actually hate this dude. Absolutely agree they would leave her to rot if they could. All he does is fucking complain about her. This part of the caption also stuck out to me. He says “its great for my wife and I to be home with our normal son, but so frustrating to be home with Eva” what a fucking loser.

 

[Non-Expert!]

Can you imagine being on the receiving end of a conversation that goes “So, Eva suffered a catastrophic brain injury but it’s fine because she’s going to be miraculously healed”.

If he wasn’t such an asshole I’d feel sorry for him. But he’s mocking his brain damaged daughter’s facial expressions for lols on Instagram, so on second thoughts, he can get to fuck.

OK.

This guy is a cunt.

A gaping, fetid cunt.

 

[Allo Vera]

Holy shit I actually hate this dude. Absolutely agree they would leave her to rot if they could.

I was surprised by her sudden discharge from hospital tbh. She had three surgeries in late November/early December, and then suddenly she was home. Seemed kind of hasty. Why is that? Was it finances (I’m not American so I don’t know the healthcare system) or because the family were told they’ve reached the end of the line in terms of what can be done medically?

 

[LetThemEatCake]

I agree with you about the parents. Until we've stood in their shoes, we really can not bring the gavel of judgment down too hard. Parents are also being yanked in multiple directions. They are under pressure to pull the plug, but they also risk being seen as monsters and murderers in their own circles, if they don't do "everything possible" - in addition to grieving a dying child.

Problem is, amid family drama, pro-lifers, protesters and journalists also muddy the waters, a lot. And keeping futile cases alive costs lot of money.

'In their own circles' ... this is an argument for not using social media to braodcast your kid's medical issues to the world, because by doing so, everyone gets to have an opinion about them and you're encouraging people not their parents or doctors to become overly emotionally invested in their case to their possible detriment.

Same with using online armies as your personal support group or as a weapon against authorities via organized screeching and whining .. it's great until it all slips out of your control and whoops, you wake up and maybe make the right decision but according to your tard army of non-medically qualified people who are overly invested in your case often to the point of insanity, you're suddenly hamstrung by knowing you will have to sack up and risk being very, very unpopular with a few of the more viciously invested ones. That's the problem with mobs, they turn ona whim, and you cannot control them. Keep it between your doctors and your immediate family and these issues don't exist. If you don't want it to be everyone's business at the hard end of things, don't make it everyone's business for support or profit in the first place.

Of course, this is the sort of thing that also trips up Munchies-by-Proxy parents in the end too ... they attract so much attention people end up seeing the anomalies and dubious patterns emerging.

 

[Free the Pedos]

I was surprised by her sudden discharge from hospital tbh. She had three surgeries in late November/early December, and then suddenly she was home. Seemed kind of hasty. Why is that? Was it finances (I’m not American so I don’t know the healthcare system) or because the family were told they’ve reached the end of the line in terms of what can be done medically?

FWIW I assumed the because the hospital can’t do anything for her anymore.

 

[Bananasaurus]

What a cunt of a father. It's normal and 100% understandable to be frustrated and distraught when a perfectly healthy person suddenly requires round the clock care, and it is just as understandable to mourn the person they used to be, because let's face it, that little girl is gone forever.

What's definitely NOT normal is having an ego so big that you make your own children basically call you God, and not accept that tragedies happen to everyone including yourself. The amount of people who 100% recovered from a devastating brain injury like that are exactly zero, and your speshul little girl won't be an exception just because you think it's beneath you to have a "defective" child.