Fat Acceptance Movement / Fat Girlcows

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Why is she so bitter? I feel so sorry for her kids that have to put up with this behavior. If the husband had any sense, he should leave Lividlipids and take the kids with him. Why the husband hasn’t divorced Lividlipids is beyond me.

Geez, their new thin savior really is this Caroline Dooner person. Wtf, that bitch is definitely on some sort of "diet" by FA standards, even if that just means not bingeing and eating no more than 2000 calories a day along with exercise. I continually find this weird.
 
Geez, their new thin savior really is this Caroline Dooner person. Wtf, that bitch is definitely on some sort of "diet" by FA standards, even if that just means not bingeing and eating no more than 2000 calories a day along with exercise. I continually find this weird.
if you you eat when you're hungry (and not when bored, angry, sad) and stop when you're full, you'll be regular sized, but you aren't necessarily actively thinking about it all the time. you're intuitively eating, not dieting. it works when you've been thin all your life and haven't destroyed your hunger cues.
 
if you you eat when you're hungry (and not when bored, angry, sad) and stop when you're full, you'll be regular sized, but you aren't necessarily actively thinking about it all the time. you're intuitively eating, not dieting. it works when you've been thin all your life and haven't destroyed your hunger cues.

This Caroline Dooner person has a disordered background (or at least claims to) and now has a career that's focused on food and anti-dieting discourse. Based on her IG and Twitter, eating seems to be on her mind 24/7, both personally and professionally. Part of that is self-promotion, of course, but there's always something that seems specious and disingenuous about these types. Anyway, I always enjoy the irony of thinner/normal RDs and self-proclaimed "experts" (Caroline has a background in performance and no medical/health or psychology credentials at all) getting the lion's share of attention from fatties. Thin privilege indeed.

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Shrill, unlikeable, obsessed.
 
Oh, we know, lol. And anyone who self-diagnoses as "autistic" is almost certainly not.
Self diagnosis is only useful if it’s followed by professional diagnosis later on. Even then, just because you’re convinced you have something like autism, doesn’t mean you have autism. I wish people would stop acting like they have more knowledge on these things than people with years of training and school behind them. Autism isn’t some fun thing to have and it makes everyday things harder, due to lack of social skills. For being so into social justice, Lividlipids sure doesn’t care about appropriating various mental illnesses to justify her horrid personality and lack of self control.

Speaking of self diagnosis:
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Apparently Lividlipids is claiming to have trauma as well. Trauma from what, exactly?
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Get over yourself already. I’ve seen middle schoolers with more maturity than you.
 
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Livid claims she has PTSD just from being fat:

That’s the silliest reason I’ve heard for someone having PTSD. Is Lividlipids admitting that being fat isn’t a good thing? I swear, she definitely has something wrong, but it isn’t what she claims it is. She reminds me of an older, more bitter version of Mermaid Queen Jude.
 
That’s the silliest reason I’ve heard for someone having PTSD. Is Lividlipids admitting that being fat isn’t a good thing? I swear, she definitely has something wrong, but it isn’t what she claims it is. She reminds me of an older, more bitter version of Mermaid Queen Jude.

I suppose she's technically saying that she has PTSD due to shitty treatment from society, but that's still insane imo. I think Livid mostly has anxiety problems and a victimhood mindset.

Also it sounds like a few professionals dismissed her alleged PTSD since PTSD actually means something, lol. But to Livid, that's just more evidence of fatphobia/"fatmisia" (stop) in the medical establishment, I'm sure.
 
Self diagnosis is only useful if it’s followed by professional diagnosis later on. Even then, just because you’re convinced you have something like autism, doesn’t mean you have autism. I wish people would stop acting like they have more knowledge on these things than people with years of training and school behind them. Autism isn’t some fun thing to have and it makes everyday things harder, due to lack of social skills. For being so into social justice, Lividlipids sure doesn’t care about appropriating various mental illnesses to justify her horrid personality and lack of self control.

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Apparently Lividlipids is claiming to have trauma as well. Trauma from what, exactly?
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Get over yourself already. I’ve seen middle schoolers with more maturity than you.

Why is it suddenly so a-okay to constantly be spewing your whining about past traumas all over social media? There's a lot to be said about simply working through your issues and getting the hell on with life. Continually bringing it up in woe is me posts only keeps the wounds open, keeps you a constant victim, and frankly will start compassion fatiguing your loved ones.

It's one thing to want to show fellow survivors of trauma that they aren't alone, it's quite another to use your issues as an excuse to be a perpetual victim on social media.

Now if you'll excuse me, I have to go tell some lousy kids to get off my damn lawn.
 
I suppose she's technically saying that she has PTSD due to shitty treatment from society, but that's still insane imo. I think Livid mostly has anxiety problems and a victimhood mindset.

Also it sounds like a few professionals dismissed her alleged PTSD since PTSD actually means something, lol. But to Livid, that's just more evidence of fatphobia/"fatmisia" (stop) in the medical establishment, I'm sure.
I think one of the funniest things about Lividlipids is that she’ll act like she’s the expert on things she has no clue about. Then again, Dunning Krueger Syndrome is common in many cows on this forum. If she were more willing to admit she didn’t know things more often, I would find her more tolerable. She’d still be dim, but at least she’d be more humble.
 
Why is it suddenly so a-okay to constantly be spewing your whining about past traumas all over social media? There's a lot to be said about simply working through your issues and getting the hell on with life.
Suddenly? Uh...

And you're correct about healing/letting stuff go and moving forward. Anyone I've ever heard of that did legit cool shit and is worth looking up to did exactly that. The silver lining to this enormous fupa cloud is that we get the entertainment of watching these delusional idiots try and live as if consequences don't exist.
 
'40s-style curls are brushed out and styled, Anna, but some '40s-style rations would do you some good

There was a trend a few years ago for a while for adopting a 1940s ration-based diet as a way to lose weght. It worked. It would be hilarious to see Anna's (or any of our cows') face at the sight of what she would be expected to exist on - no arguments - week in, week out.
 
There was a trend a few years ago for a while for adopting a 1940s ration-based diet as a way to lose weght. It worked. It would be hilarious to see Anna's (or any of our cows') face at the sight of what she would be expected to exist on - no arguments - week in, week out.

[History nerd post]

There's a book called Eating for Victory: Healthy Home Front Cooking on War Rations, which is a collection of recipe booklets the British government published in World War Two to help people work with the very limited food rations available. By modern standards (even modern normal-sized people, let alone the FA herd), it really is appalling how poor they were. By modern standards, you might say some of the advice borders on OCD , like "I am obsessed by the thought that I must never, EVER waste a single edible calorie of food." Except in Great Britain during the war, you really did need to obsess over not-wasting a single calorie, because the island really was in danger of not having enough to feed everybody.

The book includes tips on how to use food modern people would likely toss in the garbage or scrape down the disposal: save the bread crumbs on your plate, to make soups thicker. When you boil vegetables, do not throw the water away, because it contains vitamins, so use it as the base of a soup, but use it RIGHT AWAY before it goes bad .... etc.

IIRC, for an adult the typical ration included one fresh egg per week, plus one dozen dried powdered eggs per month -- maximum 16 eggs per month in all. Sometimes things got bad enough that the fresh-egg ration was reduced to one egg every two weeks. The only bread you could buy was a grayish whole-wheat loaf. It was illegal for bakers to sell white bread, because baking white bread wastes calories and nutrients compared to making whole wheat from the same amount of wheat flour.

What follows is cut and pasted from a UK history site:

This is a typical weekly food ration for an adult:
  • Bacon & Ham 4 oz
  • Other meat value of 1 shilling and 2 pence (equivalent to 2 chops)
  • Butter 2 oz
  • Cheese 2 oz
  • Margarine 4 oz
  • Cooking fat 4 oz
  • M*ilk 3 pints
  • Sugar 8 oz
  • Preserves 1 lb every 2 months
  • Tea 2 oz
  • Eggs 1 fresh egg (plus allowance of dried egg)
  • Sweets 12 oz every 4 weeks
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[History nerd post]

There's a book called Eating for Victory: Healthy Home Front Cooking on War Rations, which is a collection of recipe booklets the British government published in World War Two to help people work with the very limited food rations available. By modern standards (even modern normal-sized people, let alone the FA herd), it really is appalling how poor they were. By modern standards, you might say some of the advice borders on OCD , like "I am obsessed by the thought that I must never, EVER waste a single edible calorie of food." Except in Great Britain during the war, you really did need to obsess over not-wasting a single calorie, because the island really was in danger of not having enough to feed everybody.

The book includes tips on how to use food modern people would likely toss in the garbage or scrape down the disposal: save the bread crumbs on your plate, to make soups thicker. When you boil vegetables, do not throw the water away, because it contains vitamins, so use it as the base of a soup, but use it RIGHT AWAY before it goes bad .... etc.

IIRC, for an adult the typical ration included one fresh egg per week, plus one dozen dried powdered eggs per month -- maximum 16 eggs per month in all. Sometimes things got bad enough that the fresh-egg ration was reduced to one egg every two weeks. The only bread you could buy was a brownish whole-wheat loaf. It was illegal for bakers to sell white bread, because baking white bread wastes calories and nutrients compared to making whole wheat from the same amount of wheat flour.

What follows is cut and pasted from a UK history site:

This is a typical weekly food ration for an adult:
  • Bacon & Ham 4 oz
  • Other meat value of 1 shilling and 2 pence (equivalent to 2 chops)
  • Butter 2 oz
  • Cheese 2 oz
  • Margarine 4 oz
  • Cooking fat 4 oz
  • tard cum 3 pints
  • Sugar 8 oz
  • Preserves 1 lb every 2 months
  • Tea 2 oz
  • Eggs 1 fresh egg (plus allowance of dried egg)
  • Sweets 12 oz every 4 weeks

I grew up hearing all about it from parents who were in it as kids, and grandparents who were living it WITH small kids at the time, either fighting or dodging bombs as they rained on the cities. Times were very hard, and rough, it was not a fun period for anyone. People in general knew how to make food go a long way even before that, they knew not to waste food, to use all parts of the animal including the offal and parts people will absolutely scream and weep about using now (it was actually normal into the 70s to see tripe and pig's trotter sold in local butchers, it was only BSE that put an end to offal being sold), poaching for rabbit was a thing if you could do it, and to stretch meat out with starchy padding, all the tricks, partly because if you didn't, you simply did not eat, and partly because endless easy-cook convenience food and the constant adult and child snacking culture we see nowadays did not exist in any real way for most folks until well past WW2 in the first instance and post the 1980s in the second. Cooking from scratch was a basic survival skill for any normal human being, it wasn't possible for an adult woman at least to grow up without it.

They all say a lot of the stuff they had to eat in WW2 was disgusting, btw, the powdered eggs in particular appear to hold terrible memories for many. The very poorest ate way better due to ratioaing, but everyone else generally fared worse in some ways as stuff they could normally afford disappeared and was doled out in tiny quantities or was replaced with horrific substitutes. At some points whale meat was used and that's another one I recall people just wishing they were dead having to eat - not because of some empathy for whales either, but because it was vile to their palate and generally considered only food for dogs and cats before that here.

I actually asked my own parents a while back during a discussion about the post 2000s obesity epidemic if there was such a thing as a fat person during the war (and later, rationing continued in various ways until 1953 in Britain) given everyone was on very similar calories give or take some black marketeer stuff and they said some people were definitely bigger than others, there was a variation in size, but not by much. As we've discussed endlessly, what would pass for a big lad or lass back then wouldn't register on most people's brains as even overweight these days. Times have changed mightily in ways that are hard to put across to people who have no experience of it. What they did say was that many people had a very grey, unhealthy pallour which went away when they were able to eat more and better foods again. It was easy to be underweight during this period if you had an active job or had special needs in some way. Getting fat was definitely harder.
 
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