Lets see who a better husband would have been for Melinda:
Husband number 1:
1.Physically Hits Wife
2.Physically Demeans and Mocks and Insults Wife Making Her Feel Like Crap
3.Constantly Fights and Argues all the time
4.Addicted to drugs
5.Unable to support himself or his family financially
6.Is anti-feminist
7.Believes men aren't able to be perfect saying excuses for bad actions such as "i'm just a man."
Husband number 2:
1.Never physically hits wife.
2.Never physically demeans or mocks or insults wife. makes her feel wonderful all the time like a queen.
3.Only fights or argues on rare occasion and not major/big arguments/fights.
4.Not addicted to any substances
5.Financially stable and self-sufficient
6.Feminist
7.Believes men are able to be perfect and that any wrong deeds done by men are the full responsibility of the person doing those deeds.
Now which one is husband number 1 and husband number 2? which one is better?
Yet solely because I don't believe In Paul she would rather be with a horribly abusive man. Every time she would consider being with me, she would choose someone else instead who rejected Paul. I as a good former friend, tried everything I could think of to restore friendship with her. I sent her $6,500! No one else has done as much as me to try and fix things with Melinda. But it was never good enough for her. I could never satisfy her overly high requirements she placed on me. Meanwhile, she gives all these excuses for Marshall even though his behavior is far worse and more outrageous than mine. Its entirely unfair. But no matter, most likely if she had been with me it would have ended in disaster anyways. And I can do far better. I just wanted to be with her because she was my best friend and her friendship had meant so much to me. Why would I send her that much money if I didn't care about her? I proved myself to be a true friend even when she turned me away.
But anyways, I need to find a woman who will be by my side no matter what. Who will go with me to the ends of the earth. Who will be my partner in the truth and lead by my side as my queen. Who will believe whatever the evidence points to even if its against her beliefs.
Just final thing to say. Marshall is NOT the excellent husband by Melinda's standard. She settled majorly to be with him. But if that's what she wants, I told her that is her choice and I would support her choice if thats what she wants. And i wished her luck and success in her relationship with Marshall. So its not like I am trying to end their relationship. But when she told me she wanted out of her relationship, I tried to help her because that's what she said she wanted at the time. Its not my fault that that was misconstrued by her as me being "too personal". Anyways, I want the drama to be over. I agreed not to contact her anymore. But here she comes onto this site, referencing what i said. So since she referenced what I said, I wanted to provide further clarity regarding what she said.
And to be clear, I said i would keep doing restitution if she wanted me to. She was the one that refused and denied my offer to continue sending her restitution. I offered to pay off the restitution she said no. So its not my fault that I haven't fulfilled restitution. And I think its unfair to characterize me as a 5.5 year stalker. 2016-2017 i was being stalkerish (though whether "stalker" is debatable, though I was pretty creepy and cringy in much of what I had said and done in those two years, i admit). I deny the association beyond that.
