So to be clear the restraining order ended in february 2019. It was only a 2 year order.
She decided not to renew it, deciding it better for her if we made peace. So she reached out to me in feb 2019 shortly after it ended, initially in a hostile manner publicly, but when i replied in private message, we talked peacefully and reached a peace truce. So her and mine arrangement did not violate any court orders or do anything illegal.
She months later joined a messianic singles group and asked if anyone could help her financially because she was in a bind financially due to the end of her relationship. I reached out to her suggested to her i send her money for restitution in line with her beliefs, and she said she had to think about it due to the potential implications if it didnt go well, and after some initial hesitation she decided yes she would take the money from me. It was going well for two 2.5 months. Then she broke our agreement by being shady and me refusibg to sign a notarized contract made her end our agreement and truce.