Quitcher bitching, fuckers, and listen to your not so friendly IT person/advice giver/philosopher.
1. Don't post shit on the internet if you never want it to be seen by anyone other than your intended audience. That shit will go everywhere, like dropping a jar of honey on the floor and having it explode. Like honey, it will get into cracks and corners you never dreamed existed, and also like honey, it will stick there, forever and ever, amen.
2. Stop whining about how you're just so traumatized by people pointing and laughing at the personal shit you've posted, under your real names, in what is a hate group, and then lecturing everyone else about civility. Take your civility and stuff it up your ass, and bear in mind number one, above.
3. Stop thinking about yourself all the time. The only reason you're in that group is so you can excitedly talk all over one another about just how much better you are than the target of your hate. Don't try to deny it. If you weren't interested in talking about yourself, you would be here, at the Farms, instead of whatever iteration of your hate group you're in right now. Leave your fucking ego at the door. Surround yourself with a better crowd (like this one, at the Farms).
4. Keep this in mind: you are not special. You're certainly no more special than the 600 pound lardass you so desperately try to show you are more special than. Sure, she's going to die at some point. But so are you. Spoiler alert: we all die in the end. You are not some unique flower whose time here on earth should be met with manna from heaven and angels singing.
5. If you can't handle big, bad old meanies on the internet calling you names (oh, the irony, given the groups you inhabit) or people saying bad words, get off the fucking internet. It's no place for the timid or weak of spirit.