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- Nov 13, 2019
If you file for divorce, the social stigma of it is the least of your problems. The posibility of your stockbroker husband being outed as a hideous cross dressing faggot, is also secondary.
Everybody's situation is different obviously. But the only divorces that are not a total, complete and absolute pain in the ass, are those in which there are absolutely no kids involved, no inherited property or money, no debts, no significant assets, and you basically both work at similar pay grades.
All of this other stuff has to be argued over because you need to divide it up, and if the divorce is nasty, both spouses and their lawyers will fight tooth and nail for everything. And the attornies take a sizable chunk of the assets. And if there are children involved and neither party can come to an agreement, then it can end up being both spouses dragging each other by the hair, thru their own excrement.
And if your divorce amounts to a peaceful and fair division of everything, including parenting, but you lose the house, then it becomes like "why are we doing this in the first place?"
And no, I have never gotten a divorce. But just knowing the bendover assfuckery that it entails, keeps both spouses walking a narrow line.
So, returning to the topic of "surprise! Betcha didn't know you married a transsexual!" And "woe is me, my wife doesn't embrace my need to wear a g-string and fish nets." .... NONE of it is cute, funny or titillating, from the standpoint of the person's spouse. And you have invested years into this person.
Your question: what is worse, spending the rest of your days with an uninhibited she-male, or getting a divorce? Well I hope that it is clear, that the guy's wife is indeed stuck between a rock and a hard place.
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