Lavery = Joseph "Grace" Lavery, MTF troon and Berkeley professor. Mallory = Mallory "Daniel" Ortberg, FTM troon and Dear Prudence advice columnist. Now calling herself Daniel Lavery after cutting ties with her entire family.
A Kiwi guessed upthread that Lavery was the kind of person who would publicly post inappropriate things about his sex life. Turns out Mallory is the one who's been doing that lately:
Lavery tweets out yet another selfie of his flabby moobs. Mallory's response to the tweet is supposed to be sweet/flirty but it's gross and sad. View attachment 1147890View attachment 1147889
A woman writes to Mallory at the Dear Prudence advice column, concerned that her husband isn't willing to pursue overdue payments from his business clients, and is therefore losing money that he is owed. Mallory's response:
[If you don't know, "findom" is "financial domination," a kink in the BDSM world. Which has absolutely nothing to do with this poor woman's question about her husband's shitty business practices.]
Mallory gets an epic dunk on...a prison librarian? Take that, fascism! View attachment 1147888
A Kiwi sent me two excerpts from Lavery's paywalled blog. The first is a narc's meditation on how he is a lovable "picaresque" "cad," a "dicktease for moms," and all of his MILs have wanted to fuck him. My main takeaway is that Mallory is either Wife #3 or Wife #4 for this piece of shit!
I have met, loved, and been loved by the families of many of my partners. The first family who loved me well was that of my first spouse. When we split up, which we did for the reasons I’ve mentioned, the family turned on me, and that was the hardest part of the whole experience. Since I was an orphaned, or at-least-half-orphaned, child, the love of other families was lavished upon me freely, joyously, and temporarily. Of course that family didn’t wish to be kind to me once I had left them. That would have been a category error. The second spouse, and family, loved me in a very specific way: as people who want to be better than their religious orthodoxy will let them, love a cad whose picaresque charm attracts them, while allowing them to fantasize about saving a soul. That ambivalent desire and repulsion has followed me in a number of domains of my life (I have come to think of it as a trans girl thing), and it tends to be more erotically charged than one would expect. Not the first spouse-mother, but the second and the third spouse-mothers, had little crushes on me. Perhaps mothers have crushes on their kids’ partners; perhaps that is a general thing. Anyway those frissons felt healing and lovely, rather than predatory or unsafe. I knew one would never move beyond the lightest, gentlest flirt once every year or so - it seems ridiculous to even imagine that it could. It was just a spark, a little warmth in the relation that felt secret and shy, a little gentle eroticization that let me know that my new pseudo-mother loved me, that they were at least as attracted to as concerned about the aspects of my personality about which they expressed the most voluble concern. Their bad faith relation to me precluded, in general, honesty with themselves or the world - but this I always knew, and didn’t mind. There is something cruel in me, there. A dicktease for moms.
Hey Lavery, people being repulsed by you isn't "a trans girl thing." You're just repulsive.
The second excerpt of Lavery's paywalled blog seems to be his reaction to discovering some critical comments about himself on Reddit. The feedback he receives on social media is 100% YAAAAS KWEEN sycophancy; he apparently thought he was universally loved until he found threads about himself on /r/blogsnark and suffered some narc injury. Mallory was a successful blogger with a devoted following of fans before she met Lavery, and Lavery apparently imagines that these fans see him as a Yoko Ono figure. His blog entry tortures the Yoko metaphor, then meanders into some truly vile observations about Mallory's intellect and social status vis a vis his own glory, and finishes off with some bizarre details about their BDSM group sex.
The boy I’m gonna Yoko’s fans have begun to notice me! Omg. They bitch meaninglessly about me behind their meaningless hands. It’s transmisogyny actually. Honestly I love having my own haters now. I was born for haters. I was born to be the best. I suppose I do have a rather ruthless streak!
The boy I’m gonna Yoko is a couple of years younger than me - just a couple, nothing scandalous! I think he likes that I’ve seen a lot of the world, that I have as many seductive stories as he does. Plus, I’m successful in my own world. It’s a whole other thing. I can introduce him to the high art types he used to be afraid of, and they don’t turn their noses up at him because he’s there with me. He’s there on my visa. Novelists and artists, critics and choreographers - they never would have been seen dead with him before, and now they let him sit with them and listen to his opinions about pop culture. And he’s read books, he’s not stupid. He writes poetry, too - he writes the most beautiful sixth-form-style poetry, you wouldn’t believe how lovely it sounds, almost like it was written by the young Yeats, or a more earnest Rupert Brooke.
The boy I’m gonna Yoko is supple, flexible. He can touch his toes. His arms bend back when I put him in stress positions. Then I let my friends take a ride. We do everything to him, we call him names and slap his face but we are careful not to lay our fingers on even the outer fringes of his ego. We call him “slut” and “faggot.” We put him in a harness and sling him around the room like a pebble. He likes that. It’s not very high-impact, but it’s a more intense sensation than anyone who has ever used Reddit, has ever experienced, or will ever. In a sense, the whole experience is a long meditation on the powerless of the fans, the fragility of their compensatory fantasies. Bless! I fucking love to ruin things.
If you don't like him, you're a transmisogynist. And if you use Reddit, you'll never cum as hard as Lavery can! Not ever!
God. I actually feel ill. He’s publicly degrading and humiliating her because Reddit reminded him Mallory was actually a minor online celebrity at one point and had some talent while Joe never was and never did.
A woman writes to Mallory at the Dear Prudence advice column, concerned that her husband isn't willing to pursue overdue payments from his business clients, and is therefore losing money that he is owed. Mallory's response:
[If you don't know, "findom" is "financial domination," a kink in the BDSM world. Which has absolutely nothing to do with this poor woman's question about her husband's shitty business practices.]
Fun fact: the first author of the Dear Prudence column was Herb Stein, the chairman of President Nixon's Council of Economic Advisors (and father of Ben Stein). I'm glad he's not around anymore to see this.
I don't give a shit, it's the truth. They give estrogen to troons because it makes them feel euphoric. Estrogen administered to men and women makes them both euphoric because it releases oxytocin in the brain, which is how MDMA also works. The difference between MDMA and estrogen is that MDMA is illegal and estrogen is not. [/ISPOILER]
MDMA's primary effect is releasing serotonin, norepinephrine, and dopamine. Release of oxytocin is secondary. Not to mention its effects as an amphetamine. Gurutu is spot on.
r/AITA is just the gift that keeps on giving when it comes to troon insanity lately. In this latest saga, some poor doe-eyed liberal gets BTFO by the tranny brigade after refusing to allow her crossdressing AGP brother-in-law watch her give birth to her first child, in a prime example of why these perverts should never be entertained.
I'm relieved to see that this case is egregious enough that even reddit seems to have agreed by consensus that this is insane. It's always hard to know where the line is in Clown World these days.
GNCCentric, a detransitioned FTM with a youtube channel described it as being so uncomfortable with having a female body that she couldn't even read porn with female characters, it made her so uncomfortable. So she was a gay ftm, even though she realized as she was detransing that she's a full on lesbian. This is a surprisingly common phenomenon.
I'm sure there are plenty who are actually just straight chicks who have a fetish for gay men or atleast feel safer reading it because they can dissociate from their female bodies, but it's a little wild how many former self proclaimed ftm "fags" turn out to be lesbians in the end.
Lesbians seem to be the most likely to detrans though, so maybe that's why I've heard their stories more.
it's because the detrans women right now are the ones who started transitioning 5 years ago. there weren't that many straight women trooning out then.
I also wonder if it's because 'butch lesbian' is a known identity. You can say oh, I had internalized lesbophobia, I'll stop taking T, and I can live my happy butch life, wearing the same clothes I am now, and chicks will dig my deep voice.
If you're an unfeminine straight woman...where is there for you? I know someone on tumblr who is a hetero ace woman married to a man who talked a lot about how she felt there was nowhere for her because she's gender non conforming but not a lesbian, and she's since trooned out. Now, she is a lot more butch than these fujos. But it is hard to be a woman who's attracted to men who doesn't enjoy performing femininity.
Lavery = Joseph "Grace" Lavery, MTF troon and Berkeley professor. Mallory = Mallory "Daniel" Ortberg, FTM troon and Dear Prudence advice columnist. Now calling herself Daniel Lavery after cutting ties with her entire family.
A Kiwi guessed upthread that Lavery was the kind of person who would publicly post inappropriate things about his sex life. Turns out Mallory is the one who's been doing that lately:
Lavery tweets out yet another selfie of his flabby moobs. Mallory's response to the tweet is supposed to be sweet/flirty but it's gross and sad. View attachment 1147890View attachment 1147889
A woman writes to Mallory at the Dear Prudence advice column, concerned that her husband isn't willing to pursue overdue payments from his business clients, and is therefore losing money that he is owed. Mallory's response:
[If you don't know, "findom" is "financial domination," a kink in the BDSM world. Which has absolutely nothing to do with this poor woman's question about her husband's shitty business practices.]
Mallory gets an epic dunk on...a prison librarian? Take that, fascism! View attachment 1147888
A Kiwi sent me two excerpts from Lavery's paywalled blog. The first is a narc's meditation on how he is a lovable "picaresque" "cad," a "dicktease for moms," and all of his MILs have wanted to fuck him. My main takeaway is that Mallory is either Wife #3 or Wife #4 for this piece of shit!
I have met, loved, and been loved by the families of many of my partners. The first family who loved me well was that of my first spouse. When we split up, which we did for the reasons I’ve mentioned, the family turned on me, and that was the hardest part of the whole experience. Since I was an orphaned, or at-least-half-orphaned, child, the love of other families was lavished upon me freely, joyously, and temporarily. Of course that family didn’t wish to be kind to me once I had left them. That would have been a category error. The second spouse, and family, loved me in a very specific way: as people who want to be better than their religious orthodoxy will let them, love a cad whose picaresque charm attracts them, while allowing them to fantasize about saving a soul. That ambivalent desire and repulsion has followed me in a number of domains of my life (I have come to think of it as a trans girl thing), and it tends to be more erotically charged than one would expect. Not the first spouse-mother, but the second and the third spouse-mothers, had little crushes on me. Perhaps mothers have crushes on their kids’ partners; perhaps that is a general thing. Anyway those frissons felt healing and lovely, rather than predatory or unsafe. I knew one would never move beyond the lightest, gentlest flirt once every year or so - it seems ridiculous to even imagine that it could. It was just a spark, a little warmth in the relation that felt secret and shy, a little gentle eroticization that let me know that my new pseudo-mother loved me, that they were at least as attracted to as concerned about the aspects of my personality about which they expressed the most voluble concern. Their bad faith relation to me precluded, in general, honesty with themselves or the world - but this I always knew, and didn’t mind. There is something cruel in me, there. A dicktease for moms.
Hey Lavery, people being repulsed by you isn't "a trans girl thing." You're just repulsive.
The second excerpt of Lavery's paywalled blog seems to be his reaction to discovering some critical comments about himself on Reddit. The feedback he receives on social media is 100% YAAAAS KWEEN sycophancy; he apparently thought he was universally loved until he found threads about himself on /r/blogsnark and suffered some narc injury. Mallory was a successful blogger with a devoted following of fans before she met Lavery, and Lavery apparently imagines that these fans see him as a Yoko Ono figure. His blog entry tortures the Yoko metaphor, then meanders into some truly vile observations about Mallory's intellect and social status vis a vis his own glory, and finishes off with some bizarre details about their BDSM group sex.
The boy I’m gonna Yoko’s fans have begun to notice me! Omg. They bitch meaninglessly about me behind their meaningless hands. It’s transmisogyny actually. Honestly I love having my own haters now. I was born for haters. I was born to be the best. I suppose I do have a rather ruthless streak!
The boy I’m gonna Yoko is a couple of years younger than me - just a couple, nothing scandalous! I think he likes that I’ve seen a lot of the world, that I have as many seductive stories as he does. Plus, I’m successful in my own world. It’s a whole other thing. I can introduce him to the high art types he used to be afraid of, and they don’t turn their noses up at him because he’s there with me. He’s there on my visa. Novelists and artists, critics and choreographers - they never would have been seen dead with him before, and now they let him sit with them and listen to his opinions about pop culture. And he’s read books, he’s not stupid. He writes poetry, too - he writes the most beautiful sixth-form-style poetry, you wouldn’t believe how lovely it sounds, almost like it was written by the young Yeats, or a more earnest Rupert Brooke.
The boy I’m gonna Yoko is supple, flexible. He can touch his toes. His arms bend back when I put him in stress positions. Then I let my friends take a ride. We do everything to him, we call him names and slap his face but we are careful not to lay our fingers on even the outer fringes of his ego. We call him “slut” and “faggot.” We put him in a harness and sling him around the room like a pebble. He likes that. It’s not very high-impact, but it’s a more intense sensation than anyone who has ever used Reddit, has ever experienced, or will ever. In a sense, the whole experience is a long meditation on the powerless of the fans, the fragility of their compensatory fantasies. Bless! I fucking love to ruin things.
If you don't like him, you're a transmisogynist. And if you use Reddit, you'll never cum as hard as Lavery can! Not ever!
r/AITA is just the gift that keeps on giving when it comes to troon insanity lately. In this latest saga, some poor doe-eyed liberal gets BTFO by the tranny brigade after refusing to allow her crossdressing AGP brother-in-law watch her give birth to her first child, in a prime example of why these perverts should never be entertained.
I'm relieved to see that this case is egregious enough that even reddit seems to have agreed by consensus that this is insane. It's always hard to know where the line is in Clown World these days.
If you're a trans woman and your hair looks like that you're a dude. Actually if you're a trans woman and your hair doesn't look like that, you're also a dude.
Who is more woman, someone who was born a female, went through female puberty, and has always faced the social and physical issues unique to women, or me, a man who CHOOSES to use words wrong? Hmmm? Take that, feminists.
r/AITA is just the gift that keeps on giving when it comes to troon insanity lately. In this latest saga, some poor doe-eyed liberal gets BTFO by the tranny brigade after refusing to allow her crossdressing AGP brother-in-law watch her give birth to her first child, in a prime example of why these perverts should never be entertained.
I'm relieved to see that this case is egregious enough that even reddit seems to have agreed by consensus that this is insane. It's always hard to know where the line is in Clown World these days.
Who is more woman, someone who was born a female, went through female puberty, and has always faced the social and physical issues unique to women, or me, a man who CHOOSES to use words wrong? Hmmm? Take that, feminists.
If you're an unfeminine straight woman...where is there for you? I know someone on tumblr who is a hetero ace woman married to a man who talked a lot about how she felt there was nowhere for her because she's gender non conforming but not a lesbian, and she's since trooned out. Now, she is a lot more butch than these fujos. But it is hard to be a woman who's attracted to men who doesn't enjoy performing femininity.
I'm sure it's frustrating and harder to find dates as an unfeminine straight woman than it is as a feminine straight woman, but I stand by my stance that it's infinitely easier for an unfeminine straight woman to find love with a man if she doesn't troon out and self-induce male-pattern baldness. I just wish the fujoshis recognized that. You don't have to cut off your tits and harass gay men if you don't want to shave your legs, ok? Just stop shaving!
I'm sure it's frustrating and harder to find dates as an unfeminine straight woman than it is as a feminine straight woman, but I stand by my stance that it's infinitely easier for an unfeminine straight woman to find love with a man if she doesn't troon out and self-induce male-pattern baldness. I just wish the fujoshis recognized that. You don't have to cut off your tits and harass gay men if you don't want to shave your legs, ok? Just stop shaving!
No, you are correct. But I also stand by my stance that they feel the men who are attracted to them aren't hot enough and that they will be able to get with the hot gay guys they see on instagram if they troon out. It's the same delusion as AGPs.
Who is more woman, someone who was born a female, went through female puberty, and has always faced the social and physical issues unique to women, or me, a man who CHOOSES to use words wrong? Hmmm? Take that, feminists.
The arguement of troons having "earned the right to be a woman" always boils down to the dumbest stereotypes. Yes, a trans woman probably puts in a lot more effort to look "womanly" than I do. He probably needs to get surgery, slather his face in makeup, practice having a feminine walk and mannerisms, fill himself with hormones, and dress with delicate attention to his bodytype to be barely passable. On the other hand, I could walk outside in a men's T-shit and jeans and people would still know I'm a chick. I don't have to act womanly because acting female isn't what makes someone a woman, you just are.
Troons think if you go through the social rituals of being female that makes you female, that being male or female is reduced to arbitrary ways you dress and talk. People would be seething if troons said women with buzzcuts in men's clothing are less of women because of the way they act, but that is the implication at play here. If we equate femaleness to acting in a way stereotypical of the female sex, you are saying all women who don't act female are less of women for it. We're bringing back old school sexism in the name of appeasing trannies.