Megathread Insane Parents of "Transgender" Kids - Parents who push a transgender identity on their children

[Wallace]

Puberty's distressing for most kids, I'd say. Nobody likes the boners and bleeding thing when they start, it's scary when your body's changing and you're expected to grow up and be an adult. It's especially scary for girls growing tits and suddenly men old enough to be their dads start perving on them. It probably is only like 1 in 100,000 kids who really would've been transsexuals in the old days, but there's a lot of kids who are just turning to it because it offers a promise of staying a kid for longer, or not having to deal with growing up as your actual sex.

These kids should be writing bad poetry or drinking cheap cider in the park, or doing other stupid cringey but harmless shit to manage teen angst. Or seeing child mental health services if it's worse than that. They shouldn't be put on Lupron and carved up. If they'd been around in the '90s they'd have had eating disorders, in the '00s they'd have been cutting, this is just the latest teenage mental illness. But at least those other kinds of self harm aren't treated with confirmation ("yeah, you really ARE fat and deserve to cut yourself up, here, have some razors and diet pills"), and not with surgery. That's why this one's worse.

It's much easier to create a fantasy alter ego to unshackle yourself from all of those bad feelings. Unfortunately, this doesn't work in the long run, since the underlying issues go unaddressed.

 

[Non-Expert!]

What has this to do with the cruel reality of srs? The child being dysphoric doesn't change the fact that the srs results are worse than for adults.

Nothing. I am agreeing with all of you. It has absolutely no place in this discussion about menstruation and your typical discussions about male and female fertility.

My only point, was that for the sake of not alienating the 15 Swedish middle school aged children who genuinely suffer from this condition, they are exposing the non-affected population to material that is completely irrelevant to the said discussion, AND can give bullies more material to use.

Why do children need to be taught about SRS? What benefit does it have?

For the sake of enlightenment, maybe we should tell them that if their penis is too short they can undergo an operation to lengthen it,

 

[young chestnut]

I hope this totally real thing that definitely happened hasn't been posted already

Spoiler: text

Yesterday while grocery shopping, this was my encounter with a young child (sitting in a grocery cart) and his mom.

CHILD: Hi. My name is Zayden. What's yours?
ME: I am April, nice to meet you.
CHILD: Nice to meet you too.

I continue browsing produce.

CHILD: April you know what?
ME: What?

Child's mom interrupts and apologizes. I assure her it's fine.

CHILD: We bought my sissy a new dress today.
ME: That's awesome. Where is your sissy?
CHILD: Oh she is at school. She is 7. I am 4. I just had a birthday party.
ME: Parties are fun.
CHILD: Do you know what's MORE fun than a party?
ME: No. What is more fun than a party?
CHILD: Wearing a dress!! (He giggles) I get to wear them at home. Momma makes me change when we go out in public though.

(He makes a silly face and does an exaggerated version of the 'crazy' symbol rotating his little finger round and round by his ear.) Child's mom looks embarrassed and drops her shoulders.

CHILD'S MOM: (in shameful tone) Zayden!!!

ME: Zayden, I bet you look beautiful in a dress.
CHILD: I look better than my sister does in them. (He dones a huge smile). My sissy HATES dresses, but I love them. That's why momma says they are for sissy when she buys them, and tells me that I hafta say that too. We don't even go to church anymore so my sissy doesn't hafta wear a dress and I don't have to wear a suit. Suits are itchy.
ME: You are such a smart child and so obedient to follow your mommy's rules.

Mom is now about to openly cry and looks so defeated.

CHILD: Oh, I know. I start school like sissy next year too!!! Mommy only let's me talk to strangers if she's there with me. Thats her rule. So, I really am 'odebiant' huh.
ME: I know your Mommy loves you and your sissy very much and knows how special you both are. Do you know how beautiful and Special you are?
CHILD: Yes ma'am I do! But my daddy doesnt. Did you know he moved away?
ME: No honey, I didn't know that. I'm sorry.
CHILD: I'm not. I get to wear dresses now.
CHILD'S MOM: I am so sorry he shared our life's story.
ME: My dear, what he shared is NOT your life's story. It's not HIS life's story either. You are both so young, and so very beautiful. There will be pain and there will be joy. But, make the happy memories TOGETHER- that way, when the path in life is so dark and cold, you can BOTH have the happy memories to be the light that gets u through.

Child's mom now bawling openly.

CHILD'S MOM: Can I hug you?
ME: Of course.

Hugs.
CHILD: I wanna hug April too!
ME: Is that alright with you little momma?
CHILD'S MOM: Yes.

Hugs.
CHILD: You smell just like my nana! (Georgous little giggles)
We all three are now smiling.

Folks be a light to someone else, because you NEVER know what they are going through. Being a blessing doesn't take anything away from you and takes very little time.
Yesterday, it wasn't the time for me to share MY struggles or MY transgender child coming out with this young mom. She wasn't ready at that moment (imo).
However, we did exchange cell numbers. And she now has a mom she can talk with if she ever needs one.

Not sure why she left the group about a month later; there doesn't seem to be any drama indicated. She did later make a post about having been hospitalized in a psychiatric unit for 49 days 3 years ago, which I'm sure is not at all relevant to this story which not one person in this group expressed even a shred of doubt about.

 

[Unpaid Emotional Labourer]

I hope this totally real thing that definitely happened hasn't been posted already

Spoiler: text

Yesterday while grocery shopping, this was my encounter with a young child (sitting in a grocery cart) and his mom.

CHILD: Hi. My name is Zayden. What's yours?
ME: I am April, nice to meet you.
CHILD: Nice to meet you too.

I continue browsing produce.

CHILD: April you know what?
ME: What?

Child's mom interrupts and apologizes. I assure her it's fine.

CHILD: We bought my sissy a new dress today.
ME: That's awesome. Where is your sissy?
CHILD: Oh she is at school. She is 7. I am 4. I just had a birthday party.
ME: Parties are fun.
CHILD: Do you know what's MORE fun than a party?
ME: No. What is more fun than a party?
CHILD: Wearing a dress!! (He giggles) I get to wear them at home. Momma makes me change when we go out in public though.

(He makes a silly face and does an exaggerated version of the 'crazy' symbol rotating his little finger round and round by his ear.) Child's mom looks embarrassed and drops her shoulders.

CHILD'S MOM: (in shameful tone) Zayden!!!

ME: Zayden, I bet you look beautiful in a dress.
CHILD: I look better than my sister does in them. (He dones a huge smile). My sissy HATES dresses, but I love them. That's why momma says they are for sissy when she buys them, and tells me that I hafta say that too. We don't even go to church anymore so my sissy doesn't hafta wear a dress and I don't have to wear a suit. Suits are itchy.
ME: You are such a smart child and so obedient to follow your mommy's rules.

Mom is now about to openly cry and looks so defeated.

CHILD: Oh, I know. I start school like sissy next year too!!! Mommy only let's me talk to strangers if she's there with me. Thats her rule. So, I really am 'odebiant' huh.
ME: I know your Mommy loves you and your sissy very much and knows how special you both are. Do you know how beautiful and Special you are?
CHILD: Yes ma'am I do! But my daddy doesnt. Did you know he moved away?
ME: No honey, I didn't know that. I'm sorry.
CHILD: I'm not. I get to wear dresses now.
CHILD'S MOM: I am so sorry he shared our life's story.
ME: My dear, what he shared is NOT your life's story. It's not HIS life's story either. You are both so young, and so very beautiful. There will be pain and there will be joy. But, make the happy memories TOGETHER- that way, when the path in life is so dark and cold, you can BOTH have the happy memories to be the light that gets u through.

Child's mom now bawling openly.

CHILD'S MOM: Can I hug you?
ME: Of course.

Hugs.
CHILD: I wanna hug April too!
ME: Is that alright with you little momma?
CHILD'S MOM: Yes.

Hugs.
CHILD: You smell just like my nana! (Georgous little giggles)
We all three are now smiling.

Folks be a light to someone else, because you NEVER know what they are going through. Being a blessing doesn't take anything away from you and takes very little time.
Yesterday, it wasn't the time for me to share MY struggles or MY transgender child coming out with this young mom. She wasn't ready at that moment (imo).
However, we did exchange cell numbers. And she now has a mom she can talk with if she ever needs one.

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Not sure why she left the group about a month later; there doesn't seem to be any drama indicated. She did later make a post about having been hospitalized in a psychiatric unit for 49 days 3 years ago, which I'm sure is not at all relevant to this story which not one person in this group expressed even a shred of doubt about.

Of all the things that never happened, including all the things that didn’t happen that I or anyone else have ever posted about using the “Of all the things that never happened...” joke structure, this is absolutely the thing that did not happen the most. Ever.

 

[Jarolleon]

Puberty's distressing for most kids, I'd say. Nobody likes the boners and bleeding thing when they start, it's scary when your body's changing and you're expected to grow up and be an adult. It's especially scary for girls growing tits and suddenly men old enough to be their dads start perving on them. It probably is only like 1 in 100,000 kids who really would've been transsexuals in the old days, but there's a lot of kids who are just turning to it because it offers a promise of staying a kid for longer, or not having to deal with growing up as your actual sex.

These kids should be writing bad poetry or drinking cheap cider in the park, or doing other stupid cringey but harmless shit to manage teen angst. Or seeing child mental health services if it's worse than that. They shouldn't be put on Lupron and carved up. If they'd been around in the '90s they'd have had eating disorders, in the '00s they'd have been cutting, this is just the latest teenage mental illness. But at least those other kinds of self harm aren't treated with confirmation ("yeah, you really ARE fat and deserve to cut yourself up, here, have some razors and diet pills"), and not with surgery. That's why this one's worse.

How long till TRAs notice this point and say that every kid who self-harmed in previous decades were secret trannies who didn't know it because society was too transphobic to let someone hatch that egg?

 

[Parthenos]

How long till TRAs notice this point and say that every kid who self-harmed in previous decades were secret trannies who didn't know it because society was too transphobic to let someone hatch that egg?

Forget previous decades, try any kind of gender-nonconforming historical figure. At this rate, the troon cult will have more posthumous "baptisms" than the Mormons.

 

[lololololagain]

I hope this totally real thing that definitely happened hasn't been posted already

Spoiler: text

Yesterday while grocery shopping, this was my encounter with a young child (sitting in a grocery cart) and his mom.

CHILD: Hi. My name is Zayden. What's yours?
ME: I am April, nice to meet you.
CHILD: Nice to meet you too.

I continue browsing produce.

CHILD: April you know what?
ME: What?

Child's mom interrupts and apologizes. I assure her it's fine.

CHILD: We bought my sissy a new dress today.
ME: That's awesome. Where is your sissy?
CHILD: Oh she is at school. She is 7. I am 4. I just had a birthday party.
ME: Parties are fun.
CHILD: Do you know what's MORE fun than a party?
ME: No. What is more fun than a party?
CHILD: Wearing a dress!! (He giggles) I get to wear them at home. Momma makes me change when we go out in public though.

(He makes a silly face and does an exaggerated version of the 'crazy' symbol rotating his little finger round and round by his ear.) Child's mom looks embarrassed and drops her shoulders.

CHILD'S MOM: (in shameful tone) Zayden!!!

ME: Zayden, I bet you look beautiful in a dress.
CHILD: I look better than my sister does in them. (He dones a huge smile). My sissy HATES dresses, but I love them. That's why momma says they are for sissy when she buys them, and tells me that I hafta say that too. We don't even go to church anymore so my sissy doesn't hafta wear a dress and I don't have to wear a suit. Suits are itchy.
ME: You are such a smart child and so obedient to follow your mommy's rules.

Mom is now about to openly cry and looks so defeated.

CHILD: Oh, I know. I start school like sissy next year too!!! Mommy only let's me talk to strangers if she's there with me. Thats her rule. So, I really am 'odebiant' huh.
ME: I know your Mommy loves you and your sissy very much and knows how special you both are. Do you know how beautiful and Special you are?
CHILD: Yes ma'am I do! But my daddy doesnt. Did you know he moved away?
ME: No honey, I didn't know that. I'm sorry.
CHILD: I'm not. I get to wear dresses now.
CHILD'S MOM: I am so sorry he shared our life's story.
ME: My dear, what he shared is NOT your life's story. It's not HIS life's story either. You are both so young, and so very beautiful. There will be pain and there will be joy. But, make the happy memories TOGETHER- that way, when the path in life is so dark and cold, you can BOTH have the happy memories to be the light that gets u through.

Child's mom now bawling openly.

CHILD'S MOM: Can I hug you?
ME: Of course.

Hugs.
CHILD: I wanna hug April too!
ME: Is that alright with you little momma?
CHILD'S MOM: Yes.

Hugs.
CHILD: You smell just like my nana! (Georgous little giggles)
We all three are now smiling.

Folks be a light to someone else, because you NEVER know what they are going through. Being a blessing doesn't take anything away from you and takes very little time.
Yesterday, it wasn't the time for me to share MY struggles or MY transgender child coming out with this young mom. She wasn't ready at that moment (imo).
However, we did exchange cell numbers. And she now has a mom she can talk with if she ever needs one.

View attachment 1150530View attachment 1150531

Not sure why she left the group about a month later; there doesn't seem to be any drama indicated. She did later make a post about having been hospitalized in a psychiatric unit for 49 days 3 years ago, which I'm sure is not at all relevant to this story which not one person in this group expressed even a shred of doubt about.

what really happened-

*a pedophile obsessed with transing children sees a little boy and imagines him in a dress, goes home and writes this bullshit and reads other stories about transchildern from their fucked up parents, while having his daily jerking off*

 

[Stormy Daniel's Lawyer]

These loons make me miss the days of when parents wanted to their son Hitler. I love a shit-show as much as the next guy, but for fuck sake's this is complete insanity. Any medical professional that condones this madness should be stripped of their licences and shunned for eternity..

 

[lololololagain]

Anyone else find it weird that so many Transkids (and their parents) always say, "He/she knew since she/he was 3!" Why is 3 the golden age for them?

 

[Carnavoyeur]

Anyone else find it weird that so many Transkids (and their parents) always say, "He/she knew since she/he was 3!" Why is 3 the golden age for them?

Probably because that's around the age kids generally start speaking instead of babbling, and instead of going "Haha okay sweetie but that's make believe" like a normal parent would to a child saying they're the opposite sex, an insane person latches on with both hands.

 

[Non-Expert!]

How about a new expression:

MUNCHAUSEN BY TRANNY.

 

[Diana Moon Glampers]

Probably because that's around the age kids generally start speaking instead of babbling, and instead of going "Haha okay sweetie but that's make believe" like a normal parent would to a child saying they're the opposite sex, an insane person latches on with both hands.

Yup. They say all sorts of stupid things at that age. "Mama is my brother." "The cat is a kind of dog." "I want you to bite me, please bite me!" "When I grow up I'll blow up the world." None of these are hypothetical. Or even unusual or noteworthy, just part of the daily chatter.

It's the mile-a-minute-talker, "will they ever shut up?" age, and most of it is nonsense they say to see what provokes a reaction, and of what variety. Personally I've never once seen a child "get it right" every time when it comes to their own sex, and that's the issue here: almost every kid, at some point as they develop, will tell someone they're the opposite sex. It might be out of ignorance because they don't understand the categories, or out of envy over something coded for the other gender, or because the kid has some subconscious understanding that it's a bit subversive to say.

But if you're coming at parenting from a troon lens, your kid can say "I'm a girl" 99 times but if she says "I'm a boy" once while watching a TV show "for boys" that she likes, just keep asking her whether she's a boy or a girl, while getting more and more interactive and interested every time she says "boy." You'll have her begging for blockers in no time.

 

[Non-Expert!]

Yup. They say all sorts of stupid things at that age. "Mama is my brother." "The cat is a kind of dog." "I want you to bite me, please bite me!" "When I grow up I'll blow up the world." None of these are hypothetical. Or even unusual or noteworthy, just part of the daily chatter.

It's the mile-a-minute-talker, "will they ever shut up?" age, and most of it is nonsense they say to see what provokes a reaction, and of what variety. Personally I've never once seen a child "get it right" every time when it comes to their own sex, and that's the issue here: almost every kid, at some point as they develop, will tell someone they're the opposite sex. It might be out of ignorance because they don't understand the categories, or out of envy over something coded for the other gender, or because the kid has some subconscious understanding that it's a bit subversive to say.

But if you're coming at parenting from a troon lens, your kid can say "I'm a girl" 99 times but if she says "I'm a boy" once while watching a TV show "for boys" that she likes, just keep asking her whether she's a boy or a girl, while getting more and more interactive and interested every time she says "boy." You'll have her begging for blockers in no time.

Not my kids, but they are semi-exceptional.

At the age of 3, strong personality traits, and talents can come forth. A lot of kids at the age of 3 also begin the motormouth phase. Girls more than boys. A savvy parent knows when to tune it out. Basically if a parent wants to troon their kids out, they are going to. It is called confirmation bias.

 

[Spooky Bones]

How about a new expression:

MUNCHAUSEN BY TRANNY.

Troonchausen by proxy

 

[Robert James]

Anyone else find it weird that so many Transkids (and their parents) always say, "He/she knew since she/he was 3!" Why is 3 the golden age for them?

I remember having a conversation with my mother once about what it was like to be a parent one of the things she said that stuck with me was. " To you, your children are the most amazing creatures on the planet. To everybody else, they are the brat that just shat themselves at red lobster". I think that is one of the reasons they latch onto trooning a kid when they are young. The parents want everyone to understand how special and amazing their kid is and claiming they are a troon is the easiest way. In certain circles, it can gain you a ton of respect/admiration/honor with very little work. All you need to do is buy billy girls clothes and suddenly those boring post about what he's wearing today and what he said become the most talked-about post in your circle. You get clout online, an immediate defense to anyone picking on your kid, access to echo chambers and have the chance of becoming the next Jaz. As they age they become the center of attention at your school and are so different, so unique, so unparalleled that the school may change policy for you. They get away with it because kids bable when they are learning language and the meaning behind words and by the time the kid is old enough to know what those words mean they have had years of positive enforcement that they are the opposite sex.

 

[Mako_Spark]

It can backfire and cause kids to either misidentify themselves or their classmates.

I can think of plenty of other reasons why 'woke' sex ed/health class could backfire (although yours is certainly reason enough to scrap the whole idea)... for example, if "some girls just don't ever get periods!" is the party line, who's to say a 17 or 18-year-old girl who still hasn't had her first period yet stops thinking about going to the doctor to get that checked out, because woke sex ed has taught them 'it's totally normal for some girls to never have a period,' when it's truthfully totally not normal.

Some girls these days are getting their periods at 8 or 9 (that's another whole frightening story) while the vast majority will start at around 11-13, but no period yet at 17-18? You may just be a very late bloomer, but at that point it's much more likely there's something screwy going on with your hormones, and seeing a doctor to investigate the reason for it is vital in case your lack of periods (amenorrhea) is linked to a medical condition that could leave you infertile if untreated, or if the reason is somehow 'lifestyle-related,' e.g. being dangerously underweight, overtraining as an athlete, or following a diet that's seriously deficient in iron or B-vitamins or whatever... whatever the reason, you still want a doctor's eye on that kid. You don't want some male LARPing as female in health class saying "I'm a girl, and I don't have periods, and I'm still perfectly valid!" (oh, how the troons have made me hate that word) and potentially confusing actual girls and young women about what's biologically normal and what's not.

 

[drfuzzyballs]

You know I was 10 when the case of the "pregnant man" was in the news I learned that transgender and sex change operations were a thing and I jokingly said I wanted one. Boy am I glad I was born in the 20th century and fear for my potential future children

 

[66andtwothirds]

Boy am I glad I was born in the 20th century and fear for my potential future children

yeah a huge number of what used to be called tomboys (and who often grow up to be normal women) would have been put on t had they been born 10 years ago.

no longer can you be just a tomboy or a boy who likes one or two strange/girly things, you must be trooned out. many such cases - sad.

 

[NoReturn]

I remember having a conversation with my mother once about what it was like to be a parent one of the things she said that stuck with me was. " To you, your children are the most amazing creatures on the planet. To everybody else, they are the brat that just shat themselves at red lobster". I think that is one of the reasons they latch onto trooning a kid when they are young. The parents want everyone to understand how special and amazing their kid is and claiming they are a troon is the easiest way. In certain circles, it can gain you a ton of respect/admiration/honor with very little work. All you need to do is buy billy girls clothes and suddenly those boring post about what he's wearing today and what he said become the most talked-about post in your circle. You get clout online, an immediate defense to anyone picking on your kid, access to echo chambers and have the chance of becoming the next Jaz. As they age they become the center of attention at your school and are so different, so unique, so unparalleled that the school may change policy for you. They get away with it because kids bable when they are learning language and the meaning behind words and by the time the kid is old enough to know what those words mean they have had years of positive enforcement that they are the opposite sex.

Your mom sounds like a considerate lady.

 

[eternal dog mongler]

I can think of plenty of other reasons why 'woke' sex ed/health class could backfire (although yours is certainly reason enough to scrap the whole idea)... for example, if "some girls just don't ever get periods!" is the party line, who's to say a 17 or 18-year-old girl who still hasn't had her first period yet stops thinking about going to the doctor to get that checked out, because woke sex ed has taught them 'it's totally normal for some girls to never have a period,' when it's truthfully totally not normal.

You can sorta avoid this problem by just sticking to biology. If you have a uterus then you should have periods. If you have a cervix you should have Pap smears done routinely.

Of course the immediate problem with this is that kids probably don't know wtf a cervix is. Some of the stuff that my nurses hear is wild. Lots of novel contraceptive techniques like "olive oil kills sperm so you can't get pregnant if you use it as lube" that just spread like wildfire among middle school and high school students. Or air killing sperm. That went around for a while.

You have to meet people where they're at and just saying things like women should get Pap smears is a whole fucking hell of a lot easier to understand than like people born with a cervix should have Pap smears.