You're mistaken, actually. But remember the two different angles we're coming from. People who are not "classically attractive" can have loving relationships. Actually on the forum "looksmatched" couples are often spoken about, which is when a couple consists of two people of roughly equal physical attractiveness, so we are aware of this and only somebody who is blind or literally basement bound would not see this. Many of you are happy with one person who loves you, but our average user is shallow and often has unrealistically high standards for a partner (they want girls who are out of their current league) or conversely, which applies to me, they are not interested in love, are again shallow, and just want casual flings with as many hot women as possible. Many guys go through that phase at some stage of their life, it's worth remembering many of us are college age still, or early 20s. Many women go through something similar where they dream of having a prince charming 8+ man and refuse to date men in their own league. These are typically the women who end up in tears about how the model guy they brought home "was only using them for sex" and how every man is a lying cheating pig asshole etc. Typically when both men and women mature they leave this dream world behind and settle on somebody who is within their league.
I don't know why, I realize some people will find it sad. But of course all of us have our flaws, not just on the outside, and this would be mine. Remember, I'm far from being the only man in the world like this which is why David DeAngelo's net worth is over 60 million dollars. The club scene also makes hefty profits catering to these men, by allowing hot women in for free, so the horny guys see the place packed out with hot slim blondes and shell out their hard earned salary for entry and $100 double vodkas all night. Any time you go to a club you will see 100s of guys who are just like me, minus the compulsive internet browsing during the week.