Please explain to us more why.
1. I made every single object in a room an educational tool and required him to use them in complete sentences. "The car is red"
2. I brought them to the park to play on the playground.
3. I taught my oldest to play a note on the piano, sing his Do-Re-Mis on pitch and sing it before he was 3
4. I always cut up food so that it can be eaten properly.
5. I play toys with my kids.
6. Eating time is learning time and my oldest loves to watch Blippi, Dave and Eva, Numbablocks, and Alphablocks.
7. I've kept them fed and clothed perfectly, and they've met all of their height and weight milestones.
8. I babyproof the whole house, electrical sockets with plastic covers to immediately removing furniture that is unsafe.
9. I gave my wife a chance to spend some time with our son by having her be completely responsible for them at every furry single con we've ever done.
10. I fed them healthy foods, mixing fruits, veggies, proteins, and carbs in most of their meals.
So here is my reworded, simplified method of addressing every falsehood. The format is:
A. Goal.
B. Method.
C. Consequence.
This is the way I think. It's simple. It's good. It's goal-achieving. Let's try this method.
1. The accusation was
A. How do I Hygiene?
B. Shower? What's that
C. I never showered! I smell like poop. Oops!
Truth is:
A. Stay fursuit smelling fresh.
B. Hang dry or dry on the ground with the fan.
C. There is still a wet spot. And now my suit is stinky all con. Crap!
Solution isn't better hygiene. It's figuring out how to dry a wet faux fur overnight successfully.
2. The accusation was
A. Involve children in adult fandom!
B. Get their character commissioned!
C. Now I've put children in an adult situation immorally!
Truth is:
A. Get a cute badge to bring around that is more interesting then the boring badge you get at reg.
B. Find someone who draws babies well. Commissions Marci.
C. Gets cute picture and universal praise from all. Win-Win!
The premise that furry is an adult fandom vs an all-ages fandom is an "agree to disagree" conflict. No solution.
3. The accusation was
A. Bring baby to an adult room party.
B. Walk there.
C. Oh, was probably rejected at the door! Sick father!
Truth is:
A. Describe a complex joke about babyfurs, cultural appropriation, reactions, and literal interpretations of non-literal jokes on twitter in 280 characters or less.
B. Typed the tweet.
C. Ambiguity of the tweet made it look like it wasn't a joke, was taken seriously by everyone. I was never approached about the subject to clarify for 2 years.
Solution isn't parental alienation. It's figuring out if Twitter usage has a good cost:benefit ratio since there is no surefire method of avoiding ambiguous tweets.
4. The accusation was
A. Clearly fantasizes about pedophilia!
B. You must spread that F-list with ageplay around!
C. You probably have been doing this for years! Now you're caught. Haha!
Truth is:
A. Try to figure out what might be interesting to RP with in 2012.
B. Update F-list
C. Forgets about F-list. Figured ageplay was changing age from human years to cat years (33 human years to 3 in cat years) and "inexperienced partners" was describing me in 2012: having only RPed a handful of times.
Solution isn't isolating and removing me. The solution is for me to figure out what is the best method of finding RP partners who are interested in TGTF when TGTF isn't a category on F-list.
4. The accusation was
A. You must be looking for pedophilic art on twitter!
B. You must seek these accounts to watch them
C. You watch them! Disgusting!
Truth is:
A. It's a common courtesy to watch your watchers back.
B. They watch me.
C. I watch back, I have never seen pedophilic art in my Twitter stream before. If I did I'd unwatch them. I'm on twitter very rarely, I watch back frequently.
Solution isn't ostracization, it's to identify who to unwatch, how to discover who to unwatch independently, and I will.
5. The accusation was
A. You probably use F-list to find zoophiliac Rps!
B. You send your F-list around.
C. Once you find a method you ASSOCIATE. Bastard!
Truth is:
A. Find other TGTF fans, since if a mating happens POST transformation, then theoretically it was zoophilia since a character was once a human.
B. I never sent it around.
C. I never found anyone. After 2012 I decided that TGTF had no relation to Zoophilia since at no point are humans ever in contact with animals. Refer to Jaki-Kuns art.
Solution isn't ostracization, it's to delete website accounts I never use and I did.
6. The accusation was
A. You must connect with those who do crimes against children and animals using twitter because you want to do them too!
B. You watch the other perverts who are just like you!
C. Now you have associated yourself with a criminal who prays on the weak! Bastard! Sicko!
Truth is:
A. Find more friends in the fandom through random adds.
B. Send unsolicited messages like "Would you like to be my friend?" to those on skype/telegram using the FurAffinity forums memberlist, Furspace skype furs, FA TelegramFurries, Furrys4Life skype furs, and many more!
C. I transfer these contact list through Twitter which searches out their twitters and I add them. In order for me to remove them I'd need to first find out their crime. There is no method to find out their crime outside of being involved in gossip circles.
Solution isn't ostracization, it's to identify who to unwatch, how to discover who to unwatch independantly, and I will.
7. The accusation was
A. Khord came on KiwiFarm to defend his crimes!
B. By trying to explain away his degenerate evils!
C. Clearly only embarrassing himself! Pathetic!
Truth is:
A. Fact-check
B. Type
C. Still too complex. Should of kept it simple.
Solution isn't attacks, it's to identify an actual proof of a crime using testimony, police reports, chat logs, or anything that isn't purely circumstantial.
8. The accusation was
A. Khord saught pedophilic art!
B. See, he's watching them!
C. I'm sure he downloaded it all. Sick bastard!
Truth is:
A. Find TGTF.
B. Find artist who drew TGTF.
C. Watch and download TGTF.
Solution isn't ostracization, its to clear the I.B. watch list, and it's to request TGTF tags so that awful art doesn't show up on the feed.
9. The accusation was
A. Khord does things for attention!
B. Interviewing Ryan Hill and getting interviewed for NBC!
C. You get attention! Shame on you. You shouldn't get any attention!
Truth is:
A. I don't want people to fear Ryan Hill or furries.
B. Through interviews I reveal the harmlessness of Ryan Hill and furries.
C. Threat nullified, fear destroyed, and mysticism erased.
The premise that you can't transfer information if it might cause attention is an "agree to disagree" conflict. No solution.
10. The accusation was
A. Khord threw away his fursuit in shame of his stench!
B. He threw it in the trash can!
C. He then lied about it online to hide is shame! Pathetic!
Truth is:
A. Tried to transport my fursuit from AnthroCon to California in 2016 and from my parents home to the RV in 2017.
B. Took the Greyhound in 2016, and a pick-up truck in 2017.
C. Original bodysuit stolen in 2016. Original smile head+Replacement bodysuit fell out of the truck in 2017.
Solution is to never use Greyhound to transport valuables and to never let anyone else pack your valuables for you.
I'll try my best to address future concerns in future posts.