I don't think there are enough letters in any language to spell it out long enough, if this is any proof. Warning, long
For anybody from that server that reads this thread: what happened to Glip is awful. That doesn't excuse the fact that the server is repeating the same mistakes that have left it open to more people ending up hurt or worse. Minors lying to get into NSFW chats shows that the vetting process will never work out. Some people being able to share experiences is not worth the risk of another victim with the same situation as many of the rest so far. Shaming victims for their lack of control while using the same excuse for your own mistakes is petty, unfair, and doesn't help your case. Please realize the harm that can come out of this, because nobody wants another victim.
And for fuck's sake.
Do not.
Do not reach out to someone who makes an accusation against you. You aren't even using someone else as a proxy. They are not going to feel comfortable talking to you. Take a fucking hint.