- Joined
- Dec 20, 2019
Thank god that Lou is an incel. He'd be super abusive if he was in a relationship.
He's a textbook manipulator. Notice how when he called himself toxic, it was never in relation to any specific behavior patterns. Some people use a strategy like this to give an appearance that they've taken responsibility without actually doing anything. If you acknowledge that a certain behavior was toxic, it's a lot easier for people to call you on your BS later when you exhibit that behavior again. His own words give him away, he only feels bad because people perceive him as toxic, not because of the attitude and behavior that made people see him that way to begin with.
Also if anyone makes a dedicated post saying they will or "might" delete their account rather than doing it, they're just trying to get sympathy. People that actually want to do it will do it, not wait for someone to beg them not to.
He's a textbook manipulator. Notice how when he called himself toxic, it was never in relation to any specific behavior patterns. Some people use a strategy like this to give an appearance that they've taken responsibility without actually doing anything. If you acknowledge that a certain behavior was toxic, it's a lot easier for people to call you on your BS later when you exhibit that behavior again. His own words give him away, he only feels bad because people perceive him as toxic, not because of the attitude and behavior that made people see him that way to begin with.
Also if anyone makes a dedicated post saying they will or "might" delete their account rather than doing it, they're just trying to get sympathy. People that actually want to do it will do it, not wait for someone to beg them not to.