Daddies and Littles - Child Abuse Fetish

[JSGOTI]

Hey, someone who is a "little" technically.

I agree. The shit is fucking weird. I don't know if anyone from the "little community" has come and talked yet. I registered to post on here because I'm bored honestly. Quarantine does some shit to you. And some youtube video's brought me here. But yeah. I didn't go through all pages because that is a lot but I went through enough to know the tumblr community is trash.

As someone who is a little I can validate I have massive "daddy issues" that I did go to that EDMR therapy for. I also am a person who is in control like 90% of the time because of my job and getting to submit to my master, because calling someone daddy is gross to me, makes me feel absolutely relaxed because I no longer have to be in control or making choices. Our dynamic would probably be more typical to your normal BDSM master/sub stuff but there is the whole little side to it with the onesies. For me, I bought one more as a joke, then I found out it was the most comfortable piece of clothing I put on, and that's how we got there. I could never ever ever get into diapers. That is disgusting to me but to each their own.

I also was what was called a parentified child. So my childhood ended fairly early and I started taking care of my house and family very very early. I don't know if this impacts it but I wouldn't doubt it.

For me I can't have sex in little space. Little space is like a head space to go into before bed, when I'm really depressed, or if me and my partner set time aside for a scene. I have a few pacis and the idea weirded me out before I tried it. I didn't buy my first one, someone sent it to me for free. It helps when I'm having anxiety to regulate.

I don't really have any good reason for my stuffed animal love or anything like that. What I do think is important though is none of this "little stuff" for me, leaves our bedroom. Once you expose your kink to others you are being disrespectful and that's not cool. A lot of us in the community don't like the rest of the community because they proudly use hashtags that will get them in general searches. It's just wrong. And some people go outside in their diapers and onesies. For me that is a crime.

Ask me questions if you want. I know its weird and fucked up. Sorry for bringing this from the dead

TL;DR: Part of the little community. I know it's gross. Its connected (at least for me) to daddy issues, messed up childhood. Little space isn't sexual for everyone. Little space should be kept in your bedroom or house and not exposed to others. Hashtags are a problem.

What a beautiful first post and introduction.
Godbear bless, you're going to fit in perfectly here.

 

[apricot_berry]

What a beautiful first post and introduction.
Godbear bless, you're going to fit in perfectly here.

Ah things can be quoted. The more I learn.

There's a lot more to me than being a weird little on my off time.

 

[fishercat]

Hey, someone who is a "little" technically.

I agree. The shit is fucking weird. I don't know if anyone from the "little community" has come and talked yet. I registered to post on here because I'm bored honestly. Quarantine does some shit to you. And some youtube video's brought me here. But yeah. I didn't go through all pages because that is a lot but I went through enough to know the tumblr community is trash.

As someone who is a little I can validate I have massive "daddy issues" that I did go to that EDMR therapy for. I also am a person who is in control like 90% of the time because of my job and getting to submit to my master, because calling someone daddy is gross to me, makes me feel absolutely relaxed because I no longer have to be in control or making choices. Our dynamic would probably be more typical to your normal BDSM master/sub stuff but there is the whole little side to it with the onesies. For me, I bought one more as a joke, then I found out it was the most comfortable piece of clothing I put on, and that's how we got there. I could never ever ever get into diapers. That is disgusting to me but to each their own.

I also was what was called a parentified child. So my childhood ended fairly early and I started taking care of my house and family very very early. I don't know if this impacts it but I wouldn't doubt it.

For me I can't have sex in little space. Little space is like a head space to go into before bed, when I'm really depressed, or if me and my partner set time aside for a scene. I have a few pacis and the idea weirded me out before I tried it. I didn't buy my first one, someone sent it to me for free. It helps when I'm having anxiety to regulate.

I don't really have any good reason for my stuffed animal love or anything like that. What I do think is important though is none of this "little stuff" for me, leaves our bedroom. Once you expose your kink to others you are being disrespectful and that's not cool. A lot of us in the community don't like the rest of the community because they proudly use hashtags that will get them in general searches. It's just wrong. And some people go outside in their diapers and onesies. For me that is a crime.

Ask me questions if you want. I know its weird and fucked up. Sorry for bringing this from the dead

TL;DR: Part of the little community. I know it's gross. Its connected (at least for me) to daddy issues, messed up childhood. Little space isn't sexual for everyone. Little space should be kept in your bedroom or house and not exposed to others. Hashtags are a problem.

Hey I have a question.

Why would you admit this?

 

[apricot_berry]

Hey I have a question.

Why would you admit this?

Honestly, I would people rather hear it from someone than draw conclusions. And I was seeing alot of conclusions being drawn.

I wanted to confirm that yeah. Some are true. Not all of them. But some.

I really don't think there is any pedo aspect to it. Not that I can see in my own way. I see how it's weird. But it is really just weird coping skills that in general goes both ways.

EDIT: I know others probably do have a pedo aspect to it. I'm not going to ignore that. There is.

 

[NoFeline]

Okay, I know what we usually do here is point and laugh, but I'm taking this opportunity to pick brains instead since @apricot_berry offered.

As someone who is a little I can validate I have massive "daddy issues" that I did go to that EDMR therapy for.
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I also was what was called a parentified child. So my childhood ended fairly early and I started taking care of my house and family very very early. I don't know if this impacts it but I wouldn't doubt it.

I haven't heard about EDMR before this, but a cursory search says it's mainly being used to treat PTSD. Is that the case for you?

 

[Piga Dgrifm]

Honestly, I would people rather hear it from someone than draw conclusions. And I was seeing alot of conclusions being drawn.

I wanted to confirm that yeah. Some are true. Not all of them. But some.

I really don't think there is any pedo aspect to it. Not that I can see in my own way. I see how it's weird. But it is really just weird coping skills that in general goes both ways.

EDIT: I know others probably do have a pedo aspect to it. I'm not going to ignore that. There is.

I don't think this is the healthiest way to cope, if I'm being honest. Locking yourself back into the mindset of a small child really doesn't seem to be the way to move forward from trauma.

I will say that I think there's a difference between DDLG and those who mentally regress due to a mental health issue.

 

[exhausted]

I love when exceptionals come in threads and say they aren’t like the bad ones we laugh at.

 

[apricot_berry]

Okay, I know what we usually do here is point and laugh, but I'm taking this opportunity to pick brains instead since @apricot_berry offered.

I haven't heard about EDMR before this, but a cursory search says it's mainly being used to treat PTSD. Is that the case for you?

Thank you for choosing to not point and laugh. It's still okay to do so. I spend half my time looking at people in my community and literally face palming or being like thats not cool.

It is in the case for me. I have ptsd and significant trauma history.
EDIT: because more info may give insight. Part of my PTSD is my father. Which is where I would assume part of this comes in to play. I have had a lot of other shit happen that just was unfortunate but added to it as well. Kids don't process trauma well.

 

[Meowthkip]

@apricot_berry Have you ever gone boom-boom in ur diapie?

 

[apricot_berry]

@apricot_berry Have you ever gone boom-boom in ur diapie?

ha.
As said before. No.
Those are totally different types of weirdos. ABDL and they give me the creeps.

Edit cause double posted sorry still learning

I don't think this is the healthiest way to cope, if I'm being honest. Locking yourself back into the mindset of a small child really doesn't seem to be the way to move forward from trauma.

I will say that I think there's a difference between DDLG and those who mentally regress due to a mental health issue.

I don't really go back into the mindset of a child. I am still an adult the whole time. Its more a relaxation thing where I'm open to color and watch cartoons or whatever. I have a high stress job and it's hard to come down from the stress as well. My therapists are aware of the dynamic. I had similar concerns too.

It could be my personal dynamic though that isn't so much of an issue. I'm not here to say it's healthy for everyone. It's not. Most people who are in these relationships end up highly codependent and that is something I am constantly aware of.

Like I said I'm just here to answer questions and give my point of view.

 

[FrickleMyPickle]

Ask me questions if you want.

What on god's green earth lead you to believe that coming to a place like this and talking about your onesie and "paci" was a good idea?

 

[exhausted]

ha.
As said before. No.
Those are totally different types of weirdos. ABDL and they give me the creeps.

Edit cause double posted sorry still learning

I don't really go back into the mindset of a child. I am still an adult the whole time. Its more a relaxation thing where I'm open to color and watch cartoons or whatever. I have a high stress job and it's hard to come down from the stress as well. My therapists are aware of the dynamic. I had similar concerns too.

It could be my personal dynamic though that isn't so much of an issue. I'm not here to say it's healthy for everyone. It's not. Most people who are in these relationships end up highly codependent and that is something I am constantly aware of.

Like I said I'm just here to answer questions and give my point of view.

Do you only do this because daddy did a bad touch/you wanted daddy to bad touch?

 

[vertexwindi]

Hey, someone who is a "little" technically.

I agree. The shit is fucking weird. I don't know if anyone from the "little community" has come and talked yet. I registered to post on here because I'm bored honestly. Quarantine does some shit to you. And some youtube video's brought me here. But yeah. I didn't go through all pages because that is a lot but I went through enough to know the tumblr community is trash.

As someone who is a little I can validate I have massive "daddy issues" that I did go to that EDMR therapy for. I also am a person who is in control like 90% of the time because of my job and getting to submit to my master, because calling someone daddy is gross to me, makes me feel absolutely relaxed because I no longer have to be in control or making choices. Our dynamic would probably be more typical to your normal BDSM master/sub stuff but there is the whole little side to it with the onesies. For me, I bought one more as a joke, then I found out it was the most comfortable piece of clothing I put on, and that's how we got there. I could never ever ever get into diapers. That is disgusting to me but to each their own.

I also was what was called a parentified child. So my childhood ended fairly early and I started taking care of my house and family very very early. I don't know if this impacts it but I wouldn't doubt it.

For me I can't have sex in little space. Little space is like a head space to go into before bed, when I'm really depressed, or if me and my partner set time aside for a scene. I have a few pacis and the idea weirded me out before I tried it. I didn't buy my first one, someone sent it to me for free. It helps when I'm having anxiety to regulate.

I don't really have any good reason for my stuffed animal love or anything like that. What I do think is important though is none of this "little stuff" for me, leaves our bedroom. Once you expose your kink to others you are being disrespectful and that's not cool. A lot of us in the community don't like the rest of the community because they proudly use hashtags that will get them in general searches. It's just wrong. And some people go outside in their diapers and onesies. For me that is a crime.

Ask me questions if you want. I know its weird and fucked up. Sorry for bringing this from the dead

TL;DR: Part of the little community. I know it's gross. Its connected (at least for me) to daddy issues, messed up childhood. Little space isn't sexual for everyone. Little space should be kept in your bedroom or house and not exposed to others. Hashtags are a problem.

Wow. Fucking littles, man.

I can sympathize with having your childhood taken away from you and whatever daddy issues you might have but this really is the worst possible way to cope. Sometimes life deals you a shitty hand and you have to work with it instead of regressing yourself mentally. You need to confront these feelings head-on. Go see a therapist for fuck's sake.

 

[MiamiRick]

Well then, I had realized this existed but pushed it to the back of my mind. Especially when I was shown a fucking TikTok video of it. Now correct me if I am wrong, but are these the same kind of people who spend actual money setting up kid toys/play pens for themselves and just play with them? The last thing I remember was someone in a video wearing a onesie picking shit out in a store and their "Daddy" telling them no. You have to wonder, why the fuck does the rest of the world need to be subjected to your nasty fetish. Thank god for COVID-19.

 

[Lemon Bread]

Recently, someone added a random dude to a group I had, but I followed them for all of five minutes before realizing said person only posted about two things.

Shitting themself and being a stoner.

What's with these types of freaks and weed? Vapes, even? Don't they want to be as infantile as possible? Wouldn't smoking an illegal substance break the illusion?

Spoiler: back to regular neopedophilia

This one is somehow the worst one to look at. "Whenever he pleases", aka "ITS NOT RAPE ITS MY BEE DEE ES EM LIFESTYLE".

Kink culture was a mistake.

 

[NoFeline]

What could this be?

Oh.

Oh no.

This is not the kind of rabbit hole I was hoping for this early in the morning.

this fuckin guy with an open diape in his PFP keeps engaging with serious political discussions

 

[TokiBun]

Hey, someone who is a "little" technically.

I agree. The shit is fucking weird. I don't know if anyone from the "little community" has come and talked yet. I registered to post on here because I'm bored honestly. Quarantine does some shit to you. And some youtube video's brought me here. But yeah. I didn't go through all pages because that is a lot but I went through enough to know the tumblr community is trash.

As someone who is a little I can validate I have massive "daddy issues" that I did go to that EDMR therapy for. I also am a person who is in control like 90% of the time because of my job and getting to submit to my master, because calling someone daddy is gross to me, makes me feel absolutely relaxed because I no longer have to be in control or making choices. Our dynamic would probably be more typical to your normal BDSM master/sub stuff but there is the whole little side to it with the onesies. For me, I bought one more as a joke, then I found out it was the most comfortable piece of clothing I put on, and that's how we got there. I could never ever ever get into diapers. That is disgusting to me but to each their own.

I also was what was called a parentified child. So my childhood ended fairly early and I started taking care of my house and family very very early. I don't know if this impacts it but I wouldn't doubt it.

For me I can't have sex in little space. Little space is like a head space to go into before bed, when I'm really depressed, or if me and my partner set time aside for a scene. I have a few pacis and the idea weirded me out before I tried it. I didn't buy my first one, someone sent it to me for free. It helps when I'm having anxiety to regulate.

I don't really have any good reason for my stuffed animal love or anything like that. What I do think is important though is none of this "little stuff" for me, leaves our bedroom. Once you expose your kink to others you are being disrespectful and that's not cool. A lot of us in the community don't like the rest of the community because they proudly use hashtags that will get them in general searches. It's just wrong. And some people go outside in their diapers and onesies. For me that is a crime.

Ask me questions if you want. I know its weird and fucked up. Sorry for bringing this from the dead

TL;DR: Part of the little community. I know it's gross. Its connected (at least for me) to daddy issues, messed up childhood. Little space isn't sexual for everyone. Little space should be kept in your bedroom or house and not exposed to others. Hashtags are a problem.

It’s interesting to get the perspective of someone part of this community. Besides this post have you told any other people online or in public about your kink? If it’s restricted to just between you and your partner I can respect that. People can have weird kinks so long as they keep them to themselves and don’t bother others with them. I hope you have an identity beyond your trauma and experiences.

 

[Trombonista]

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This is not the kind of rabbit hole I was hoping for this early in the morning.

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this fuckin guy with an open diape in his PFP keeps engaging with serious political discussions

Diezel Raccoon has his own thread, I believe.

 

[apricot_berry]

What on god's green earth lead you to believe that coming to a place like this and talking about your onesie and "paci" was a good idea?

Like I said. I was here for people to ask questions. And answer some.

do you only do this because daddy did a bad touch/you wanted daddy to bad touch?

No. If you think that is the case of people in kink communities you are kinda fucked up yourself.

Wow. Fucking littles, man.

I can sympathize with having your childhood taken away from you and whatever daddy issues you might have but this really is the worst possible way to cope. Sometimes life deals you a shitty hand and you have to work with it instead of regressing yourself mentally. You need to confront these feelings head-on. Go see a therapist for fuck's sake.

Hey don't know if you saw before. But I do go to a therapist. And they know about this. As I also have said before I don't mentally regress insanely. Just to a point to relax.

Well then, I had realized this existed but pushed it to the back of my mind. Especially when I was shown a fucking TikTok video of it. Now correct me if I am wrong, but are these the same kind of people who spend actual money setting up kid toys/play pens for themselves and just play with them? The last thing I remember was someone in a video wearing a onesie picking shit out in a store and their "Daddy" telling them no. You have to wonder, why the fuck does the rest of the world need to be subjected to your nasty fetish. Thank god for COVID-19.

I don't spend money on that crap. That is ridiculous. I would never go to the store wearing anything considered little. Nor would I call my partner by any pet name in public. Doing so is exposing your kink in public which is highly frowned apon in the kink community in general.

Recently, someone added a random dude to a group I had, but I followed them for all of five minutes before realizing said person only posted about two things.

Shitting themself and being a stoner.

What's with these types of freaks and weed? Vapes, even? Don't they want to be as infantile as possible? Wouldn't smoking an illegal substance break the illusion?

I really personally don't get this aspect myself. I see it often. I don't know why people like to shit and piss themselves.

It’s interesting to get the perspective of someone part of this community. Besides this post have you told any other people online or in public about your kink? If it’s restricted to just between you and your partner I can respect that. People can have weird kinks so long as they keep them to themselves and don’t bother others with them. I hope you have an identity beyond your trauma and experiences.

I have told people online, who are in the community only, it was really important when I was kinda discovering this was a part of me. . And my closest friends know only because we were all discussing kinks and it turned out we are all pretty similar.

I have a strong separate life outside of just my kink. Kinks are for the bedroom. I am not a 24 hour little or whatever. I don't think it's safe to do so. In general I use DBT coping skills, meditation, ect. This is just part of my free time I guess.

 

[MiamiRick]

I should know better than to come into this thread while trying to eat my food. This was a bad decision.