Springtrapp - Batshit Otherkin Pedophile Sadist and Her Brainwashed Child Bride

So did you just sit there awkwardly listening in the whole time? Why would you be okay with listening to your super-duper-platonic-soul-mate having sex? Why would you think their behavior is okay and why did you go along with it?

Why is this such an incredibly awkward thing that could have been avoided by all parties?
 
If this is true, why are you counting on someone so clearly deviant to tell you what to do? Do you really want to take social cues from a pedophile? Like it or not, we wouldn't have this thread to begin with if the people involved understood appropriate social behavior.
Because he's my partner and I trust him to say what's on his mind.

So did you just sit there awkwardly listening in the whole time? Why would you be okay with listening to your super-duper-platonic-soul-mate having sex? Why would you think their behavior is okay and why did you go along with it?

Why is this such an incredibly awkward thing that could have been avoided by all parties?

Because it was amusing to me if they would accidentally bump heads or say someting awkward.
 
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Yeah, and I'm slowly getting there. I thought these things were normal for about 16-17 years before I found out hey, these things aren't normal at all, and far from it in fact.
It took me another year or two even figure out what's wrong, and it'll take time for me to work through them. Social cues are at the bottom of my list because trust me I have way bigger issues than being able to read someone's emotions.
Yeah, I agree. Being okay with asking your reluctant friends make child porn for you is a bigger issue than being a social fucktard.
 
Because he's my partner and I trust him to say what's on his mind.
That doesn't mean anything he says has any value or reason to it. One of my best friends says what's on his mind constantly. I don't take my cues from him, because he's a fairly serious alcoholic, and I don't trust his judgement. Part of being in a "partnership" is understanding what boundaries are appropriate, and respecting them.
 
That doesn't mean anything he says has any value or reason to it. One of my best friends says what's on his mind constantly. I don't take my cues from him, because he's a fairly serious alcoholic, and I don't trust his judgement. Part of being in a "partnership" is understanding what boundaries are appropriate, and respecting them.
Look we've already established that we have very different views on Lewrences relationship with Adam, so why would you even use "he's a pedophile" as a reason that I shouldn't listen to him?

One of the two involves a court date, kiddo. Your being a pussy is the least of your issues right now.

You really want to send someone who can't handle boot camp to jail over a Skype call? Wow.
 
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Look we've already established that we have very different views on Lewrences relationship with Adam, so why would you even use "he's a pedophile" as a reason that I shouldn't listen to him?
Because this isn't goddamn tumblr. Your view is objectively wrong, and I don't respect it, because it justifies the sexual exploitation of a minor. But sure, let me list the other issues:
-Mental instability
-Pathological lying
-Manipulative
-Attention-seeking to the point of faking suicide threats
Any of that sound like relationship material?
 
You really want to send someone who can't handle boot camp to jail over a Skype call? Wow.
I'm sorry, are you claiming victimhood here? Because you may find that garners less sympathy than you thought.
I could give a fuck what you can handle. Listening to a pedo get his rocks off is revolting, and your claims of not understanding why it was wrong reek of bullshit.
Protip for the Autistic: Don't try to appeal to a persons compassion when it comes to personal wrongdoing. It comes off as whining every time, and makes you look like you're trying to shift blame.
Which, of course, you are.
 
If you have problems with social cues to the point that you don't understand that two people suggesting they want to become intimate and are "reluctant" to do that in your presence means you should leave, you really need to work on your social cues. People are confused and accusing you of ulterior motives because this is actually a really simple social situation, substantially simpler than most you'll encounter in the world. (People are also accusing you of ulterior motives because you appear to have taken sexual enjoyment out of the situation, but that's its own can of worms.)
 
Maybe you should trust the 500+ people reblogging that call out post instead of one person who can't take the blame for their actions.

Considering those people are stalking the three of us, and in that group is some people who pretty much deliberately gave me panic attacks, I don't thimk I will

Because this isn't goddamn tumblr. Your view is objectively wrong, and I don't respect it, because it justifies the sexual exploitation of a minor. But sure, let me list the other issues:
-Mental instability
-Pathological lying
-Manipulative
-Attention-seeking to the point of faking suicide threats
Any of that sound like relationship material?

He's mentally ill, hasn't doMe anything manipulative towards me, and he'll, he's better than most the people I've dated in the past.
 
Back to Greasetrap for a moment, more hickey pics on the blog but in light of this conversation I can't make myself cap it

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I just can't

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He's mentally ill, hasn't doMe anything manipulative towards me, and he'll, he's better than most the people I've dated in the past.

If you're warming up to cry-type I would really, really advise against it
 
Considering those people are stalking the three of us, and in that group is some people who pretty much deliberately gave me panic attacks, I don't thimk I will



He's mentally ill, hasn't doMe anything manipulative towards me, and he'll, he's better than most the people I've dated in the past.
That's a cop-out, and you know it.
I'm not trying to be cruel, but I don't believe in coddling people, so here it is:
-Mental illness doesn't excuse anything. It never has. If you're mentally ill and you rape someone, you're a rapist.
-You not being a target of manipulation doesn't make him less manipulative.
-You should stop dating shitty people.
 
If you have problems with social cues to the point that you don't understand that two people suggesting they want to become intimate and are "reluctant" to do that in your presence means you should leave, you really need to work on your social cues. People are confused and accusing you of ulterior motives because this is actually a really simple social situation, substantially simpler than most you'll encounter in the world. (People are also accusing you of ulterior motives because you appear to have taken sexual enjoyment out of the situation, but that's its own can of worms.)

I didn't take any sexual enjoyment out of anything, I honestly just found their interactions funny because they stopped and laughed a lot. And I KNOW I need to work on my social cues but I alread py explained they thought I would be uncomfortable with it, probably because they know I go in and out of sex repulsion, and I've talked about getting pissed at friends for fucking in front of me before.
 
Speaking as someone who has been in a romantic relationship with a mentally ill person, "he's mentally ill" is not an excuse for poor behavior. One of the burdens of mental illness is taking precautions to ensure it doesn't hurt people you care about, and Lawrence very pointedly doesn't do this; he seems comfortable spewing hurt and manipulation (suicide threats, extreme attention-seeking, and so on) at everyone in his vicinity. Even if you don't have a problem with it now, trust me, it will wear you down.

There are plenty of people in the world, even mentally ill people, who act with the care and consideration to others that Lawrence goes out of his way not to exercise. These are the people in the world who will reward your investment of emotions and time. Lawrence, I fear, isn't one of them.
 
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