You guys should do another revolution, preferably without the whole Great Terror bit (and ending up with a fucking overrated ruler who immediatly censored the press when he got power).
The issue being that a form of the Terror is usually unavoidable during a revolution. And let's not even consider the insane amount of instability that it would bring.
I'm more for a renovation of the existing system, with an emphasis on rebuilding the industry and reaffirming French values. The issue is that no current politicians have the kind of vision required to do that. The last one who could was De Gaulle.
Now, about Napoléon..
The reason why he became who he was in the military was because most of the officiers of the royal army fled the country during the revolution.
His rise to fame, which allowed his subsequent rise to power, only happened because all European monarchies wanted to crush Revolutionary France and failed to do so. ( Napoléon, at that time, was a young general and lead his men into Italy )
The army is much more locked today than it was during the 18th century, so a modern-day Napoléon is unlikely, but not impossible.
About the qualities of Napoléon as a ruler...Yes, he was very authoritarian, established a secret police, jailed his opponents and fucked the press.
He even imagined a system which looked like a democracy but where power belonged to him. And he also was very skilled when it came to propaganda.
He also restored slavery in the colonies.
However, he also established several key French institutions during his reign: High School ( Called Lycée, which gave a very militaristic upbringing at the time ), the Banque de France ( France central bank, which controls the currency ), the Code Napoléon or Code Civil ( A set of laws which was a the bedrock from which French laws developed ).
His myth remained very powerful, even after his abdication and exile. The Bonapartists ( His political supporters ) may have waned after the end of the Second Empire ( Led by his nephew ), but his legacy remains, even today.
Even in current year, he cannot be ignored nor reduced to his racist views or his tyrannical tendencies. ( l'Arc du Triomphe, on the Champ-Elysées, still celebrates his military victories )
Sorry for the sperging, but the man is that complex.