Just my opinion, but most women are at least a little scared of being called promiscuous, sex-crazed, a whore/slut, and are in general ashamed not of our status as sexual beings, but as people who can’t live without sex (accusations of nymphomania). This is due to years of socialization (the local Kiwi who denies socialization is a thing - calm down before sperging) that we should be ladylike, gentle, and “takers” rather than “givers.” So while tons of true and honest women have kinks, our intuition to maintain this facade leads to our thoughts and desires about sex itself being very private things. And that’s where Kevin cannot and will never understand things from a woman’s POV. He has no filter and no shame about his kinks and fetishes because he has never lived in a female body and been strongly encouraged to keep his sexuality to himself. Women, in general, do not have dedicated public Twitters outlining their thirst and basest sexual desires. To understand this, all you have to do is look at the number of natal women who are excited by and roleplay with him. Outside of the rare “YOU GO GURL!” handmaiden reply, that number is zero.