Snowflake Nethilia / Tasha Campbell - Doll-sperg with a social-justice twist

[MTilly850]

Does she get mad if you post erotic fanfiction about children fingering each other? Since that's one of Neth's special interests after all.

Joking (about actually asking that question). Props to you for putting up with her shit. I really can't believe that this crazy lady made a community about pretty historical dolls into a toxic SJW hivemind.

edit: I'm white and the only AG dolls I owned were Kaya and Josefina. Would I have been considered an ally or a fetishist?

There's part of the fourm that you could put your own stories, like rewriting stories, and only hers were all about lesbians and ficticous children.
Before Melody, her Edith was a lesbian with a doll named Annie(?) Who was white. And We played online cards against humanity.
She encouraged people shipping their dolls together in the chat.

 

[Piga Dgrifm]

Someone joined the fourm with a username that finished Booms because Booms is based off a song. Immediately banned.

I guess Boomdiada had to be the One, True Boom?

She has a large following because she was banned from the big fourm, known as playthings, she spun a whole sympathy story about how no one liked her because she's black AND pagan AND older.
So once other outsiders saw someone stand up to playthings, and as long as Neth can twist her stories so she's the victim and not the asshole people will follow.

Those posts are still available on her blog for anyone who wants to see them.

My favorite parts of the saga:

-The one where she only gets second place in a doll photo contest, decides it was a big conspiracy against her because she's Pagan, and goes off about how much she totally deserved to win. Bear in mind this post was written many, many years after the contest took place, and she still speaks about it like it was the end of the world.

-This one, where she gets a young girl to send a bunch of stuff to her, then gets furious when the girl wants compensation, refuses to give it to her, and decides she's the victim when she's de-modded. Neth mentions the girl's mom getting involved and calling her out for taking advantage of the girl, so this was likely a child/teenager that Neth was taking for a ride and is still trying to play like she's the victim.

The girl's mom seemed to have Neth's number though, lol:

 

[MTilly850]

I guess Boomdiada had to be the One, True Boom?



Those posts are still available on her blog for anyone who wants to see them.

My favorite parts of the saga:

-The one where she only gets second place in a doll photo contest, decides it was a big conspiracy against her because she's Pagan, and goes off about how much she totally deserved to win. Bear in mind this post was written many, many years after the contest took place, and she still speaks about it like it was the end of the world.

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-This one, where she gets a young girl to send a bunch of stuff to her, then gets furious when the girl wants compensation, refuses to give it to her, and decides she's the victim when she's de-modded. Neth mentions the girl's mom getting involved and calling her out for taking advantage of the girl, so this was likely a child/teenager that Neth was taking for a ride and is still trying to play like she's the victim.

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The girl's mom seemed to have Neth's number though, lol:

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Her views have definitely not changed since then, she still maintains
The second one makes me sad mainly because it involves Collette with her. Collette is another big name in the doll world but she's actually one of the sweetest people in the fandom. And because Neth is "woke" is why they hang out.
And basically was neth said about herself is true. She is manipulative and cruel.

At AGC, the "ban hammer" as its called its actually fair. The only time it didn't come down rightfully was the person who finished Booms username. What they do to maintain that they're not the bad guy is to just really to degrade you and grind you down until you leave the fourm on your own terms.
Once they (being Neth and Boom whatever other cult members they have following them) decide you've over stayed your welcome whatever you do is a personal attack to them. And they'll be there to let you know.

 

[Android raptor]

I think the reason why she has so many asspatters and gets away with so much shit has a lot to do with the fact that she's black. Being black gives you clout in SJW circles, and white sjws especially will fawn over black ones and not only tolerate but defend them being abusive because they've been told they're racist if they don't. It's like how troons get away with tons of shit and have tons of enablers.

You could even say being black gives her privilege in her social circle of choice.

 

[MTilly850]

I think the reason why she has so many asspatters and gets away with so much shit has a lot to do with the fact that she's black. Being black gives you clout in SJW circles, and white sjws especially will fawn over black ones and not only tolerate but defend them being abusive because they've been told they're racist if they don't. It's like how troons get away with tons of shit and have tons of enablers.

You could even say being black gives her privilege in her social circle of choice.

Thats exactly it.
In her inner circle, every single of them kissing her ass is white. All of them have christian consecutive backgrounds. All of them renounced that to gain favor from Neth.
Neth has claimed her views aren't in her own town. She lives outside Seattle.

 

[JaneThough]

This bothers me so much, because American Girl dolls are for children. Not to say adults can't collect and own them, I myself like to check the website here and there for nostalgia reasons. But there are too many communities based around children's media that are effectively pushing the children out or creating toxic places that children can find. This fucking bitch expected a child to front money for her, and got angry when she didn't? Said child's mother got involved, as I think any mother would. If I had a kid and someone tried to convince them to put money up front for things (and it looks like from her own account she's not great at paying people back), you better believe I'd have words for them if they had such an attitude as Neth has.

It really makes me angry. Give me all the hats. Children come to the internet without the skills to know how to handle this shit, and can really be hurt. I get parents need to be watching what their kids do online, but is it unreasonable to expect a fucking doll forum would be an ok place for them to hang out?

Something about Neth also screams 'groomer' to me. She has created this forum around a children's toy, called herself the queen, and expects everyone to do as she says. Kids are stupid and trained to listen to adults as an authority. Neth is fucking dangerous and gross. Being black may actually be the only redeeming quality she has, just because her blackness is not actively hurting other people.

 

[Polexia Aphrodisia]

Something about Neth also screams 'groomer' to me. She has created this forum around a children's toy, called herself the queen, and expects everyone to do as she says. Kids are stupid and trained to listen to adults as an authority. Neth is fucking dangerous and gross. Being black may actually be the only redeeming quality she has, just because her blackness is not actively hurting other people.

The person who openly fantasizes about pre-teen girls scissoring and fingering each other, and who encourages other people to do the same, and who hangs around child-oriented spaces espousing these fantasies and encouragements, might be someone who grooms minors? I think that's a little more than "something."

 

[MTilly850]

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Something about Neth also screams 'groomer' to me.

This is why I decided to come on here. There was a screenshot here of a comment from someone I know saying she thought it was okay for shipping these child characters and neth saying she won't apologize. I know that person, shes not like that anymore but she started that way out first until she grew passed it. She now dabbles in American Girl but really doesn't anymore.

 

[Piga Dgrifm]

This one?

There are many issues with Neth's response here:

1. The 'this blog is 18+' message is hidden halfway down the page off in a corner, very easy to miss. And when you do actually find it, it's insulting and has a pretty creepy comment directed at any kid who stumbles onto her blog:

2. The COPPA law does not mean 'no kids on my god dang Internets!' it is to do with websites that gather personal information on those under 13.

3. When Neth closed off her forum because she got angry that we called out her creepy behavior, she used an excuse that she was "protecting the children" on her forum from us. So, she acknowledges that there are many kids on her forum, she allows many kids on her forum, and still makes all of these sexual posts towards them, where they can easily find them, and about underage characters:

4. She compares a child thinking that being sexualized is okay because an adult is doing it, and adults are older and wiser and therefor right... To a kid seeing a violent movie. The worst that happens when a kid sees a violent movie is they have nightmares and get scared, the worst thing that happens when a child has been taught that adults sexualizing them is fine and normal is much worse than that.

There are a few posts on her blog where she states that anyone who has an issue with how she talks about these characters are just being homophobic, and that it's all totally innocent even though she talks about ten year olds fingering each other, going to bed together, and other things like that. It would be just as disturbing if she were posting about a little girl getting fingered by a little boy, but she's trying to hide behind LGBT labels so that she can try and deflect criticism.

(And then of course there's her calling herself a lesbian when she's not one... Was she one of the first to try and claim "bisexual lesbians" are somehow a thing? Bi is bi, lesbian is lesbian.)

She now dabbles in American Girl but really doesn't anymore.

It sounds like a lot of people who have feuds with Neth end up losing interest in the fandom, which is pretty sad to me. Are most of them generally just growing out of AG, or does Neth's control over the community just make them uncomfortable with continuing?

 

[JaneThough]

She's like Kelly Lenza in a lot of ways. "I'm totes so queer, guys!! Meet my husband in cis hetero relationship! Look how queer I am."

I don't think a cow has made me as angry as this bitch.

 

[Piga Dgrifm]

All of them have christian consecutive backgrounds. All of them renounced that to gain favor from Neth.

They renounced their faith... For Neth? Shit, it really is like a cult.

At AGC, the "ban hammer" as its called its actually fair. The only time it didn't come down rightfully was the person who finished Booms username. What they do to maintain that they're not the bad guy is to just really to degrade you and grind you down until you leave the fourm on your own terms.
Once they (being Neth and Boom whatever other cult members they have following them) decide you've over stayed your welcome whatever you do is a personal attack to them. And they'll be there to let you know.

Ah, so banning was the last resort, reserved for people they couldn't bully away or newbies with no standing, then? Were there any longtime members put on the shit-list after a while? What did they do to "wrong" the mods and what kind of treatment did they get before finally deciding to quit?

 

[MTilly850]

This one?

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There are many issues with Neth's response here:

1. The 'this blog is 18+' message is hidden halfway down the page off in a corner, very easy to miss. And when you do actually find it, it's insulting and has a pretty creepy comment directed at any kid who stumbles onto her blog:
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2. The COPPA law does not mean 'no kids on my god dang Internets!' it is to do with websites that gather personal information on those under 13.

3. When Neth closed off her forum because she got angry that we called out her creepy behavior, she used an excuse that she was "protecting the children" on her forum from us. So, she acknowledges that there are many kids on her forum, she allows many kids on her forum, and still makes all of these sexual posts towards them, where they can easily find them, and about underage characters:

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4. She compares a child thinking that being sexualized is okay because an adult is doing it, and adults are older and wiser and therefor right... To a kid seeing a violent movie. The worst that happens when a kid sees a violent movie is they have nightmares and get scared, the worst thing that happens when a child has been taught that adults sexualizing them is fine and normal is much worse than that.

There are a few posts on her blog where she states that anyone who has an issue with how she talks about these characters are just being homophobic, and that it's all totally innocent even though she talks about ten year olds fingering each other, going to bed together, and other things like that. It would be just as disturbing if she were posting about a little girl getting fingered by a little boy, but she's trying to hide behind LGBT labels so that she can try and deflect criticism.
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(And then of course there's her calling herself a lesbian when she's not one... Was she one of the first to try and claim "bisexual lesbians" are somehow a thing? Bi is bi, lesbian is lesbian.)



It sounds like a lot of people who have feuds with Neth end up losing interest in the fandom, which is pretty sad to me. Are most of them generally just growing out of AG, or does Neth's control over the community just make them uncomfortable with continuing?

That one exactly. Shark, I believe, just got out of high school.
Once you are denounced by Neth, especially on AGC, people don't want to interact with you because they're scared that Neth will view them as she does you. So once you lose everyone, why even continue? I stopped participating for half a year. Neth controls a side of the community, and for the most part you want to be in because if you're in with the "big names", then you're in the popular crowd. And she still tries to but theres a group of people coming together to avoid her cult and continued squealing about shiny pretty dolls without being policed. And there's a "neutral side." People whose okay or just semi friends with Neth, who go on AGC post a picture of their doll and leave.
Oh and uh no one really thought she was that serious about the lesbian dolls and other gross stuff like that. But after seeing her gaia accounts, reading her husband's old blog, and seeing what she said to shark....the group thinks it would be very interesting if the information was made a little more public in the community.

They renounced their faith... For Neth? Shit, it really is like a cult.


Ah, so banning was the last resort, reserved for people they couldn't bully away or newbies with no standing, then? Were there any longtime members put on the shit-list after a while? What did they do to "wrong" the mods and what kind of treatment did they get before finally deciding to quit?

Theres a fair few that I am friends with who were pushed over the edge and left.
The screenshot with RandomTraci, she left and she was on AGC from day one.
Another one was bullied for the same reason why I was shunned and now dabbles in BJDs.
One, who is a literal autistic girl, was passive aggressively shamed and was made to pick sides. Though she somehow got away with being neutral. The result has landed her in a soft cold shoulder. Neth will like the comments she makes, but never replies.
Neth made my best friend in the community pick me or her. She chose Neth. I havent recovered. I wish I still had the screenshots.
And what gets people to have the mod get mad is very....subjected. There was 5 mods on AGC, two being Neth and Boom, a third being a man who was just as...abrasive? As Neth and meaner than Boom if that was possible. Those were the three at the first. Then the Thrid walked away because he says "no one wanted to interact with me because I'm a man." As if it didn't have anything to do with him being a complete asshole as every turn. Critize Josephina? RACIST. God help you if you said anything bad about Hamilton the play. Because he's a new yorker. He obviously knew more than you.
The 4th and 5th were actually laid back and chill. One being an expert collector who never really posted, and the 5th being a man who honestly was really nice, those two never jumped down anyone's throats for anything that displeased them, they would say something gently or help you fix it? Kindly telling you braid ideas or how to make your dolls hair shinier for photos.
But if you did something neth didn't like, they would dog pile on you. And when other SJW members saw the mods jump on you so did they.
There was at one point where Neth and Boom noticed not alot of people werent logging back in and just leaving the forum, so they asked us to suggest how we can change the forum to make it better. A ton of people said "hey can we stop just absolutely SHITTING on white people?" And they responded with "WAHH YOU MADE US DRINK. OUR WORDS TYPED ARE GOING TO BE SLURRED BECAUSE WERE DRINKING BECAUSE YOUR COMMENTS MADE US SEEM LIKE BAD MODS AND NOW YOU MUST COMFORT US." more people left.

 

[Piga Dgrifm]

Oh and uh no one really thought she was that serious about the lesbian dolls and other gross stuff like that. But after seeing her gaia accounts, reading her husband's old blog, and seeing what she said to shark....the group thinks it would be very interesting if the information was made a little more public in the community.

I agree that it absolutely should be made known, especially in a community that is just naturally going to attract kids.

I am double checking that things are archived and cannot be hidden away:

Here is the post with Shark's comment and Neth's deflections:

https://web.archive.org/web/20190414212401/https://americangirloutsider.blogspot.com/2013/12/historical-clothes-reviews-kits.html

The post where she talks about ten year old characters fingering each other:
https://web.archive.org/web/2020071...4/01/crafting-creatively-things-ive-made.html

Another one with the same sort of comment:

https://web.archive.org/web/20171126034624/https://americangirloutsider.blogspot.com/2014/01/historical-clothes-reviews-and.html

Husband's blog:

Opty's Journal

Uhh...Journal?

web.archive.org

Post where she takes advantage of a kid for free stuff:

Why I'm An Outsider: Part Eight: Summer Chaos in AG > 18 and Persona Non Grata, or How I Got Banned (Temporarily) From A Goddamn Community I Started

An American Girl focused blog run by a black queer female intersectional collector.

web.archive.org

It looks like someone with a Gaia account will need to archive the stuff from there, but I'll add the screencap where she says she'd date a minor to this post so all the important things are in one place:

 

[WiselyFailing]

I found these old post on neth livejournal that I gives some contacts to her husband‘s post.
Neth talking about the fight
Grocery cart incident
(Sorry I don’t how properly archive things yet)

 

[TurdFondler]

Concern trolling posts from 2010, I had no idea that phrase was that old.

Neth could be used as a case study on why the internet as a whole, and somethingawful.com specifically are what they are today.

Neth is absolutely obsessed with controlling the narrative and every single user interaction everywhere she goes. She's been booted from countless communities, and I've seen her bullshit suck the fun out of previously functioning online circles. It's unfortunate that geek fallacy makes users put up with these people at first because once they get a foot hold it's over.

She polices every post, comment and thought and anything she doesnt like is banned for some medical, psychological or social reason. "gifs trigger my [malingering bullshit condition]" or "that comment reminds of [made up trauma].

I'm glad to see she's always been the victim. It's always her husband, society, her parents, the internet at fault.

 

[Piga Dgrifm]

I found these old post on neth livejournal that I gives some contacts to her husband‘s post.
Neth talking about the fight
Grocery cart incident
(Sorry I don’t how properly archive things yet)

Got them:
https://archive.vn/gWZA7
https://archive.vn/EcgUJ

I don't know how to go about making these things more public, though. Hopefully the Discord @MTilly850 mentions can boost it. I know some people like Boomdiada are likely already aware of these things, or if they aren't probably won't care, but I hope others in this community can see what's wrong here.

There was at one point where Neth and Boom noticed not alot of people werent logging back in and just leaving the forum, so they asked us to suggest how we can change the forum to make it better. A ton of people said "hey can we stop just absolutely SHITTING on white people?" And they responded with "WAHH YOU MADE US DRINK. OUR WORDS TYPED ARE GOING TO BE SLURRED BECAUSE WERE DRINKING BECAUSE YOUR COMMENTS MADE US SEEM LIKE BAD MODS AND NOW YOU MUST COMFORT US." more people left.

Boom herself is white, isn't she? I think I remember that being mentioned on Neth's blog somewhere unless I've confused her with someone else. Interesting that Neth seems to mostly surround herself with white people, and that all these white ladies are fine with her hating a thing about them which they can't change.

I'm glad to see she's always been the victim. It's always her husband, society, her parents, the internet at fault.

Some folks are just incapable of admitting when they've messed up somewhere, they have to find a way to twist it so that they were the one that got wronged, even if the reasoning makes no sense to observers. Like, Neth drug her feet about paying back that kid for those dolls, and threw a hissy fit when the kid then wanted money upfront... But, the kid still has to be the bad one because she removed Neth from the mod team on a forum. I think it may be related to narcissism; you never did anything wrong, the entire world's just been against you since day one.

 

[Android raptor]

She probably hangs around mostly white people, and specifically white SJWs, because other black people aren't gonna put up with and enable her shit. She specifically seeks out the community that will give her the most narcissistic supply. Her choice of friends isn't accidental.

 

[JaneThough]

Am I wrong that she is married to a white guy? I remember seeing her wedding pics, but all I zoned in on what that she brought her doll to the wedding.

 

[Polexia Aphrodisia]

Am I wrong that she is married to a white guy? I remember seeing her wedding pics, but all I zoned in on what that she brought her doll to the wedding.

No, her husband is black.

 

[MTilly850]

Got them:
https://archive.vn/gWZA7
https://archive.vn/EcgUJ

I don't know how to go about making these things more public, though. Hopefully the Discord @MTilly850 mentions can boost it. I know some people like Boomdiada are likely already aware of these things, or if they aren't probably won't care, but I hope others in this community can see what's wrong here.


Boom herself is white, isn't she? I think I remember that being mentioned on Neth's blog somewhere unless I've confused her with someone else. Interesting that Neth seems to mostly surround herself with white people, and that all these white ladies are fine with her hating a thing about them which they can't change.


Some folks are just incapable of admitting when they've messed up somewhere, they have to find a way to twist it so that they were the one that got wronged, even if the reasoning makes no sense to observers. Like, Neth drug her feet about paying back that kid for those dolls, and threw a hissy fit when the kid then wanted money upfront... But, the kid still has to be the bad one because she removed Neth from the mod team on a forum. I think it may be related to narcissism; you never did anything wrong, the entire world's just been against you since day one.

The way we want to drop it into discord servers is with a dummy account, and passing the information to bigger named Instagrams that have felt Neths wrath.

Boom is a whitey white woman from Tennessee. Yet because shes Neths best friend, she has the worst holier than thou attitude. She comes at you hard and fast first.
Recently another member of the cult, a different white woman who is in Neths inner circle, came at someone and said "ARENT YOU THE ONE WHO TOLD A BLACK WOMAN YOU KNEW MORE ABOUT LGBTQ+ AND SLAVERY THAN HER???" and the person getting yelled at never did. She did say that Neth was full of shit. Funny how twisted it got.

And always to Neth, the world will be against her because shes black and pagan and gay. Not because she's a raging asshole.

She probably hangs around mostly white people, and specifically white SJWs, because other black people aren't gonna put up with and enable her shit. She specifically seeks out the community that will give her the most narcissistic supply. Her choice of friends isn't accidental.

She picks and chooses those with the most white guilt. The ones who have the most white guilt. The ones who will NEVER say anything bad about her.
If you criticize her, even if she asks for it, get ready to be attacked.