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I know the guy deserves blame for pressuring her into a poly arrangement in the first place, but...

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She killed his baby without warning him. Because she didn't want to hear his opinion. He got to find out about it out of the blue. Surprise! Your son is dead!
 
I have zero patience for this shit when kids are involved. Anyone married with kids understands that they barely have time for each other as it is, much less time to fuck around courting new partners.

Anyone with kids who thinks they can dip their toes into the poly cesspit without their existing relationships suffering is deluding themselves. You can fool yourself into thinking you have infinite love to give, but you sure as shit don’t have infinite time. It’s no wonder that a lot of these types are shocked to finally learn that even amongst degenerates, love is measured and grown with time.

And that’s before you take into account fucked up shit like this.
Even if love is not limited, time and energy are. Notice how few of these people ar gainfully employed or in the pursuit of something oherwise worthwhile.
 
I know the guy deserves blame for pressuring her into a poly arrangement in the first place, but...

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She killed his baby without warning him. Because she didn't want to hear his opinion. He got to find out about it out of the blue. Surprise! Your son is dead!
The kid is better off. Growing up in a poly household you're lucky if you come out alive, and you're guaranteed to be fucked in the head. Just look at the poly quintuple where one dude beat up his nonbio son. It was hot in the news a couple months back.
 
Even if love is not limited, time and energy are. Notice how few of these people ar gainfully employed or in the pursuit of something oherwise worthwhile.
I wouldn't be surprised if the "polyamory" started because the husband couldn't afford to run off with his new girlfriend and still have free time to fuck her. Or that he's probably shitting his pants harder at the loss of one whole income and a live-in servant more than a second baby.
 
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those poor, poor children.

"Mommy likes getting nailed by other men so much that her and Daddy moved in with them! It's perfectly normal! What's that? Kids at school make fun of you? Here, lend them my copy of The Ethical Slut: Kid's Edition, they'll understand. No run along now, Mommy and Daddy need to coom and you're way lower in that hierarchy."

Fucking nightmarish. Emotional vampires, people addicted to other people and bringing kids into the fucked up little Tasmanian Devil shitstorm.
 
"Mommy likes getting nailed by other men so much that her and Daddy moved in with them! It's perfectly normal! What's that? Kids at school make fun of you? Here, lend them my copy of The Ethical Slut: Kid's Edition, they'll understand. No run along now, Mommy and Daddy need to coom and you're way lower in that hierarchy."

Fucking nightmarish. Emotional vampires, people addicted to other people and bringing kids into the fucked up little Tasmanian Devil shitstorm.
I would never tell my friends about my dad's "metamor." Shit is so mortifying I can't even fathom it. It's bad enough having your parent cheat the normal way!

A lot of parents seem to think their life doesn't go by the wayside when they have a kid. Guess what?? It does. Save the side pieces and swinging for when the kid has graduated and is out of the house. If you can't go 18 years without multiple partners, don't have a kid, or prepare to get yeeted by the level headed partner.
 
I would never tell my friends about my dad's "metamor." Shit is so mortifying I can't even fathom it. It's bad enough having your parent cheat the normal way!

A lot of parents seem to think their life doesn't go by the wayside when they have a kid. Guess what?? It does. Save the side pieces and swinging for when the kid has graduated and is out of the house. If you can't go 18 years without multiple partners, don't have a kid, or prepare to get yeeted by the level headed partner.
"hi my dad moved his side piece into our house and now he bangs her everywhere and shames me for being creeped out by it"
 
Immature cunt gets involved with a guy who has a long term girlfriend, befriends the girlfriend, starts throwing fits when she isn’t allowed to dictate the terms of the guy’s relationship with the other woman. Lastly comes whining to the dangerhairs that the long term girlfriend is clearly a controlling narcissist and SHE is most definitely not, despite her trying to put boundaries and restrictions on the other woman’s relationship with the boyfriend.

https://www.reddit.com/r/polyamory/...ing_most_of_the_tea_am_i_wrong_for_asking_my/

Archived https://archive.md/TOItQ

The post is long as fuck and is basically one long whine about how the girlfriend is the fucking worst. The autism continues in the comments as the OP makes catty remarks about how she just wants to “help” the boyfriend.

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This bitch is married. Husband barely gets a mention and she’s acting like a jealous teenage girl over the boyfriend, making all sorts of thinly veiled “if you really love me” demands. What business is it of hers? She isn’t dating the girlfriend. She isn’t the guy’s wife.

Maybe the other girlfriend is a raging bitch (sometimes I wonder because all we have to go by is an unreliable source in the form of this OP) but still, the boyfriend is a grown man and his relationship with the girlfriend is none of this bitch’s damn business.

This seems like a pattern on the polyamory sub, there’s always at least one thread where the OP is whining that she got into a relationship with a guy (it’s usually always a woman and a man with a longterm female partner) and the long term partner is “controlling, a bitch, jealous, inferior”, whatever. Then when the bitch OP gets BTFOed that “you cant control or blame your metas, you’re not dating them, you need to deal with this with your partner” she either 1) never comes back to at least acknowledge that she’s at the very least being just as selfish and controlling a cunt as she believes the other woman to be or 2) chimps out in the comments.
 
I observed this all the time when I knew people who were part of the polyamory scene. A woman would find a high-status man in a primary relationship with another woman, become his side piece, and then decide his primary was evil and bitchy and had to go. It's a sneaky form of hypergamy. In theory the sexes of the participants could differ from this model, but I never saw it happen.

I knew of one woman in particular who repeated that pattern for multiple years. Her one asset was an outsized pair of breasts. Everything else, from her pea brain to her squeaky voice to her petty vindictiveness, was the opposite of sexy to just about everyone. But she made herself very available, and I'm sure at first they thought she was a low commitment fling. Then she'd make her move and get kicked to the curb. She's probably still doing it.
 
But she made herself very available, and I'm sure at first they thought she was a low commitment fling. Then she'd make her move and get kicked to the curb. She's probably still doing it.
"It's a sign of insanity to keep doing the same thing over and over and expect different results."
 
I observed this all the time when I knew people who were part of the polyamory scene. A woman would find a high-status man in a primary relationship with another woman, become his side piece, and then decide his primary was evil and bitchy and had to go. It's a sneaky form of hypergamy. In theory the sexes of the participants could differ from this model, but I never saw it happen.

I knew of one woman in particular who repeated that pattern for multiple years. Her one asset was an outsized pair of breasts. Everything else, from her pea brain to her squeaky voice to her petty vindictiveness, was the opposite of sexy to just about everyone. But she made herself very available, and I'm sure at first they thought she was a low commitment fling. Then she'd make her move and get kicked to the curb. She's probably still doing it.
women like this are what other women used to call "homewrecker", this archetype of person used to be one of the most hated and reviled among married women.
what it boils down to is just the classic old story of a woman trying to steal a man away from another woman. a tale as old as time, really, the only thing that's new about this current iteration is that they're using this autistically crafted ideology of "polyamory" to redefine their actions as enlightened and progressive, and to put a mask of benevolence and openness over behavior that is actually just nasty deception and vile manipulation attempts.


"It's a sign of insanity to keep doing the same thing over and over and expect different results."
to be fair, if she's as pea-brained as @AprilRains says, then she probably doesn't even recognize that the outcome she gets is the result of the thing she did earlier.
so she's not really insane, just dumb.
 
She killed his baby without warning him. Because she didn't want to hear his opinion. He got to find out about it out of the blue. Surprise! Your son is dead!

It wasn't a baby yet, it was a fetus inside her. I'm sure the dude fucking a sidepiece is all torn up about it. Maybe he'll use his tears as lube next time they're fucking.
 
It wasn't a baby yet, it was a fetus inside her. I'm sure the dude fucking a sidepiece is all torn up about it. Maybe he'll use his tears as lube next time they're fucking.

Frankly, potentially unpopular opinion here, but all three adults in that particular situation were complete and utter pieces of shit. The OP could have been an adult and opened her fucking mouth and said “hey this shit sucks and I don’t like it” instead of shitting herself and doing nothing, fuming internally like a pissed off child. She admits that she didn’t even try to communicate so she’s not much better than the selfish asshole husband and the side hoe.

The aborted unborn kid had the best outcome, the side bitch’s child had the worst, having the misfortune to be born into a “family” of three assholes who shouldn’t be in a relationship with anyone at all, let alone bringing a kid into the world to fuck up her life before she even got a chance. Poor little girl.
 
Immature cunt gets involved with a guy who has a long term girlfriend, befriends the girlfriend, starts throwing fits when she isn’t allowed to dictate the terms of the guy’s relationship with the other woman. Lastly comes whining to the dangerhairs that the long term girlfriend is clearly a controlling narcissist and SHE is most definitely not, despite her trying to put boundaries and restrictions on the other woman’s relationship with the boyfriend.

https://www.reddit.com/r/polyamory/...ing_most_of_the_tea_am_i_wrong_for_asking_my/

Archived https://archive.md/TOItQ

The post is long as fuck and is basically one long whine about how the girlfriend is the fucking worst. The autism continues in the comments as the OP makes catty remarks about how she just wants to “help” the boyfriend.

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This bitch is married. Husband barely gets a mention and she’s acting like a jealous teenage girl over the boyfriend, making all sorts of thinly veiled “if you really love me” demands. What business is it of hers? She isn’t dating the girlfriend. She isn’t the guy’s wife.

Maybe the other girlfriend is a raging bitch (sometimes I wonder because all we have to go by is an unreliable source in the form of this OP) but still, the boyfriend is a grown man and his relationship with the girlfriend is none of this bitch’s damn business.

This seems like a pattern on the polyamory sub, there’s always at least one thread where the OP is whining that she got into a relationship with a guy (it’s usually always a woman and a man with a longterm female partner) and the long term partner is “controlling, a bitch, jealous, inferior”, whatever. Then when the bitch OP gets BTFOed that “you cant control or blame your metas, you’re not dating them, you need to deal with this with your partner” she either 1) never comes back to at least acknowledge that she’s at the very least being just as selfish and controlling a cunt as she believes the other woman to be or 2) chimps out in the comments.
Something I thought was interesting:
In January, an ex started talking to him, and said she could accept the poly thing if E was his only girlfriend and he promptly dumped me. We were already close, it stung, how could I matter so little? Two days later, both his other girlfriend and he begged me to take him back, he’d made this big terrible mistake. And I knew I was making a bad decision going back. But moving forward...
So after dating for ~1 month, he dumped her because some other hoe wasn't okay with more than one other girlfriend.

I don't know what to take from this, maybe she thinks she matters more than she actually does? Or that his ex was hotter than OP and he only cares about getting laid? I don't know, but I thought this little fact was pretty interesting.

But it's a poly relationship so they're probably all crazy.

Also:
because they were both out of work, and only went to the grocery store and drive thrus, and I don’t work
Notice that she says they were out of work, but that she doesn't work? She's fucking useless too. I'd feel bad for her husband, but there's a pretty good chance he's also nuts.
 
Immature cunt gets involved with a guy who has a long term girlfriend, befriends the girlfriend, starts throwing fits when she isn’t allowed to dictate the terms of the guy’s relationship with the other woman. Lastly comes whining to the dangerhairs that the long term girlfriend is clearly a controlling narcissist and SHE is most definitely not, despite her trying to put boundaries and restrictions on the other woman’s relationship with the boyfriend.

https://www.reddit.com/r/polyamory/...ing_most_of_the_tea_am_i_wrong_for_asking_my/

Archived https://archive.md/TOItQ

The post is long as fuck and is basically one long whine about how the girlfriend is the fucking worst. The autism continues in the comments as the OP makes catty remarks about how she just wants to “help” the boyfriend.

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This bitch is married. Husband barely gets a mention and she’s acting like a jealous teenage girl over the boyfriend, making all sorts of thinly veiled “if you really love me” demands. What business is it of hers? She isn’t dating the girlfriend. She isn’t the guy’s wife.

Maybe the other girlfriend is a raging bitch (sometimes I wonder because all we have to go by is an unreliable source in the form of this OP) but still, the boyfriend is a grown man and his relationship with the girlfriend is none of this bitch’s damn business.

This seems like a pattern on the polyamory sub, there’s always at least one thread where the OP is whining that she got into a relationship with a guy (it’s usually always a woman and a man with a longterm female partner) and the long term partner is “controlling, a bitch, jealous, inferior”, whatever. Then when the bitch OP gets BTFOed that “you cant control or blame your metas, you’re not dating them, you need to deal with this with your partner” she either 1) never comes back to at least acknowledge that she’s at the very least being just as selfish and controlling a cunt as she believes the other woman to be or 2) chimps out in the comments.
wow that's a ton of words and words and words. The male involved has not put nearly so much thought into their disposable relationship.

It's always funny when these rotten people forget their own narrative, and fall in true and everlasting love with somebody who is barely one step above a glory hole participant.
 
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