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[Dr. Boe Jangles Esq.]

I see what you're saying about prioritizing the wrong thing. I shouldn't be disillusioned about the value of looks and understand that they will fade and be prepared for that.

Exactly. Focus on a relationship with someone because you like them and get along with them. It will serve you a lot better than trying to 1:1 physical appearance. To bring us back around to the topic of the thread, there are a multitude of guys on Sluthate who look perfectly fine, and are even attractive. However, they will never date an "8-10 woman", because they're the kind of people who prioritize that over any real measure of compatibility.

 

[HickoryDickory]

EDIT: Also, why the fuck is he going to somewhere where he might be killed? That is sound advice, "Don't stick your dick in crazy."

Goes both ways. I wouldn't let crazy stick its duck in me, either.

 

[Duke Nukem]

I see what you're saying about prioritizing the wrong thing. I shouldn't be disillusioned about the value of looks and understand that they will fade and be prepared for that.

While I do not have the luxury of knowing any females, regardless of physical attractiveness, that I may share common interests with, it might be a good start for someone like yourself. But my hat's off to you, you're starting to realize that focusing on looks is not the way to go.

That being said, no one will want those dumb college sluts after their looks fade, because they were never forced to develop as people. You're probably better off with an average or even a below average person (yeah, I know, probably easier said than done, but you're probably not above average yourself). Certainly less risk of being cheated on, at least in theory.

 

[Cthulu]

While I do not have the luxury of knowing any females, regardless of physical attractiveness, that I may share common interests with, it might be a good start for someone like yourself. But my hat's off to you, you're starting to realize that focusing on looks is not the way to go.

That being said, no one will want those dumb college sluts after their looks fade, because they were never forced to develop as people. You're probably better off with an average or even a below average person (yeah, I know, probably easier said than done, but you're probably not above average yourself). Certainly less risk of being cheated on, at least in theory.

Dude. If you even think like that you are way off base. @Dr. Boe Jangles Esq. had some great advise. I'll not even go into the SH bit. You've been on the farms long enough to know better than that crap. Just be sociable and talk. You go a lot farther if you have self respect enough to find someone you will be happy with. No looks involved, no sex involved. Or .. If you give me your soul I can give give you virgins. Muuaahhh!0

And to correct you you do know women. There are several on here.

 

[BriarHeart]

I see what you're saying about prioritizing the wrong thing. I shouldn't be disillusioned about the value of looks and understand that they will fade and be prepared for that.

Also, don't underestimate the role of emotional connection in long-term physical attraction. When two people are able to connect and jive on an emotionally-intimate level, the human mind is capable of either overlooking or finding appeal in their beloved's imperfections. You might not have given them a second glance without knowing them, but after making a real connection and sharing yourselves together, suddenly that snaggly tooth they have makes their smile so charming, that extra pudge around their middle is the best pillow in the world, and the way that they snore in the middle of the night is practically a lullaby, because it lets you know that your love is beside you and safe.

When you're in love rather than simply in lust, you find that the things you once considered to be your partner's "flaws" are integral parts of the person you adore, and as such, you love those flaws as well.

 

[Cthulu]

Also, don't underestimate the role of emotional connection in long-term physical attraction. When two people are able to connect and jive on an emotionally-intimate level, the human mind is capable of either overlooking or finding appeal in their beloved's imperfections. You might not have given them a second glance without knowing them, but after making a real connection and sharing yourselves together, suddenly that snaggly tooth they have makes their smile so charming, that extra pudge around their middle is the best pillow in the world, and the way that they snore in the middle of the night is practically a lullaby, because it lets you know that your love is beside you and safe.

When you're in love rather than simply in lust, you find that the things you once considered to be your partner's "flaws" are integral parts of the person you adore, and as such, you love those flaws as well.

That dude is it. Said perfectly.

 

[Duke Nukem]

Dude. If you even think like that you are way off base. @Dr. Boe Jangles Esq. had some great advise. I'll not even go into the SH bit. You've been on the farms long enough to know better than that crap. Just be sociable and talk. You go a lot farther if you have self respect enough to find someone you will be happy with. No looks involved, no sex involved. Or .. If you give me your soul I can give give you virgins. Muuaahhh!0

And to correct you you do know women. There are several on here.

OK, yeah, I was talking IRL. I don't really come on the Farms much at this point in time, I have a life outside of the internet.

The point I was trying to make about the SlutHaters is that they're the kinds of guys that wonder why they can't get any when they're obsessed with dating all these 8s and 9s on their college campuses or whatever, when they aren't exactly great looking themselves. There's a good A Dose of Buckley video that all SlutHaters need to watch about this, but you've probably all seen it already.

Everyone gets lonely/horny/etc. sometimes, but these guys take it to an unhealthy extreme. I don't even think sex/looks is even part of their equation. They want another person to validate their existence.

 

[Shidoshi]

Exactly. Focus on a relationship with someone because you like them and get along with them. It will serve you a lot better than trying to 1:1 physical appearance. To bring us back around to the topic of the thread, there are a multitude of guys on Sluthate who look perfectly fine, and are even attractive. However, they will never date an "8-10 woman", because they're the kind of people who prioritize that over any real measure of compatibility.

The thing with those fuckboys is that they don't actually want a women that they're truly attached too. They want a women that all men would gaze at when they walk the streets together. They crave validation from other men and want them to feel jealous.

Vile narcissists they are.

 

[Dr. Boe Jangles Esq.]

The thing with those fuckboys is that they don't actually want a women that they're truly attached too. They want a women that all men would gaze at when they walk the streets together. They crave validation from other men and want them to feel jealous.

Vile narcissists they are.

Now there's an interesting thought. Freud would have a field day with these guys.
Honestly, I'm inclined to agree. Speaking as someone who plays for both teams, I can tell you that guys who habitually seek the approval and validation of other men often seem to have some "repressed desires".

 

[Shidoshi]

The thing with those fuckboys is that they don't actually want a women that they're truly attached too. They want a women that all men would gaze at when they walk the streets together. They crave validation from other men and want them to feel jealous.

Vile narcissists they are.

Sorry I ment "attracted to", can't edit my posts for some reason.

 

[Shidoshi]

While I do not have the luxury of knowing any females, regardless of physical attractiveness, that I may share common interests with, it might be a good start for someone like yourself. But my hat's off to you, you're starting to realize that focusing on looks is not the way to go.

That being said, no one will want those dumb college sluts after their looks fade, because they were never forced to develop as people. You're probably better off with an average or even a below average person (yeah, I know, probably easier said than done, but you're probably not above average yourself). Certainly less risk of being cheated on, at least in theory.

Disagree with the second bit your tone sounds defeatist there.

If it's possible you should always aim for someone attractive but don't become obsessed with that criteria. For example, if you met an 8/10 who you didn't feel comfortable talking too and a 7/10 who you clicked with really well and wouldn't berate you, who would you go for? I would go for the 7/10.

 

[Duke Nukem]

Disagree with the second bit your tone sounds defeatist there.

If it's possible you should always aim for someone attractive but don't become obsessed with that criteria. For example, if you met an 8/10 who you didn't feel comfortable talking too and a 7/10 who you clicked with really well and wouldn't berate you, who would you go for? I would go for the 7/10.

All right, I can go with that. I'm just delivering some brutal honesty about your situation. If you can click with someone 7/10, that's a good number to go for, if looks are really that important to you. Just don't get over the top with it.

 

[Shidoshi]

All right, I can go with that. I'm just delivering some brutal honesty about your situation. If you can click with someone 7/10, that's a good number to go for, if looks are really that important to you. Just don't get over the top with it.

I'm confident I can. I don't know what you'd rate yourself, so maybe that's why you're happier with someone average/below average. It really depends on the person.

 

[Duke Nukem]

I'm confident I can. I don't know what you'd rate yourself, so maybe that's why you're happier with someone average/below average. It really depends on the person.

Just be realistic about your standards, bro. As for me, I dunno where I stand, really.

 

[supdup]

I'm confident I can. I don't know what you'd rate yourself, so maybe that's why you're happier with someone average/below average. It really depends on the person.

All this average/below average/above average is all a facade. There is no average. Everyone has different standards and those standards do change as you age. In your 20's you might not find very many 40-somethings attractive. But as you approach 40, those 40-something become more and more attractive. Your standards of attractiveness ages with your physical age.

That being said, I personally don't agree with rating looks. I think it takes the humanity away from a person and objectifies them. You're assigning an arbitrary value to their worth. I'd have to assume this kind of thinking plays a role in your success with women. Most women, at the least the ones that want a successful relationship, don't want to be viewed in this way.

 

[Cthulu]

I smell a pathetic loser around, Oh hey DNR.

 

[Positron]

Mr Diamond,
I thought you said you've quit this board. But here you are, giving people bad ratings. You either show yourself like a MAN or scurry back to your vile sluthater den.

 

[Frank Rizzo]

Mr Diamond,
I thought you said you've quit this board. But here you are, giving people bad ratings. You either show yourself like a MAN or scurry back to your vile sluthater den.

I say let him give bad ratings if he wants, it just shows how much of a little pussy he actually is, that he's not as "normal" as he wanted to make himself out to be...

 

[DiamondInTheRough]

I say let him give bad ratings if he wants, it just shows how much of a little pussy he actually is, that he's not as "normal" as he wanted to make himself out to be...

>1900 posts to "sluthate.com"
>normal

Spoiler

Pretty sure I claimed to not be autistic or incel, and that was it. And I didn't say I wouldn't look at this thread anymore; I said I wasn't going to post here. But considering the skirmish is over, I don't really care.

 

[Frank Rizzo]

>1900 posts to "sluthate.com"
>normal

Spoiler

Pretty sure I claimed to not be autistic or incel, and that was it. And I didn't say I wouldn't look at this thread anymore; I said I wasn't going to post here. But considering the skirmish is over, I don't really care.

Hey, the pedo finally speaks! I guess I struck a nerve?