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Very well said.This Bekah girl is so tragic to me. She was gorgeous, but she also looks very sad in her old photos. But she doesn't actually look any happier in her recent photos. Just more, like... manic? Like someone trying to remember how to fake a smile? Is it the blood sugar/insulin rollercoaster fucking with her brain, or what?
She's not so big that she can't reverse it. And she's young enough that it wouldn't even be that hard. It would all be emotional work at this point. The fact that she gained so FAST is really troubling, though. But honestly, Scotland isn't the slimmest or healthiest-eating country on earth. If she "topped out" now and stayed this fat forever, she wouldn't be a spectacle. In any case, I hope she comes to her senses and finds her true purpose in life, besides showing off how fat she's getting on the internet???
For real. I can't stand any spin on "X is beautiful, too!" Like, okay, whatever floats your boat, I guess. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and all.
But-- guess what! You don't HAVE to be beautiful! There is more to life than that! It's actually okay to be ugly. I'm not saying go OUT of your way to be as hideous as possible like Kelly Lenza, but if you happen to be hideous, so be it. There's a lot more to offer to world than your looks. Especially with the internet. There's plenty of authors, podcasters, bloggers, and youtubers out there who make interesting things to share with the world without showing their face, or showing their face as secondary to the content. And a weird thing happens-- when you are a great content creator who just happens to be a fat lady, nobody cares that you're a fat lady. If your content IS that you're a fat lady, then that's all people will talk about or judge you on.
Whenever I see a "feminist" trying to change the beauty standard, I'm just like-- why? Like I get that it's not NOTHING, it IS still an issue, but I also feel like we have way bigger fish to fry. Like, yes, people are treated differently in employment and seeking medical treatment and stuff sometimes because of their appearance. But I don't see how more unhealthy, deathfat models will change that... the biased doctor and employer is still going to find people attractive or ugly based on their own tastes. They have to be trained to be able to see past their bias, because bias will always exist in some form or another.
I am a big believer in the old adage "You can't dismantle the master's house with the master's tools." Don't like the male gaze? Okay, don't pander to it. Think the beauty standard is bullshit? Okay, don't live up to it. Millions of women do this every single day by just living their lives.
And let's be real. Ugly people the world over find love and companionship every single day. We all know, deep down, that compatible personalities and good old chemistry are what really makes people get along, even if physical attraction is what initially drew them together.
I obviously can't speak for Bekah, but as I mentioned above, she didn't look happy in her old, slimmer photos. I don't believe life is a bed of roses for beautiful young girls-- like I said, the beauty standard is still an issue that can hurt people. But, as a self-identified Ugly Woman, I honestly think it's worse for very beautiful girls. Every time I did well in school, or got a promotion at work, or had romantic interest from someone, I knew they were genuine accomplishments or genuine interest in me. I've never had to guess that somebody is treating me a particular way just because they thought I was pretty. I'm not making the claim that only pretty women get sexually harassed, and I've had my share of that too-- I'm just talking about the subconscious way people sometimes infantilize or fetishize pretty women.
I guess some people would call that pretty privilege. But I think how the woman actually experiences it varies wildly. Some women have the right temperament and can use it to their advantage, but other women just can't really handle all the attention and pressure. I'm speculating wildly about Bekah, of course, but she does remind me of someone I knew who was extremely pretty but had a tragic life, and gained a ton of weight as an adult, the way sexual abuse victims sometimes do, as protection. But it's even worse, because she's deluding herself into thinking it's healthy or good. It's really just another way of letting your abuser win, because ultimately you're just hurting yourself more.
In any case, I think the solution is to figure out that you are more than your appearance, whether pretty or ugly. And other people's perceptions of you don't matter as much as you think it does, or at least not in the way you think it does. (Combing your hair to be presentable at work? Yes, that's good. Whether some random strangers think you're hot? Doesn't matter in the slightest.) Some people might need a lot of very good therapy to untangle that, though. Easier said than done.
A little OT, but it only takes a few minutes of being around my attractive friends to stop wishing I was one. Once you see the way pretty people are badgered constantly, it makes you grateful to be ignored.Very well said.
As a Self-Identified Pretty Girl, I validate your suspicions. If you’re an attractive woman, you dodge rumours at work every day that you’re sleeping with any male co-worker on the premises, even if you’ve never spoken to them. You hear people say you only got your job/promotion/commendation/award because you’re pretty or the boss wants to fuck you, not because you worked incredibly hard. Other women are shitty to you. Men are nice to you until it becomes clear you won’t sleep with them. Then they switch to calling you a slut behind your back and saying you’re bad at your job.
Everything good you have is “only because she’s hot,” and everything bad that happens to you is “because she’s hot and therefore dumb, and thus deserves it.” Or it’s not a problem because YOU’RE A PRETTY LADY and your life is just Life On Easy Mode! So any problems you have are non-existent or not a big deal! Stop complaining!
Don’t even get me started on dating. Even Pretty Girls get turned down by seemingly average guys, unlike the incel mantra that attractive women have their pick of partners at all times. No, we don’t. And a lot of the ones we do attract could not care less about who we are on the inside.
Do I benefit from it? Yeah, sure, of course. One time a lad at an ice cream shop gave me a free extra scoop of ice cream because he thought I was cute. Men are a little quicker to hold the door for me when I walk into a building behind them. Things like that, which happen very infrequently. No one’s laying down a red carpet in front of me wherever I walk and letting me have free merchandise and meals. The world isn’t sunnier or more pleasant. I don’t walk around in a cloud of self-confidence at all times. I have major life problems right now that “pretty” isn’t going to solve or even help.
And I know ALL of that is going to disappear the moment I hit a certain age and am not Standard Pretty anymore.
These kinds of activists need to shut the fuck up about wanting to be seen as pretty, because they’re not #EffingYourBeautyStandards, they’re complaining that they aren’t included in them. “WAHHHH FIND ME ATTRACTIVE, MEN OF THE WORLD!” is the least feminist thing I have ever heard. You’re just mad you can’t find a hunky beau, and that’s stupid. Build up women as scientists, leaders and changemakers. Don’t post your belly stretchflop marks and demand to be called pretty.
Edit: to be clear, I am not saying “boohoo pretty people have it even worse!” I’m saying that everyone has problems, being attractive doesn’t solve all those problems and can bring its own set of problems with it, and overall trying to force the world to find you pretty is a fucking stupid and shallow goal that only reveals that you don’t care about rights and activism. You just want to make people like you without having to lift a hand weight or stop hoovering cake.
It is. It’s a recognised route of self harm, relating to the destruction of the self in some way. And in previous times it’s been seen as that. Look at the difference in reaction only a few years ago to Brittney Spears shaving her head.I'd argue overeating to this degree is self harm, too.
I agree with this so hard.Very well said.
As a Self-Identified Pretty Girl, I validate your suspicions. If you’re an attractive woman, you dodge rumours at work every day that you’re sleeping with any male co-worker on the premises, even if you’ve never spoken to them. You hear people say you only got your job/promotion/commendation/award because you’re pretty or the boss wants to fuck you, not because you worked incredibly hard. Other women are shitty to you. Men are nice to you until it becomes clear you won’t sleep with them. Then they switch to calling you a slut behind your back and saying you’re bad at your job.
Everything good you have is “only because she’s hot,” and everything bad that happens to you is “because she’s hot and therefore dumb, and thus deserves it.” Or it’s not a problem because YOU’RE A PRETTY LADY and your life is just Life On Easy Mode! So any problems you have are non-existent or not a big deal! Stop complaining!
Don’t even get me started on dating. Even Pretty Girls get turned down by seemingly average guys, unlike the incel mantra that attractive women have their pick of partners at all times. No, we don’t. And a lot of the ones we do attract could not care less about who we are on the inside.
Do I benefit from it? Yeah, sure, of course. One time a lad at an ice cream shop gave me a free extra scoop of ice cream because he thought I was cute. Men are a little quicker to hold the door for me when I walk into a building behind them. Things like that, which happen very infrequently. No one’s laying down a red carpet in front of me wherever I walk and letting me have free merchandise and meals. The world isn’t sunnier or more pleasant. I don’t walk around in a cloud of self-confidence at all times. I have major life problems right now that “pretty” isn’t going to solve or even help.
And I know ALL of that is going to disappear the moment I hit a certain age and am not Standard Pretty anymore.
These kinds of activists need to shut the fuck up about wanting to be seen as pretty, because they’re not #EffingYourBeautyStandards, they’re complaining that they aren’t included in them. “WAHHHH FIND ME ATTRACTIVE, MEN OF THE WORLD!” is the least feminist thing I have ever heard. You’re just mad you can’t find a hunky beau, and that’s stupid. Build up women as scientists, leaders and changemakers. Don’t post your belly stretchflop marks and demand to be called pretty.
Edit: to be clear, I am not saying “boohoo pretty people have it even worse!” I’m saying that everyone has problems, being attractive doesn’t solve all those problems and can bring its own set of problems with it, and overall trying to force the world to find you pretty is a fucking stupid and shallow goal that only reveals that you don’t care about rights and activism. You just want to make people like you without having to lift a hand weight or stop hoovering cake.
I agree with this so hard.I'm self-identified average but I have a certain look that really appeals to some men. Working in a male-dominated field, everyone always assumed I got a woman-pass but the exact opposite was true: no-one wanted to go near me, work with me, invite me to things, or speak up for me because they were afraid of being accused of trying to get into my pants or rumors starting. Meanwhile, average men got promoted with half the work because they were easily able to be buddy-buddy with everyone above them.
The worst, though, was that I had a very similar name to someone else in my division who was really pretty and DID sleep with the boss. Like, say I went by Jen or Jennifer Harding, and this woman was called Jennie Hardy. I could always tell when I introduced myself to someone if they thought I was her. They'd flat cut me dead, or say something rude, or talk over me, or generally treat me like absolute shit. I guess they think we all sleep our way to the top and don't get caught? Or that somehow you'd still work your way up even though in reality it was an obviously career-ending move from the way they themselves treated me?
Anyway, upshot is pretty, or average, and average weight = you are using your looks to get ahead, you shameless slut! (and we will punish you accordingly)
I would have been much better off as a deathfat lesbian like comyfat J. Then I would have been "earning" things instead of "stealing" them with my looks (or more pertinently, pretty Jennie Hardie's looks).
That photo shows a dependapotomus in its natural habitat.Has anyone watched April Lauren on youtube?
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Call me dumb but in the FA circles she would be merely a smallfat, would she not?
she’s talking as if she’s the size of fatlipAsh or Glitter Anna, I doubt she’s ever had to worry about a seatbelt fitting or not being able to fit in an airplane. You have that smallfat privilege girl, stay in your lane!
Has anyone watched April Lauren on youtube?
I'd like to see his JodiThat photo shows a dependapotomus in its natural habitat.
Her videos are very long so I may've missed if there was an update after she said she converted to be a Mormon. So they're like "eternally bonded." No doubt he has a Jodi, maybe they can be sister wives soon.Has anyone watched April Lauren on youtube? She's great for the lulz. She's 350 lbs and lost ~10 lbs and was already talking about how she could see it in her face and was making her poor friend agree with her that she looks smaller. She used to be a normal weight, maybe slightly chubby, and then got married and gained 200 lbs within 2 years. Her poor husband. He looks so checked out. He's in the military and she convinced him that weight loss would be her job so she could sit on her ass all day and not have to work, while barely losing weight. Besides all this, something about her seems very off. I don't know if it's the fake over-the-top syrupy sweet persona she puts on or if she's just really... dim. It looks like she's done this whole weight loss shtick before and then vanished after she stopped losing weight and is now back at it again, bigger than ever.
What he married.
What he has to live with now.
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Has anyone watched April Lauren on youtube? She's great for the lulz. She's 350 lbs and lost ~10 lbs and was already talking about how she could see it in her face and was making her poor friend agree with her that she looks smaller. She used to be a normal weight, maybe slightly chubby, and then got married and gained 200 lbs within 2 years. Her poor husband. He looks so checked out. He's in the military and she convinced him that weight loss would be her job so she could sit on her ass all day and not have to work, while barely losing weight. Besides all this, something about her seems very off. I don't know if it's the fake over-the-top syrupy sweet persona she puts on or if she's just really... dim. It looks like she's done this whole weight loss shtick before and then vanished after she stopped losing weight and is now back at it again, bigger than ever.
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That part of the US is Land of the Fatties.Does she have some major sob story explaining what happened or do people jus naturally gain like this in her neck of tthe woods?
How the fuck did she gain 200lb in two years? That's a truly staggering gain that takes way more than a bit of extra snacking and a bit more sedentary behavior. That's basically a gain of 2 pounds a week for the full two years. 7000 calories extra food a week on top of one's daily maintainance intake. Does she have some major sob story explaining what happened or do people jus naturally gain like this in her neck of tthe woods? Binge eater or .....?
Just some Sperging from the comments on her postBekah being bitter
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Call me dumb but in the FA circles she would be merely a smallfat, would she not?
she’s talking as if she’s the size of fatlipAsh or Glitter Anna, I doubt she’s ever had to worry about a seatbelt fitting or not being able to fit in an airplane. You have that smallfat privilege girl, stay in your lane!
Yeah those all sound like conditions that could be caused or exacerbated by obesity. For some reason a certain subset of nurses seem to be extremely up their own asses.Just some Sperging from the comments on her post
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Bekah are you a fat Black woman??? The hypocrisy
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Maybe this nurse needs to see Chinny, I’d love to see her blame her bowel issues on something else...
I think part of it is that any dumb bitch can be a nurse. If you've ever been to the stroke belt, you've ikely seen the phenomenon that every woman and her grandma has their CNA at least (usually to care for a relative at first.) A lot of them are very sweet of course, and I'm not bashing nursing as a profession. It's just that being a nurse doesn't neccesarily mean they actually know shit about medicine beyond the bare minimum for their job.Yeah those all sound like conditions that could be caused or exacerbated by obesity. For some reason a certain subset of nurses seem to be extremely up their own asses.
Looking at her comments, she gets her share of praising under all her nude photos, so why bitch that these women get praise for showing what a womans body looks like? These people really project their own shame towards normal weight people. In their mind praises towards others is a big fuck you to them.
Yes! Been dying to bring this up - calling bullshit on her right now. It's only a matter of time before the excuses start and the good will runs out.She blames major life and career changes, PCOS, loss/grief, and injuries for her current state, but...yeah.