Inactive Richard "Lowtax" Kyanka - Deadbeat (emphasis on "Dead") founder of Something Awful, forced out of his own community, on his second divorce, stuck his dick in crazy, "Birth Giver"

[AnOminous]

We wouldn't have gone looking for it if he hadn't posted anything, just like we didn't know of the July speeding ticket until just now because we were prompted by him to look up his shit because he doesn't even know what his court date is for DV is (October 8th actual date, October 1st mystery date of VINDICATION).

I would have, but it might have been a week or two. I don't exactly sit on top of the docket refreshing it all day.

 

[Terrorist]

Honest question: how would you classify the behavior of someone who actively avoids filing the very simple immigration paper work for their spouse and mother of their child?

Being that this is one of the easiest ways to control a non-citizen partner, and reminder that someone has a relative in the legal profession.

I'm giving him (him being @Terrorist not @Lowtax) the benefit of the doubt.
In isolation, yes, someone with a habit of sticking it in the crazy being accused by all his ex-fuckbuddies of being an abuser isn't a slam dunk case since accusing your ex of abuse is a common BPD break-up step.

However, this isn't just in isolation. Lowtax shows a pattern of manipulative and controlling behavior. He seeks out women he can control, and then leaves a relationship when they start having problems with being controlled.

Again, I find Logan the least reliable of all Lowtax's accusers, especially since she knows about internet culture, is aware of KWF and there is enough information in this thread I could get a pedicure and make a surface-credible domestic abuse allegation against Lowtax's sweaty feet. So while I take the fact her experiences match our expectations with a grain of salt, there is a very serious,very clear pattern of behavior that you can see with his partners and his responses.

tl;dr you don't need to beat your wife like you're Uwe Boll in a boxing ring to be abusive. Lowtax is clearly an abusive partner who seeks out partners he can abuse.

I didn't know about the immigration thing. With a child that is seriously off-putting to me. Is it substantiated and do we know Ashli is telling the truth about why it happened? Was it malice or just laziness?

The other evidence says Lowtax is a sketchy controlling asshole. So, he's a sketchy controlling asshole. But is this abuse, or simply being shitty in a relationship? Keep in mind domestic abuse is a serious crime with serious legal ramifications - it isn't just one more bad personality trait to gossip about on Kiwi farms.

Let me rephrase: Does he deserve to be in jail for being an asshole towards women? (He might deserve it for being a negligent father, IMO). And let's look at the other side of the story - did the women in question not initiate some caddish behavior for how they behaved? Is their word reliable given what we know about them? Remember, the legal system is extremely anti-male on these things.

I don't give a shit about his "career" or patreon (he didn't deserve that money in the first place IMO), and his reputation is already trash. I do care about standards of evidence for these things because it effects all men.

bUt hE's nEvER bEeN cOnViCtEd oF pHySiCaL aBuSe

But on the other hand there's no evidence of physical abuse. Why yes, I would like actual evidence that a man has beaten a woman, other than the word of unstable BPD cases alone, before condemning him as a wife-beater.

 

[Wargarbl]

I don't think she made it all up. I also don't think its 100% true either - because she's the one telling a story about herself, so she's definitely leaving out parts that would make her look bad because that's just human nature.

TBPH I don't think he backhanded her, I think he probably pushed her or tried to grab her to eject her from the Back Cave.

But I'm going to keep making fun of him for being a wifebeater because it triggers him to be called as such.

If you piece the two stories together from the police report, you get the likely correct series of events:
- Logan wants attention
- LowT is bored with Logan and wants to pass out
- LowT ignores Logan and secludes himself
- Logan keeps trying to get his attention with escalating texts, but LowT is in an opioid coma
- Logan decides she won't be blown off (typical BPD move) and goes to shake LowT awake and tell him he can't ignore her
- LowT flips out because of his neck problems, flails at her and shoves her away, then probably yells at her
- LowT calls the police because that's his go-to faggot tactic
- Both of them lie to the police about what they did wrong
- The police sigh and dream of a job where they deal with less white trash, then drop Logan at the motel to separate them for the night

Logan changed her BPD attention whoring to being sad because her grandfather died (for like the 15th time, somehow), and LowT toned down his reaction and acted like he's an invalid.

The more intriguing event is round 2 the second night, which we don't have the police report for or many details from them.

 

[Ghostse]

I didn't know about the immigration thing. With a child that is seriously off-putting to me. Is it substantiated and do we know Ashli is telling the truth about why it happened? Was it malice or just laziness?

We know its true. I mean, if we're being completely equitable here, she was a fucking retard for it being one year in and not just withholding foot-sniffing privileges until he filed the fucking paperwork. Her being a fucking retard doesn't excuse his shit.

The other evidence says Lowtax is a sketchy controlling asshole. So, he's a sketchy controlling asshole. But is this abuse, or simply being shitty in a relationship? Keep in mind domestic abuse is a serious crime with serious legal ramifications - it isn't just one more bad personality trait to gossip about on Kiwi farms.

What is abuse? Is keeping a woman isolated and controlling her behavior abuse? You are splitting hairs for an asshole because the legal language doesn't allow at the lay level for an easy separation of Physical Battering of a Spouse and the level of asshattery that means the courts need keep two people apart for the safety of both of them and probably more.

Let me rephrase: Does he deserve to be in jail for being an asshole towards women? (He might deserve it for being a negligent father, IMO). And let's look at the other side of the story - did the women in question not initiate some caddish behavior for how they behaved? Is their word reliable given what we know about them? Remember, the legal system is extremely anti-male on these things.

Listen bro, I get it. Bitches be scandalous, there are two sides and courts only believe the women. I get it. But trust me this right here is not the MRA hill to die on.
This is not some he-said-she-said. This is not an isolated incident. This is a pattern over two decades. Find another hill.

But on the other hand there's no evidence of physical abuse. Why yes, I would like actual evidence that a man has beaten a woman, other than the word of unstable BPD cases alone, before condemning him as a wife-beater.

There is MINIMAL evidence of physical abuse. there is the police report from Megan where its pretty clear Lowtax wanted her to hand over her phone and she didn't want to, and there was blood drawn.

 

[AnOminous]

Let me rephrase: Does he deserve to be in jail for being an asshole towards women?

Depends what you mean by "deserve." Legally, the only ones that could have ever been proven are probably his ex-wives, who didn't actually pull the trigger. Those are both past any statute of limitations. I'm not at all convinced by Bogan's bullshit that she didn't provoke it enough that the most he should get is a fine over that one, if even that. If she really did shake him awake with a neck injury and he reacted to that, it wasn't exactly a premeditated assault.

I do think he's enough of an absolute cunt he deserves to lose the support of hundreds of random strangers or, more to the point, he never did anything to deserve $10K+ of free money every month for doing sweet fuck all for years.

 

[break these cuffs]

I didn't know about the immigration thing. With a child that is seriously off-putting to me. Is it substantiated and do we know Ashli is telling the truth about why it happened? Was it malice or just laziness?

Does it matter if it was laziness or malice? A crime was committed. Rich made his wife and the mother of your child an illegal immigrant. Ashlii cannot get a job. She cannot get a drivers license. She cannot get a bank account. Ashlii is trapped in Rich's house without the means to have a life independent of him. There are specific provisions in the Violence Against Women Act to punish this type of abuse and give recourse to the victims. Rich has said she's been locked up by immigration before and his mother, yes mommy comes to her baby bird's aide again, confirmed this in statements to police which we've seen. Momtax had to bail Ashlii out of ICE detention and is Ashlii's financial sponsor because Rich is such a fuck up he couldn't sponsor her himself.

I'm going to jail if I hop the curb and mow down a bunch of people on the sidewalk while driving. It doesn't matter if it's with intent, a complete accident because I'm a retard, or if I'm too lazy to turn my wheel. A crime was committed.

 

[Burn Book]

Let me rephrase: Does he deserve to be in jail for being an asshole towards women? (He might deserve it for being a negligent father, IMO). And let's look at the other side of the story - did the women in question not initiate some caddish behavior for how they behaved? Is their word reliable given what we know about them? Remember, the legal system is extremely anti-male on these things.

I like how we went from "there's no proof he abused anybody" to "maybe those whores provoked it". Go take this white knighting Lowtax bullshit on his Facebook page, he will appreciate that.

Also bear in mind we're here to have fun, not to be preachy cunts, and Lowtax being a little bitch about everything happening in his life is really funny.

 

[You]

He deserves to be in prison for his shrill voice alone. Beating women is just a bonus.

 

[Um Oh Ah Yeah]

I keep seeing the rhetoric of "oh Lowtax only dates head-cases so their claims of abuse can't be substantiated" but Megan never really seemed like anything more than a normal, albeit very Christian, lady, and her police report has the most direct physical evidence of abuse.

 

[Ghostse]

I keep seeing the rhetoric of "oh Lowtax only dates head-cases so their claims of abuse can't be substantiated" but Megan never really seemed like anything more than a normal, albeit very Christian, lady, and her police report has the most direct physical evidence of abuse.

She was a head case before she found (refound?) jebus.
Proof: She voluntarily married lowtax and allowed him to rawdog her.

That's why Lowtax lost his shit about it, because she was very much fuck you dad for a while and with him on is Euphoric views, but I believe after having their first kid she started going back to church because she was getting tired of her social circle being just a pill head, a burgeoning yarnwigger, an some poor fuck who seemed normal besides being a band-sperg.

 

[RapidUnplannedDisassembly]

I keep seeing the rhetoric of "oh Lowtax only dates head-cases so their claims of abuse can't be substantiated" but Megan never really seemed like anything more than a normal, albeit very Christian, lady, and her police report has the most direct physical evidence of abuse.

That's Lowtax' own rhetoric after the relationship deteriorates. Lowtax's dating MO is closer to, "he only dates head-cases because at the start they're easy to manipulate, and as has been demonstrated by his entire life placed voluntarily on display by Lowtax himself, his powers of foresight are limited at best to the ability to make it to the bathroom before shitting himself. Most times."

 

[Ghostse]

I didn't know about the immigration thing. With a child that is seriously off-putting to me. Is it substantiated and do we know Ashli is telling the truth about why it happened? Was it malice or just laziness?

The other evidence says Lowtax is a sketchy controlling asshole. So, he's a sketchy controlling asshole. But is this abuse, or simply being shitty in a relationship? Keep in mind domestic abuse is a serious crime with serious legal ramifications - it isn't just one more bad personality trait to gossip about on Kiwi farms.

Let me rephrase: Does he deserve to be in jail for being an asshole towards women? (He might deserve it for being a negligent father, IMO). And let's look at the other side of the story - did the women in question not initiate some caddish behavior for how they behaved? Is their word reliable given what we know about them? Remember, the legal system is extremely anti-male on these things.

I don't give a shit about his "career" or patreon (he didn't deserve that money in the first place IMO), and his reputation is already trash. I do care about standards of evidence for these things because it effects all men.

But on the other hand there's no evidence of physical abuse. Why yes, I would like actual evidence that a man has beaten a woman, other than the word of unstable BPD cases alone, before condemning him as a wife-beater.

Also you never answered my question.
Do you or do you not consider holding a woman's immigration status over her head to be abuse, especially when that woman is a mother of a child she may not see for years if she is deported, to make her solely dependent on you for all of her needs?

This is not a bait question. If your personal definition of Abuse is limited solely to physical actions (and from other posts, it seems unprovoked physical actions) you need to understand that your definition of abuse is not in line with the legal one or that of larger society's.

And not everything that is wrong needs to carry a criminal penalty with jail time, sometimes a civil one will do. I don't think being an asshole should be a crime. But just because it isn't a crime doesn't mean it also shouldn't come without societal sanction.

I've have seen BPD run wild on friends' lives, and it do incredible damage to personal and professional relationships until the truth emerges that it was just a vindicitive bitch being crazy because she was being ignored, and trying to hide behind protections for victims. I'm not unsympathetic to your viewpoint.

I guess another question to ask you is:
Why are you taking issue with Lowtax specifically being called an abuser when you seem to have done almost no attempt to see if the accusations are justified? His relationship behavior clearly rises above the usual simple tit-for-tat dysfunctional relationship conflicts.

 

[Leonard Helplessness]

A quick little note about Ashli's immigration status. I believe that the things that have been said about it are corroborated by a particular detail about the police report in this post.

Richard's ex-wife:

Richard's daughter (name redacted from the report due to being a minor), currently the subject of a custody battle:

Richard:

Richard's mother:

Ashli:

Do you see anything missing from the last one?

 

[Ilmseil]

Yeah, where's the order of deportation and eternal banishment to the frozen north, immediate grant of vindication and order granting restoration of all Patreon funds?

 

[CptnSnshn]

OJ was acquitted but everyone still knows he’s a murderer.

OJ was innocent, his only crime was not killing 5 more whiteys.

Free OJ!

 

[Chan the Wizard]

I didn't know about the immigration thing. With a child that is seriously off-putting to me. Is it substantiated and do we know Ashli is telling the truth about why it happened? Was it malice or just laziness?

The other evidence says Lowtax is a sketchy controlling asshole. So, he's a sketchy controlling asshole. But is this abuse, or simply being shitty in a relationship? Keep in mind domestic abuse is a serious crime with serious legal ramifications - it isn't just one more bad personality trait to gossip about on Kiwi farms.

Let me rephrase: Does he deserve to be in jail for being an asshole towards women? (He might deserve it for being a negligent father, IMO). And let's look at the other side of the story - did the women in question not initiate some caddish behavior for how they behaved? Is their word reliable given what we know about them? Remember, the legal system is extremely anti-male on these things.

I don't give a shit about his "career" or patreon (he didn't deserve that money in the first place IMO), and his reputation is already trash. I do care about standards of evidence for these things because it effects all men.



But on the other hand there's no evidence of physical abuse. Why yes, I would like actual evidence that a man has beaten a woman, other than the word of unstable BPD cases alone, before condemning him as a wife-beater.

You could have just said you’re one of those weirdo MRAs and saved us the trouble.

 

[A Cardboard Box]

I didn't know about the immigration thing. With a child that is seriously off-putting to me. Is it substantiated and do we know Ashli is telling the truth about why it happened? Was it malice or just laziness?

The other evidence says Lowtax is a sketchy controlling asshole. So, he's a sketchy controlling asshole. But is this abuse, or simply being shitty in a relationship? Keep in mind domestic abuse is a serious crime with serious legal ramifications - it isn't just one more bad personality trait to gossip about on Kiwi farms.

Let me rephrase: Does he deserve to be in jail for being an asshole towards women? (He might deserve it for being a negligent father, IMO). And let's look at the other side of the story - did the women in question not initiate some caddish behavior for how they behaved? Is their word reliable given what we know about them? Remember, the legal system is extremely anti-male on these things.

I don't give a shit about his "career" or patreon (he didn't deserve that money in the first place IMO), and his reputation is already trash. I do care about standards of evidence for these things because it effects all men.



But on the other hand there's no evidence of physical abuse. Why yes, I would like actual evidence that a man has beaten a woman, other than the word of unstable BPD cases alone, before condemning him as a wife-beater.

It is a federal crime to withhold or tamper with someone's visa status for personal gain. It is actually a more serious crime than physically beating your wife, which is a misdemeanor in most states. The USFG treats visa abuse as literal slavery. In fact, in most instances victims of such abuse are able to apply for permanent residency status under the VAWA.

Edit: https://www.uscis.gov/archive/infor...nt-victims-of-domestic-violence-in-the-united

Q1. What is domestic violence?
A1. Domestic violence is a pattern of behavior when one intimate partner or spouse threatens or abuses the other partner. Abuse may include physical harm, forced sexual relations, emotional manipulation (including isolation or intimidation), and economic and/or immigration-related threats. While most recorded incidents of domestic violence involve men abusing women or children, men can also be victims of domestic violence.

 

[Ghostse]

It is a federal crime to withhold or tamper with someone's visa status for personal gain. It is actually a more serious crime than physically beating your wife, which is a misdemeanor in most states. The USFG treats visa abuse as literal slavery. In fact, in most instances victims of such abuse are able to apply for permanent residency status under the VAWA.

Edit: https://www.uscis.gov/archive/infor...nt-victims-of-domestic-violence-in-the-united

Ok sure I guess, but did you know Lowtax pays higher insurance premiums for being a man?

 

[Ilmseil]

Canadian women are fair targets for enslavement. This is the law of war.

 

[break these cuffs]

Canadian women are fair targets for enslavement. This is the law of war.

Only if you win them in battle.