Feeder Fetishism

Being gay is a fetish and also like heroin. Oookay.
Well no, the line you quoted said opium : heroin :: homosexuality : bugcatching.

Most people into bug catching are gay men, but probably not all of them. So yeah, replace "gay men" in that post with "sexually active people".
 
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Well no, the line you quoted said opium : heroin :: homosexuality : bugcatching.

Most people into bug catching are gay men, but probably not all of them. So yeah, replace "gay men" in that post with "sexually active people".
Well no, the line I quoted was an analogy to support your contention that fetishes grow more extreme over time. Liking chubby girls : feederism :: opium : heroin :: gay sex :: bugchasing. I see what you're going for, but it sounded like you were trying to say being gay inevitably leads to people trying to catch AIDS because buttsex just isn't cutting it anymore.
 
Ah, the feeders. Such a weird fetish. I've watched many videos and tvs shows about heavy set people and sometimes you just can't believe how big they could get themselves to without anybody stopping them. Most of the time these people have a lover or a relative who constantly feeds. Mostly because they love the person or sometimes as I've seen a few times, they are scared on how the heavy set person might react to no "good" food.

Sigh, but these feeders are especially disgusting. I dont know which ones are worse: the ones who actively encourage their lover to eat themself to death or the ones that have a lover who wants to be super fat and they just stand there watching their lover eat to the death.

Both are horrible types of people. If you truely care about your lover you would do all you can to get them to be healthy and be fit, not slouching on the chair and complaining about how fat they are.

Plus when their lovers die from overfeeding these scums just simply move onto the next victim.

Boy this reminds me of that episode from spongebob where gary gets overfeed by that grandma.
 
There was an episode of "My 600-lb Life" that had a woman whose husband just constantly berated her for losing weight. He actually told her "I married you because I thought you were a happy fat girl, I wouldn't have married you if I knew you were an unhappy fat girl." But the coldest part was where, on the way home from her gastric bypass surgery, he took her through the drive-in and started ranting about how amazing bacon is. What a motherfucker.

There's an episode of The F-Plus about feeders. It's amazing.


Being gay is a fetish and also like heroin. Oookay.

I remember a friend telling me about that episode. They said he was an asshole, too.

I don't care if I sound like A-Log, fuck that guy! The nerve of taking your spouse to a fast-food joint after they had a bypass surgery. You're an asshole. You like fat? Stuff yourself instead of someone else, freak.

I'm sorry, but just reading about that makes me angry.

Regarding "My 600 lb Life" in general, I know it's their fault for eating so much, but I can't help but feel sorry for those types of people.

@Muhyo -I completely agree with you.
 
On SecondLife ages ago I met someone who told me their ultimate fantasy was to be hooked up to a "Gravy Pipe" and when I told them that would probably rupture their stomach or inadvertently drown them because the human body wasn't exactly made for that they yelled at me and I distinctly remember them telling me that I was "Crushing their dreams." :story:

WTF is a gravy pipe?

Okay, I'll confess that sometimes I'll eat peanut butter right out of the jar. But not like, these people, who would probably eat the entire jar -- just a couple of spoonfuls. It's a habit I'm trying to break, and quite frankly, after watching this, I think it's not going to be all that hard. *shudder*
 
I kind of get it? Not the feeding some one in til they are 600 lbs but like maybe 250-300 lbs.
You do? Can you explain? I guess I understand the control and sadisn thing. And maybe some twisted body acceptance thing...and I guess chubby chasers like bbws. But 200 to 300 lbs Aint pleasantly plump.
 
I remember catching a shock doc (gotta love those thinly veiled freakshows) a few years back about supermassive BBWs and their feeders.

In fact here it is

There's a guy on there building a house with double width doors and hallways for his wife who's in hospital - to lose weight under controlled conditions - so that when she gets out he can start feeding her again...

Dafuq?!
 
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Of course he would...
 
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Are you a feeder?

I'm probably putting a target on myself for 'Autistic' ratings indulging in embarrassing personal info on here.. but what the hell.

No, not anymore at least.

At one point in time I was curious about it. I didn't want to make anyone gain a bunch of weight, but the idea of a woman wanting me to feed her and wait on her hand and foot attracted me. Once I started dating my now wife, I told her about my fantasy, she thought it was hot, and so we tried it out a few times. At least for me, it was something better in fantasy than practice. We haven't done that again in years, mainly because I just haven't felt any desire to.

I am not sure of all the reasons for this, but one I'm sure one is that I love her too much. When it comes down to it, fetishes that work on dom/sub principles really rely on suspension of disbelief and the ability to objectify your partner temporarily. Its hard for me to believe a truly loving couple with a healthy relationship (both being roughly equal) can indulge these fetishes deeply and regularly. It might seem hot in the heat of the moment to put a leash and collar on a woman and have her beg for her master's mercy, but when she is the love of your life... she's not just a nameless fantasy girl anymore.

As for the fat fetish/bbw aspect of this... Like I said, it is completely separate from feederism but often coexists. I too at one point loved, almost exclusively, larger women (appx 250 pounds). But again, this started to change around the time I began dating my future wife. Part of it might have been due to us living together and me seeing all the inconveniences a big girl deals with, like the nightmare of buying clothes. After a couple of years, I began encouraging her to lose weight. Ultimately, we ended up in a much better spot relationship wise because of it. I think part of the reason guys like big women, especially the super morbidly obese ones, is that it makes them feel superior. I'll be honest, it was nice feeling more attractive than my girlfriend in a way, but you have to grow up eventually.

Our egos are an illusion, and our ultimate downfall. Stop caring about glorifying yourself and you will be a lot happier and so will everyone else. And for those that are married, redirect those selfish prideful emotions into glorifying your wife instead of yourself.
 
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I'm probably putting a target on myself for 'Autistic' ratings indulging in embarrassing personal info on here.. but what the hell.

No, not anymore at least.

At one point in time I was curious about it. I didn't want to make anyone gain a bunch of weight, but the idea of a woman wanting me to feed her and wait on her hand and foot attracted me. Once I started dating my now wife, I told her about my fantasy, she thought it was hot, and so we tried it out a few times. At least for me, it was something better in fantasy than practice. We haven't done that again in years, mainly because I just haven't felt any desire to.

I am not sure of all the reasons for this, but one I'm sure one is that I love her too much. When it comes down to it, fetishes that work on dom/sub principles really rely on suspension of disbelief and the ability to objectify your partner temporarily. Its hard for me to believe a truly loving couple with a healthy relationship (both being roughly equal) can indulge these fetishes deeply and regularly. It might seem hot in the heat of the moment to put a leash and collar on a woman and have her beg for her master's mercy, but when she is the love of your life... she's not just a nameless fantasy girl anymore.

As for the fat fetish/bbw aspect of this... Like I said, it is completely separate from feederism but often coexists. I too at one point loved, almost exclusively, larger women (appx 250 pounds). But again, this started to change around the time I began dating my future wife. Part of it might have been due to us living together and me seeing all the inconveniences a big girl deals with, like the nightmare of buying clothes. After a couple of years, I began encouraging her to lose weight. Ultimately, we ended up in a much better spot relationship wise because of it. I think part of the reason guys like big women, especially the super morbidly obese ones, is that it makes them feel superior. I'll be honest, it was nice feeling more attractive than my girlfriend in a way, but you have to grow up eventually.

Our egos are an illusion, and our ultimate downfalls. Stop caring about glorifying yourself and you will be a lot happier and so will everyone else. And for those that are married, live for your partner. Redirect those selfish prideful emotions into glorifying your wife instead of yourself.

Gross.
 
I'm probably putting a target on myself for 'Autistic' ratings indulging in embarrassing personal info on here.. but what the hell.

No, not anymore at least.

At one point in time I was curious about it. I didn't want to make anyone gain a bunch of weight, but the idea of a woman wanting me to feed her and wait on her hand and foot attracted me. Once I started dating my now wife, I told her about my fantasy, she thought it was hot, and so we tried it out a few times. At least for me, it was something better in fantasy than practice. We haven't done that again in years, mainly because I just haven't felt any desire to.

I am not sure of all the reasons for this, but one I'm sure one is that I love her too much. When it comes down to it, fetishes that work on dom/sub principles really rely on suspension of disbelief and the ability to objectify your partner temporarily. Its hard for me to believe a truly loving couple with a healthy relationship (both being roughly equal) can indulge these fetishes deeply and regularly. It might seem hot in the heat of the moment to put a leash and collar on a woman and have her beg for her master's mercy, but when she is the love of your life... she's not just a nameless fantasy girl anymore.

As for the fat fetish/bbw aspect of this... Like I said, it is completely separate from feederism but often coexists. I too at one point loved, almost exclusively, larger women (appx 250 pounds). But again, this started to change around the time I began dating my future wife. Part of it might have been due to us living together and me seeing all the inconveniences a big girl deals with, like the nightmare of buying clothes. After a couple of years, I began encouraging her to lose weight. Ultimately, we ended up in a much better spot relationship wise because of it. I think part of the reason guys like big women, especially the super morbidly obese ones, is that it makes them feel superior. I'll be honest, it was nice feeling more attractive than my girlfriend in a way, but you have to grow up eventually.

Our egos are an illusion, and our ultimate downfall. Stop caring about glorifying yourself and you will be a lot happier and so will everyone else. And for those that are married, redirect those selfish prideful emotions into glorifying your wife instead of yourself.

The important thing is that common decency won the day
 
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