Secret Gamer Girl / SecretGamerGrrl / Googleshng / "Violet Hargrave" / Jacob Lawrence (Jake) Alley / Violet Cassandra Ocean - Delusional Zoe Quinn Stalker, Libelous Tweeter, Thirsty Gnome, Faux-Tranny Neckbeard Incel, Micropenis, "Known Troubled Person", Creator of "Massive vs the Masses", Self-Described "Noise Making Thing"; Lives in Niantic, CT

The effect of his new look has some layers, IMO. He looks younger, if nothing else,

His magical thinking was that trooning out and taking hormones would make him 20 years younger. He would be 18 again and a twee girl. It sort of worked, he looks 20 years younger than he used to but that's because with a wig and a shave he's transformed into Bruce Vilanche in his mid-to-late 40's.
 
Something like 40-50% of American marriages end in divorce, making name changing an experience tens of millions of American women have done multiple times, including at a time when they were sadbrain from a relationship split. How many of them spend years whining all over the internet about how difficult these procedures are? Zero.

This is why people fucking hate troons. There is not a single mundane, normal experience that almost everyone has dealt with at some point that troons can't turn into a drama on the level of a gang rape.

I'd say he's graduated from "lol what" to "I'll be polite and play along" in that department.

I think he realized even other troons weren't willing to play along with his absolute bearded bullshit and maybe even told him he was damaging the cause by being so obviously a dude who didn't care in the least.
 
You don't pay income taxes Jake, you're probably still a dependent, why would you get a check that's tied to them?

"Highly appreciated, but... "
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lol "they got to the source files somehow" not Jake Alley put "Jake Alley" as his name
 
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You don't pay income taxes Jake, you're probably still a dependent, why would you get a check that's tied to them?


"Highly appreciated, but... "
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lol "they got to the source files somehow" not Jake Alley put "Jake Alley" as his name
I'm just waiting for someone to post the comparison pic in one of these twitter threads.
 
I'm just waiting for someone to post the comparison pic in one of these twitter threads.
It's funny. Although Jake continues to wail incessantly about the army of stalkers in his menchies, and the hours and hours he has to spend every day blocking and reporting, as far as I can tell it's pure fantasy. Anyone can put "secretgamergrrl" in the twitter search box and see everyone and everything that tags him. It's asspats all the way down. If there even are any Gamergate weens left on twitter, they've long ago moved on to other targets.
 
Today in what in the fuck is he on about: https://twitter.com/SecretGamerGrrl/status/1299492834131808256
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Violet Cassandra Ocean of New London CT said:
So this is random because I've been waiting for a day when I'm not looking at a specific case in point, but can I just say how much it sucks sometimes "being the bigger person?"

Like, a while ago, someone I will just call X screwed up in a real real big way around me. I won't go into specifics but basically it was one of those things where X was having 2 conversations at once, got crossed wires, and I found out that when talking to other people, X doesn't use the correct pronouns for me, pretends not to know me, and gives credibility to horrific smears.

That's pretty freaking bad! And of course made worse by flipping out when I went "Uh, so this is awkward, did you miss who you're talking to?" or something along those lines, and X kinda panicked, accused me of some form of trickery, and hit block to escape that conversation.

Now, I'm not going to lie. I was a bit torn when this happened, because X is someone a whole lot of trans women I know put a lot of trust in, and I kinda feel like people in general could use a heads up that, you know, X takes damaging rumors about trans people at face value and conditionally withholds pronouns and can apparently be pretty two-faced with these things.

Ultimately though, I decided I should just be totally quiet, because this was PROBABLY a one-off offense. I'm a lightning rod for smear campaigns even above and beyond what trans women in general have to put up with, and X has a career that probably would not survive people's reaction to me laying out this particular incident. And of course X is on very good terms with like half a dozen other people who have said and done absolutely horrific things to me, spread ugly rumors behind my back, and have the benefit of me "being the better person" and letting them keep those skeletons in their closets too. So I'm sure the horrific things X is alluding to come from what X considers very credible sources.

But, you know, me not speaking up isn't at all the same as me not being deeply hurt by the original incident here, and still pretty concerned over X, you know, being the sort of person who apparently does personally contribute to some of the uglier faces of institutional transphobia, in a career where that being known would be a bit disqualifying.

Meanwhile, I of course am not speaking with X (in no small part because X hasn't removed that block set upon entering damage control mode). I don't feel safe being anywhere adjacent to X, for fear of extra doubling down, but... basically everyone I know is pretty constantly plugging X's work, inviting X to speak on panels/podcasts/streams/etc. and dodging around that is pretty damn hard.

And of course it certainly doesn't help things that while I did not broadcast anything about the incident here publicly, when it happened there were a handful of people who I showed the offending messages to that I could trust to not go plastering everywhere or directly confronting X, as one of those "am I overreacting? Did X seriously say such horrific things to me like this? Is there room for misinterpretation?"

And... yeah, the consensus from everyone in that small handful of people is no, that's as bad as it looks, nobody can believe X would say that... but yet, those same people are totally amongst those putting me in uncomfortable positions by constantly promoting X.

Granted, I also have to deal with that in regard to someone who very openly and publicly went off on this weird tear shouting so much provably false harmful crap about me that xe looked like a freaking Gamergater, so I guess it's absurd to expect any solidarity on something I actively want quiet

And the thing that really gets to me here is, while I'd certainly like to think that under other circumstances I'd still opt not to publicly call X out in a potentially career ending way, I'm not going to kid myself and pretend that as a trans woman, I have any real choice but to do my best to stay quiet, never share my story, and flee from any space X enters for the rest of my life, because we all know the score, right? No matter how black and white the issue, no matter how clear the evidence, whenever anyone is given the option to throw a trans woman under a bus in order to preserve a cis person's good name, nobody can ever start shoving fast enough.

Which is of course why the longer any given one of us is out, the more we tend to get more reserved, quieter, and retreat towards or fully into complete isolation.
 
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