Lolcow Melinda Leigh Scott & Marshall Castersen - Sue-happy couple. Flat earth conspiracists. Pretending to be Jewish. Believe Kiwi Farms is protected by the Masonic Order. 0-6 on lawsuits. Marshall is dead.

[Toasty]

Or even ahead of that, when laying down with the man in the first place.
"Do I want to get pregnant right now, with this man?"
The level of indescriminate irresponsibility is astounding.
But then again, maybe being a mother dependant on government benefits was always her life plan, and she never cared what loser knocked her up. All she wanted was a baby/paycheck.

 

[B’Elanna]

I wonder if Melinda realizes the inverse correlation between the number of children she has vs the quality of man she attracts? I can’t wait to see Marshall‘s replacement.

 

[redcent]

How could you, as a woman, not want your own child? Even if you end up in a less than ideal marriage, why would you, as a woman, not want a relationship with the child of your womb?

One reason out of many, I have a family member who due to issues was proved incapable of looking after her kids or keeping a marriage and because of that her kids suffered. It was a lesson of what not to do i have learned well. If more women knew how much responsibility kids really are I'd expect they'd keep their legs closed more often. Hint hint.

That, and starting a relationship isn't all that easy. Why should I reproduce with any man off of the street, and if I find someone I like, would they like me? I don't start relationships on a whim and I'm far too busy living my life which is comfortable than bring in someone who'd disrupt it.

Also your statement presents a moral dilemma: how are you going to get sex of you aren't married?

you don't, because you don't have to

... Or for those who don't even believe you need to be married to have sex, have sex anyway, that's their body. Me? I'm not afraid to die a virgin.

Sure, I can see going several months without relations or up to maybe 2 or 3 years while in an engagement. But longer than that. Not practical.

For you, maybe not. But I am not you, and other people don't have that problem

Back to square one again.

Here are the facts:
1. A girl becomes fertile on average by age 12-14 yrs old
2. A woman becomes an adult at age 20, the age by which she is ready psychologically, spiritually and emotionally to have relations/marry.
3. It is a natural, healthy human desire to have sex, even frequently
4. A woman, on average, reaches menopause at 50.
5. A woman has a 30 year window to have children

I didn't even start getting my periods until I was 16, let alone start being fertile. The 12-14 year old fertility age is bullshit, nature isn't cut and clean like that.

 

[TamarYaelBatYah]

At no point did you ever actually stop and think "Should I or should I not have this child."
Amazing.

According to who?

I wonder if Melinda realizes the inverse correlation between the number of children she has vs the quality of man she attracts? I can’t wait to see Marshall‘s replacement.

Hun, you're a Goy. You don't know what a quality man is. As a Goy, you measure men by their bank account and dick size.

This is why you Goy women have abortions though, I know, I know. You Goy only measure a woman in relation to the number of children she has. You use birth control and KILL the children in your womb to increase your chances with men. Sick!

Why should I reproduce with any man off of the street, and if I find someone I like, would they like me? I don't start relationships on a whim and I'm far too busy living my life which is comfortable than bring in someone who'd disrupt it.

And what's wrong with artificial insemnation? You too proud of a Goy woman to even consider that being a Matriarch isn't "lowly"? Internalized misogyny much?

If more women knew how much responsibility kids really are I'd expect they'd keep their legs closed more often. Hint hint.

What hint lady? I've been raising the children of my womb for almost 14 years. Ive taken responsibility for all of them.

I'm not afraid to die a virgin.

Because you either have antisocial personality disorder or you are mentally ill. Not desiring sex is abnormal psychology. You go ahead and die a virgin. I'll OWN MY SEXUALITY, and proudly.

You Goy women say that you are so "advanced" but you are perpetuating sexual identities for women from the 1950s!

I didn't even start getting my periods until I was 16, let alone start being fertile. The 12-14 year old fertility age is bullshit, nature isn't cut and clean like that.

That's why I used the word AVERAGE

Or even ahead of that, when laying down with the man in the first place.
"Do I want to get pregnant right now, with this man?"
The level of indescriminate irresponsibility is astounding.
But then again, maybe being a mother dependant on government benefits was always her life plan, and she never cared what loser knocked her up. All she wanted was a baby/paycheck.

So illogical. I have a Bachelor's degree. I could make tons more money if I was childless.

Hun, learn to OWN YOUR SEXUALITY and quit trying to promote 1950s sexual roles for women!

 

[Spergichu]

HOW DARE OTHER WOMEN NOT HAVE THEIR LEGS BE A REVOLVING DOOR FOR RANDOM DRUG USERS AND WIFE BEATERS AND CONSTANTLY POP OUT WELFARE BABIES. THEY MUST HAVE MENTAL ISSUES.

ftfy

 

[TamarYaelBatYah]

The only people who hide are fatties. Sry Tammy, you're bottom shelf shit.

---says the Goy man, like I care about his assessment of women. You don't know a good woman from an evil one. Your inheritance is a Wicked woman!

"“A wicked woman is given as a portion to a wicked man: but a set apart woman is given to him that feareth Adonai.”
(Eccl. 26:23)

ftfy

You're a sexist trying to swing at a woman who doesn't conform to your misogynistic patriarchy. PASS

 

[Spergichu]

You're a sexist trying to swing at a woman who doesn't conform to your misogynistic patriarchy. PASS

So is Marshall a sexist goy pig for walking out on you and the kids he 'adopted'?

 

[Baby Yoda]

You're a sexist trying to swing at a woman who doesn't conform to your misogynistic patriarchy. PASS

Cope.

 

[TamarYaelBatYah]

So is Marshall a sexist goy pig for walking out on you and the kids he 'adopted'?

Marshall didn't walk out. I asked him to stay away from my house and I sent him a divorce GET via email. After some silent treatment - his specialty - he apologized and then asked to come over. So I let him over to talk and he came by one day afterward in which I asked him to leave my house within 24 hours of him being here because I am NOT going to tolerate his disrespect anymore. I've set a boundary and I'm not going back on it. I am 35 years old, I am a mature woman, I don't have time for relationSHITs. I want a real relationship that is super healthy.

That's the short of it. Long story is not for here.

His relationship with the children is a different issue. Us being divorced doesn't mean he can't be a part of the children's lives. I doubt my older children will want a relationship with him because of how he treated me, their natural affection and loyalty toward me has made them angry at him for the way he has treated me. And no, I didn't coach them to feel that way.

The younger children don't know the difference and I never said he couldn't visit them. What he does next is up to him.

Cope.

lol

 

[Spergichu]

Marshall didn't walk out. I asked him to stay away from my house and I sent him a divorce GET via email. After some silent treatment - his specialty - he apologized and then asked to come over. So I let him over to talk and he came by one day afterward in which I asked him to leave my house within 24 hours of him being here because I am NOT going to tolerate his disrespect anymore. I've set a boundary and I'm not going back on it. I am 35 years old, I am a mature woman, I don't have time for relationSHITs. I want a real relationship that is super healthy.

That's the short of it. Long story is not for here.

His relationship with the children is a different issue. Us being divorced doesn't mean he can't be a part of the children's lives. I doubt my older children will want a relationship with him because of how he treated me, their natural affection and loyalty toward me has made them angry at him for the way he has treated me. And no, I didn't coach them to feel that way.

The younger children don't know the difference and I never said he couldn't visit them. What he does next is up to him.

But is he a sexist goy pig? He surely didn't treat you like a true Jewishᵀᴹ man would based on that description.

 

[TamarYaelBatYah]

But is he a sexist goy pig? He surely didn't treat you like a true Jewishᵀᴹ man would based on that description.

well, I think men in Ultra Orthodox, Orthodox and Conservative Jewish sects are sexist, they are incapable of treating a woman rightly. For one, they believe in Polygyny. For two, they believe in The Talmud, which is inherently sexist. Messianic Jewish men are in this bunch too because, although they do not believe in The Talmud, they believe in Polygyny and the whole "man is the head of the house" nonsense.

Reform and Karaite and Netzarim men are your garden bag variety. You may get a monogamous one in there that treats a woman as an equal.

Marshall does monogamy pretty well, I'd give him a B-, whereas, most of my exes were at like a D...
....but ultimately, even though you will not hear it on his lips, by his actions, yes, I do believe Marshall has internal beliefs that are sexist and that is what drives fights between us. Because he wants to control me and be in charge and tell me how to think.

I told him up front how I think, shared him my papers, but ya know, that didn't seem to help to prevent the lack of gender equality I have experienced.

 

[Eris!]

I could make tons more money if I was childless.

But you're not childless. You're childfull. And because of that, you can't afford the children you had. You intentionally made your life worse and intentionally created a human being whose life you will fuck up.
Because you're incapable of making deliberate choices and are apparently a slut.

 

[TamarYaelBatYah]

But you're not childless. You're childfull. And because of that, you can't afford the children you had. You intentionally made your life worse and intentionally created a human being whose life you will fuck up.
Because you're incapable of making deliberate choices and are apparently a slut.

Hun, the "Slut" thing has already been tried and discussed. You FAIL. Go back and start at the beginning of the thread, because I'm not going to repeat it all. Having sex doesn't make you a "slut". You apparently are a woman who needs to learn to own your sexuality and drop the internalized misogyny.

I can afford every single child I have. I'm not a Goy. I'm not a laize faire Capitalist. I believe it takes an entire Socialistic Torah Community to raise children. There is nothing wrong with not using a traditional W2 job to put food on the table, roof over head, clothes on your children's backs.

I didn't make my life worse in any way from having children nor is their life fucked up. I followed my dream of having a large homeschooling family. Doesn't matter how my children came into the world: concubine, marriage, artificial insemination, adoption, whatever. Children don't need 2 parents to be happy. My children are loved, they know they are loved and I am raising them in The Torah. Thats what they need.

 

[Baby Yoda]

well, I think men in Ultra Orthodox, Orthodox and Conservative Jewish sects are sexist, they are incapable of treating a woman rightly. For one, they believe in Polygyny. For two, they believe in The Talmud, which is inherently sexist. Messianic Jewish men are in this bunch too because, although they do not believe in The Talmud, they believe in Polygyny and the whole "man is the head of the house" nonsense.

Reform and Karaite and Netzarim men are your garden bag variety. You may get a monogamous one in there that treats a woman as an equal.

Marshall does monogamy pretty well, I'd give him a B-, whereas, most of my exes were at like a D...
....but ultimately, even though you will not hear it on his lips, by his actions, yes, I do believe Marshall has internal beliefs that are sexist and that is what drives fights between us. Because he wants to control me and be in charge and tell me how to think.

I told him up front how I think, shared him my papers, but ya know, that didn't seem to help to prevent the lack of gender equality I have experienced.

Google "Kelsie's Obsession".

 

[White Baby]

Marshall does monogamy pretty well, I'd give him a B-, whereas, most of my exes were at like a D...

You really know how to pick em, don't you?

 

[Eris!]

Having sex doesn't make you a "slut".

Being psychologically incapable of even considering not having sex at every opportunity does, in fact, make you a slut.

 

[White Baby]

@TamarYaelBatYah , if spousal rape don't real then why did you say your ex drugged you and raped you to conceive one of your kids? Surely that was just a case of mismatched libido and you should have shut up and took it, by your own logic.

 

[TamarYaelBatYah]

@TamarYaelBatYah , if spousal rape don't real then why did you say your ex drugged you and raped you to conceive one of your kids? Surely that was just a case of mismatched libido and you should have shut up and took it, by your own logic.

I was being narcissistically abused. I was trying to save money to leave. I had my own room with a lock on the door. He picked the lock. And no, I don't believe drugging someone is okay.

Being psychologically incapable of even considering not having sex at every opportunity does, in fact, make you a slut.

Actually, no, it doesn't. The Torah doesn't put those limits on anyone. The only sexual limits in The Torah are: no prostitution, no homosexuality/lesbianism, no adultery, high priest can't marry a non-virgin, no polyamory and no polygyny.

"Sex at every opportunity". Hun, if I had sex at "every opportunity" I woulda banged like 500 guys by now. I chose NOT to. If I had "Sex at every opportunity" I could have a porn collection larger than my leg when stacked. I haven't. I coulda been in affairs, I declined when asked. I could have been the "other woman", found a sugar daddy, coulda been a stripper. I haven't. I have a really nice body and pretty face and I am a gifted dancer, (had my college professors try to recruit me to a dance major because of my talent), yet I have exercised tremendous control over the years.

You really know how to pick em, don't you?

I sure do. You don't see me with any sexist Christian or Athiest now do you?

You think you know the secret formula for picking Mr. Awesome. Quit talkin shit and walk your talk.

But the truth is your formula isn't any better than mine

 

[Eris!]

yet I have exercised tremendous control over the years.

The fact that you're describing getting married to have sex and still having sex every day with zero thought for the consequences as "tremendous control" is not an argument that you AREN'T a pathological nymphomaniac, it's an argument that you are.

Also according to your profile the only other threads on the forum you read are about sex songs, sex toys, and when women hit the wall. lol.

 

[TamarYaelBatYah]

a pathological nymphomaniac

So because I am a woman, who happens to enjoy sex, there must be something wrong with me, huh?

LADY, DO YOU HEAR YOURSELF?!

Also according to your profile the only other threads on the forum you read are about sex songs, sex toys, and when women hit the wall. lol.

Funny, huh?