Fat Acceptance Movement / Fat Girlcows

[True native]

I think he looks okay, but the smug cuck aura takes him down many points. Shame on him for encouraging the fatties that they deserve a man with a healthy BMI. You know he's fucked or into some fucked shit from the fact he's dating her.

Upon closer inspection those eyes do say “sociopath“.

remember how ted bundy actively dated a chronic alcoholic, that Liz woman? And you think to yourself, why would anyone choose to get into and stay in a relationship with someone so fucked up unless they were fucked up themselves (looking at you fat by jen and boyfriend gin). same with lard whale husbands it looks like.

She is 100000000000000% the beard to this dead eyed, emotionless weirdo. Check under the car port when they move out for sally the missing neighbour.

 

[AbraCadaver]

You know you like yourself when you constantly post social media updates informing people that you like yourself.

You don’t like yourself, Bekah.

Seriously, so many of these cows do this: constant, daily posts about how they like themselves and they’re doing just fine, thank you. Nobody who likes themselves needs to reassure themselves of that fact this much. They hide it behind a veneer of “I’m spreading FA/body positivity awareness! I refuse to be silenced! I deserve to be seen as well, and other righteous slogans!”

But 90% of this kind of posting is just for them. Thirty years ago, insecure people were encouraged to repeat self-affirming phrases into the mirror every day to boost their self-esteem. “I like myself.” “I’m enough just the way I am.” “I don’t have to be perfect.”

Now people just do it on social media instead, and change “I” to “you” in an attempt to not look desperate and self-absorbed. I’m sure if the mirror could yell “YASSSSS QUEEN SLAY” and post likes, they’d switch back over.

 

[FuckDuckSeagull]

Well now ...

"Brains automatically assume being fat is bad." Because, you know..... it is.

You know you like yourself when you constantly post social media updates informing people that you like yourself.

You don’t like yourself, Bekah.

Seriously, so many of these cows do this: constant, daily posts about how they like themselves and they’re doing just fine, thank you. Nobody who likes themselves needs to reassure themselves of that fact this much. They hide it behind a veneer of “I’m spreading FA/body positivity awareness! I refuse to be silenced! I deserve to be seen as well, and other righteous slogans!”

But 90% of this kind of posting is just for them. Thirty years ago, insecure people were encouraged to repeat self-affirming phrases into the mirror every day to boost their self-esteem. “I like myself.” “I’m enough just the way I am.” “I don’t have to be perfect.”

Now people just do it on social media instead, and change “I” to “you” in an attempt to not look desperate and self-absorbed. I’m sure if the mirror could yell “YASSSSS QUEEN SLAY” and post likes, they’d switch back over.

Completely agree. She is so desperately trying to convince herself she doesn't hate her body. Just like all the other FA's. Deep down they know they would feel and look much better at a lower weight. They love to pretend that weightloss has to aim for a bikini fitness body, with 10% bodyfat, when just getting to a overweight BMI could be enough. But no, it's either Tess Holliday or Euginia Cooney, take yo pick.

 

[LetThemEatCake]

I love Becka's idiotic, slimy strawmanning. We don't think fat is bad because of the influence of dumb shit like diet diarrhea teas and fucking waist trainers. Not that those are modern phenomena anyway. Stupid quick weight fixes and clothes that aim to mould your figure are old school. Every era had something similar. We think fat is bad because of both the easily observable effects of excess weight (mobility, breathing issues, particular common disease incidence) and medical data. We think being morbidly obese us bad because we see how it affects people's quality of life and health, particularly as they start to leave their youth behind. We know it's bad because of the fact it elevates risk and incidence of multiple nasty illnesses and wrecks joints over time.

Becka is still young and full of herself enough to believe her own bullshit, I guess. She consistently makes logical errors and connects unconnected phenomena while ignoring well-evidenced scientific fact. She has decided that because she was depressed when she was a normal weight, it was clearly the normal weight that made her depressed and now she's a bit better due to medication and fat, being a fat hog is the answer to happiness. She's decided the entire bulk of scientific data on obesity and its terrible effects on rbe human body doesn't exist and the fact that diet teas and totally unrealistic body images and other nonsense do exist means all ways and means and reasons are weight loss are stupid and wrong. This is called cherry picking, Becka. How many years at uni and you're still prone to making emotionally driven, 100% dishonest arguments to prop up ideas that are stupid but feel so, so good?

 

[Treasure Champs]

She has decided that because she was depressed when she was a normal weight, it was clearly the normal weight that made her depressed and now she's a bit better due to medication and fat, being a fat hog is the answer to happiness. She's decided the entire bulk of scientific data on obesity and its terrible effects on rbe human body doesn't exist and the fact that diet teas and totally unrealistic body images and other nonsense do exist means all ways and means and reasons are weight loss are stupid and wrong.

I don't think this is *exactly* it, rather I think she thinks that being fat is the price she pays for happiness. She associates being skinny with being depressed and she's afraid that if she loses weight, she'll become depressed again. So instead of facing that fear and working it all out, she's desperately looking around for reasons to believe that fat is not just okay, but good.... so she can tell herself she didn't swap one bad thing for another bad thing, the problem was actually completely solved. Enter the HAES movement offering the strawmen of silly diet culture, people who are more than happy to hand her the ready-made arguments for fat = virtue.

If anything, I think she's a good example of an alarming and ever-growing culture of young and/or intellectually lazy people who decide what they want to believe and then look around for evidence to justify it. Just like the millions of hereditary Democrats and Republicans who are rabid Democrats and Republicans because of family and status and friends and race and social clubs but know diddly-squat about politics.

 

[FuckDuckSeagull]

I still can't get over the fact that this girl has a degree in law from a good school. And she chooses to just work with her own social media boosting company (whatever it is she does). It's like graduating from medical school and deciding to take up dog training. It's either that she never wanted to study law in the first place and just went with it or she is too goddamn lazy to put in the elbow grease and go work in an actual lawfirm. She could even do her woke bullshit by giving legal advice for free or work for an NGO or something. Use your education goddamnit!

 

[Pargon]

It's like graduating from medical school and deciding to take up dog training.

Disagree. Dog training is still a service which requires patience, empathy, and intuition. Self-promoting on social media requires no good qualities which is why every insecure idiot does it. All her career trajectory amounts to is a tremendous waste of money.

 

[FuckDuckSeagull]

Disagree. Dog training is still a service which requires patience, empathy, and intuition. Self-promoting on social media requires no good qualities which is why every insecure idiot does it. All her career trajectory amounts to is a tremendous waste of money.

Ok, agreed. Shitty dog trainer then.

 

[inquizadoor]

Well now ...
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"Brains automatically assume being fat is bad." Because, you know..... it is.

That bra is hideous and I hate that the skin colored part makes it look like a weird cutout.

Also, she's ripped a hole in those underwear since they're too small. But sure, whatever, no shame.

 

[Treasure Champs]

That bra is hideous and I hate that the skin colored part makes it look like a weird cutout.

I'm super triggered by all her bra choices. In all her pictures they're sagging in the bottom of something that looks like a bralette. All I can think is, they'd look so much better in a well-fitted proper bra with a central gore meeting the chest instead of swinging like two coconuts in a hammock.

 

[JambledUpWords]

That bra is hideous and I hate that the skin colored part makes it look like a weird cutout.

Also, she's ripped a hole in those underwear since they're too small. But sure, whatever, no shame.

She needs a push up bra. Push up bras a great for sagging and they can help fit clothes better since they mold an easier shape to work with. I don’t know why so many FA insist on wearing bras that have no support. I get trying to fight beauty standards and all, but a well fitting bra shouldn’t be considered one of those impossible beauty standards. Also, having breasts that sag too much can just be uncomfortable, having a supportive bra just makes day to day activities easier.

 

[Angry New Ager]

...I don’t know why so many FA insist on wearing bras that have no support. I get trying to fight beauty standards and all, but a well fitting bra shouldn’t be considered one of those impossible beauty standards....

There's a couple of reasons I can think of for that:

First, if you're an outlier size (and all of these fatties, including the ones with small boobs, are), finding bras that actually fit is difficult, time-consuming, and frustrating. You have to be really fucking determined--and you have to know what a properly-fitted bra even looks like in the first place, or have the help of someone who does.

Ideally, there will be a specialty store that stocks your approximate size, and has fitting staff who knows their shit, within driving distance. But an awful lot of women will have to go through a few cycles of ordering bras online and returning the ones that don't fit, which not only takes time, but can get prohibitively expensive (because you're looking at $60-100 per bra, in that case).

Different manufacturers fit different body types, and certain styles will fit an individual woman better than others. So if you're like virtually all of the fatties here, who have never owned a properly fitting bra in their lives, and have no baseline for what might fit best, you will have to try on a lot of different bras before you start hitting the target, and even more until you find the combo of brand, size, and style that is your own personal bulls-eye.

Even a woman who generally feels good about her body is going to feel really demoralized at some point during this process. For fatties who claim they love their bodies so much, yet can be so easily triggered by diet talk, or another woman getting WLS, or being weighed at a doctor's appontment? MAXIMUM TRIGGERING ACTIVATED.

And to top it off, the bras that make your girls look great under clothes, and that are actually comfortable, are not likely to be cute in those sizes. You may be lucky to get them in black, instead of just white and beige--forget fun colors and prints. It's easier to deal with that if you assume bras are underwear that nobody else is going to see, but if posting pics of yourself in your underwear on Insta is a core expression of your identity, I guess you're going to feel pretty fucking oppressed, and need to go cry and eat a cake before making a self-pitying post about non-inclusive sizing and how fatgirls deserve pretty bras too to Insta.

And second? None of these fatties are staying the same size. They're all getting bigger, mouthful by mouthful, month by month, year by year. That means the carefully-fitted bras one of them might buy today aren't going to fit in six months, or a year. Going through all that frustration just to get a bra that fits isn't going to happen because none of these fatties can tolerate frustration in the first place. If one actually did, she sure as shit wouldn't go through it a second time.

 

[JambledUpWords]

No, being fat should never be considered normal. The fact that this is being applauded just shows how far society has fallen. You don’t have to be stick thin or super athletic either, but being fat and staying fat isn’t the way to improve society. Encouraging people to stay fat will not help the already messed up healthcare system and it should be considered unethical to want to make fat the “new normal”.

 

[NoReturn]

“new normal”.

I hate new normal. I want old normal.

 

[AbraCadaver]

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No, being fat should never be considered normal. The fact that this is being applauded just shows how far society has fallen. You don’t have to be stick thin or super athletic either, but being fat and staying fat isn’t the way to improve society. Encouraging people to stay fat will not help the already messed up healthcare system and it should be considered unethical to want to make fat the “new normal”.

I do think she looks good in this shot with the pink outfit. But unfortunately, that’s because it’s loose and covering literally everything about her that’s fat and only showing a small, slender core strip of skin up the middle. Her arms are tucked in as well and one leg is put behind the other to minimize her visual width.

For someone trying to “normalize” being fat, this outfit screams “trying like hell to look as thin as you can.” Hard to say you’re proudly and loudly claiming your right to take up space, then posting photos of you literally tucking yourself in to appear as small as possible.

 

[DelicateMageflower]

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No, being fat should never be considered normal. The fact that this is being applauded just shows how far society has fallen. You don’t have to be stick thin or super athletic either, but being fat and staying fat isn’t the way to improve society. Encouraging people to stay fat will not help the already messed up healthcare system and it should be considered unethical to want to make fat the “new normal”.

I am amazed the OG Skinny Bitch Anna Wintour signed off on this shit.

 

[LetThemEatCake]

There's a couple of reasons I can think of for that:

First, if you're an outlier size (and all of these fatties, including the ones with small boobs, are), finding bras that actually fit is difficult, time-consuming, and frustrating. You have to be really fucking determined--and you have to know what a properly-fitted bra even looks like in the first place, or have the help of someone who does.

Ideally, there will be a specialty store that stocks your approximate size, and has fitting staff who knows their shit, within driving distance. But an awful lot of women will have to go through a few cycles of ordering bras online and returning the ones that don't fit, which not only takes time, but can get prohibitively expensive (because you're looking at $60-100 per bra, in that case).

Different manufacturers fit different body types, and certain styles will fit an individual woman better than others. So if you're like virtually all of the fatties here, who have never owned a properly fitting bra in their lives, and have no baseline for what might fit best, you will have to try on a lot of different bras before you start hitting the target, and even more until you find the combo of brand, size, and style that is your own personal bulls-eye.

Even a woman who generally feels good about her body is going to feel really demoralized at some point during this process. For fatties who claim they love their bodies so much, yet can be so easily triggered by diet talk, or another woman getting WLS, or being weighed at a doctor's appontment? MAXIMUM TRIGGERING ACTIVATED.

And to top it off, the bras that make your girls look great under clothes, and that are actually comfortable, are not likely to be cute in those sizes. You may be lucky to get them in black, instead of just white and beige--forget fun colors and prints. It's easier to deal with that if you assume bras are underwear that nobody else is going to see, but if posting pics of yourself in your underwear on Insta is a core expression of your identity, I guess you're going to feel pretty fucking oppressed, and need to go cry and eat a cake before making a self-pitying post about non-inclusive sizing and how fatgirls deserve pretty bras too to Insta.

And second? None of these fatties are staying the same size. They're all getting bigger, mouthful by mouthful, month by month, year by year. That means the carefully-fitted bras one of them might buy today aren't going to fit in six months, or a year. Going through all that frustration just to get a bra that fits isn't going to happen because none of these fatties can tolerate frustration in the first place. If one actually did, she sure as shit wouldn't go through it a second time.

The UK does have a lot of bra brands that cater to 'difficult' (read: totally normal) sizes i.e. anything ouside the rather useless range of 32-38 A-DD (but no larger cups on the smaller bands) that comprises low-end, add-on ranges at high street fast fashion stores. Both online and in-store options. M&S is in every major city and many smaller towns here. M&S is known for its affordable underwear and and has a measuring and bra-fitting service, and a wide brand range of bras. There is also a brand named Curvy Kate that specifically caters to D to K-cups on a decent range of band sizes (28 - 44 inches). We seem to have a much wider and more affordable choice of lingerie here in the UK than US-based women do, from my observation. You can buy great expensive brands like Freya (again, bands 28-44, cups up to a K) and Fantasie bras for major discounts online. I speak from experience!

Someone like Becka who lives in a major city could easily walk into one of the two M&S stores in Glasgow, have a nice older lady who won't judge measure her and find a nice range of affordable, decent bras in every style and colour. Some stores even allow you to book an appointment! The days of larger sizes being surgical-looking flesh-coloured horrors are long gone here, really.

 

[Pargon]

I speak from experience!

Expose bobs when. We need a Kiwis Undercover thread.

OT the tendency for deathfats to deliberately make themselves as unattractive as possible outside of their size seems to be a pattern. It goes beyond laziness in hygiene, too - lividlipids seems to almost exclusively take intentionally hideous selfies, and she's not the only one. It's almost as if the weight gain is a symptom of a larger lack of self-respect.

 

[AbraCadaver]

Expose bobs when. We need a Kiwis Undercover thread.

OT the tendency for deathfats to deliberately make themselves as unattractive as possible outside of their size seems to be a pattern. It goes beyond laziness in hygiene, too - lividlipids seems to almost exclusively take intentionally hideous selfies, and she's not the only one. It's almost as if the weight gain is a symptom of a larger lack of self-respect.

I always though it was the equivalent of soy boy selfie mouth: you don’t like the way you look so you intentionally try to look stupid, that way when people say you look bad, you can tell yourself it’s because you were doing it on purpose. Maybe it’s demoralizing to try to take a cute, sexy smile selfie and hate the awful outcome every single time, so you just skip to “quirky and intentionally stupid-looking” to hide the fact that you look bad in regular photos.

 

[Reepicheep]