Community Tard Baby General (includes brain dead kids) - Fundies and their genetic Fuckups; Parents of corpses in denial

[MirnaMinkoff]

There is a similar situation in China. During the one-child policy years, every couple wanted their one child to be a son, so daughters were either routinely aborted or abandoned shortly after birth. Because there are now 124 (I believe; don't quote me on this) males for every 100 females in the 16-34 age bracket, plenty of families have ended up importing wives from poor neighboring countries such as Thailand and Nepal for their sons, which means a sizable chunk the next generation of Chinese children will not be ethnically Chinese.

Yes, I was going to mention this. Pure stupidity on the part of Chinese and India people/govt. But I love the irony that the Chinese need to now import (in their view) inferior SE Asian women to breed with their young incel men that can’t find wives.

It’s nice that it’s given the single adult women in those countries much better options for marriage since they are now a valuable commodity in short supply. The same thing has also occurred in rural South Korea too.

Trying to skew the gender ratio has just ensured the wide genetic spread of SE Asian ethnic groups throughout much of Asia. Because SE Asians weren’t dumb enough to abort a generation of daughters their genetic footprint has been considerably expanded.

 

[Cheesegirl78]

Lola looks dead and greenish
Just thought I'd mention it
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Lola IS dead and greenish.

 

[Bananasaurus]

Yes, I was going to mention this. Pure stupidity on the part of Chinese and India people/govt. But I love the irony that the Chinese need to now import (in their view) inferior SE Asian women to breed with their young incel men that can’t find wives.

It’s nice that it’s given the single adult women in those countries much better options for marriage since they are now a valuable commodity in short supply. The same thing has also occurred in rural South Korea too.

Trying to skew the gender ratio has just ensured the wide genetic spread of SE Asian ethnic groups throughout much of Asia. Because SE Asians weren’t dumb enough to abort a generation of daughters their genetic footprint has been considerably expanded.

The one child policy completely fucked up Chinese society. Since parents were only allowed to have one kid, many spoiled the absolute shit out of them, and their children grew up to be emotionally immature and materialistic asshats nobody wants to deal with. The lack of women is far from the only issue, many millenials are also too self-centered to maintain relationships with others or advance in their careers. Even if they manage to find a partner, the divorce rate is sky high because they are unable to coexist with people who don't kiss their ass 24/7.

 

[Allo Vera]

I once read that some girls in India are being named variations of the Hindu word for "unwanted". You might as well be named "Garbage" or "Trash" at that point.

There was a big story in the news in 2008 about an elderly Indian couple who staked their life savings on IVF to have a baby boy (they already had adult daughters and grandchildren). They ended up with boy/girl twins, and were quoted as saying what a burden this baby girl was going to be on them.

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-1045815/Worlds-oldest-mother-70-pleased-male-heir-declares-daughter-burden.html

Surprise surprise, the girl died at the age of four, because “a doctor prescribed the wrong medicine”

 

[booklover]

I once read that some girls in India are being named variations of the Hindu word for "unwanted". You might as well be named "Garbage" or "Trash" at that point.

A while back, I read a book that was published in the 1960s by a woman who had been a missionary in what is now North Korea, prior to the division. The blurb on the cover said something like "The society was so primitive, the women were not considered worthy of being given names." That was addressed further in the book; it turned out that most children were not named until they were about a year old, because the infant mortality rate was so high.

 

[Cheesegirl78]

A while back, I read a book that was published in the 1960s by a woman who had been a missionary in what is now North Korea, prior to the division. The blurb on the cover said something like "The society was so primitive, the women were not considered worthy of being given names." That was addressed further in the book; it turned out that most children were not named until they were about a year old, because the infant mortality rate was so high.

I remember reading something like that years ago.
The USA isn't perfect, but I'm glad I'm a woman here, and not some shithole like China, India, or a Muslim country. Some of the more backwards Indian families here still try getting away with honor killings. They are unpleasantly surprised when they get life in prison for killing a daughter.

 

[Android raptor]

Eh, being a woman in some of the weird, hardcore fundie sects in the US isn't much better IMO. Sure FLDS women and girls might not get murdered (that we know of), but they're forced to marry old dudes and start popping out babies before they're old enough to drive. Other brands of fundie might not be nearly as extreme, but they still treat women as baby ovens instead of people.

The US is better than a lot of places but there's still some pretty shitty treatment of girls and women in more conservative areas.

 

[Cheesegirl78]

Eh, being a woman in some of the weird, hardcore fundie sects in the US isn't much better IMO. Sure FLDS women and girls might not get murdered (that we know of), but they're forced to marry old dudes and start popping out babies before they're old enough to drive. Other brands of fundie might not be nearly as extreme, but they still treat women as baby ovens instead of people.

The US is better than a lot of places but there's still some pretty shitty treatment of girls and women in more conservative areas.

Oh, I agree with you on that. Add the Duggars, Bates, and the other creepy Quiverfull families into the FLDS mess.
But at least my husband can't kill me because I burned the bacon and get away with it.

 

[booklover]

Eh, being a woman in some of the weird, hardcore fundie sects in the US isn't much better IMO. Sure FLDS women and girls might not get murdered (that we know of), but they're forced to marry old dudes and start popping out babies before they're old enough to drive. Other brands of fundie might not be nearly as extreme, but they still treat women as baby ovens instead of people.

The US is better than a lot of places but there's still some pretty shitty treatment of girls and women in more conservative areas.

FLDS boys don't have it much better. Most of the homeless population in the bigger Utah cities, and to a lesser extent Phoenix and Las Vegas, consists of teenage boys and young men who were kicked out of FLDS communities for showing interest in girls who had been "fixed up", if you will, often with men old enough to be their grandfathers.

Many of these boys have been taken in by families, Mormon and otherwise, and they were shocked to learn that most other people in the U.S. really do have adequate food, clothing, and shelter, and can choose their occupation and spouse, and have as many or as few children as they wish.

 

[Behavioral Sink]

The true crime group I follow has a post about a mom who killed her tard baby. In just 5 hours, it has accumulated over 1000 comments worth of virtue-signalling mommy blogger rage.

https://m.startribune.com/murder-charges-stearns-county-mom-silenced-disabled-child-s-medical-device-alarm/572517971/

Apparently one is not allowed to speculate about why mom might have snapped after having to spend a dozen years being a full-time carer to a trach vegetable. It's "ableist AF". The thousand commenters would all joyfully attend to the pulse ox monitor alarm throughout the night, every night, for the rest of their entire lives, without any sense of despair or frustration.

Many of them say they're "disabled" (of self-diagnosed autist and/or munchie variety) and are getting all DisabledLivesMatter about it. It reminds me of the high-functioning autists trying to lecture parents of shit-smearing head-bangers about accepting "neurodiversity". Like, y'all are in a different category. Forgive me for sparing a bit of empathy for the suffering of this mother, however shitty her actions were.

 

[Miss Misery]

Disabled lives don't matter if potatoes aren't contributing ANYTHING to society. Sorry not sorry.

 

[cuddle striker]

For 6 months, this kid has the ability to feel nothing but pain. Being born hurts too. Pain, and more pain. And then the end.

I would say I feel pity for the parents but I don't. Pure selfishness to carry on for 6 months.

(anencephaly/cleft palate)
(anencephaly is the problem here, a cleft palate on its own can be fixed)

Spoiler

Disabled lives don't matter if potatoes aren't contributing ANYTHING to society. Sorry not sorry.

I disagree, even though I'm a utilitarian at heart. I think being able to communicate in some way, and to react to the world and people around you, is all that's needed to be worthy of life.

If you can feel anything besides pain, if you can interact, you're deserving of the very basics.

edit: POTATO braindead mechanical corpse monstrosities like we've seen here though

You are right about that

 

[booklover]

They kept that baby alive for 6 months? How? She looked miserable in that picture.

 

[True native]

They kept that baby alive for 6 months? How? She looked miserable in that picture.

People will do anything. And doctors are bound by “do no harm” and “preservation of life”, so if a dr says to the mother “we can put the baby on life support, however, the baby is in pain and the prognosis is death” the insane family just hears “life support“ and coughs up the money.

 

[cuddle striker]

She found out it had anencephaly during that ultrasound. It had "open neural tube defects", meaning it had no skull cartilage or bone to protect the brain.

She didn't have an abortion; its exposed brain matter was worn away, over the next six months of her pregnancy, within the womb. Can you imagine having your head filed down a little bit every time you move, and the walls around you are always moving? That's the pain I'm talking about.

And then birth with an open brain pan would be unpleasant too. The thing felt nothing but pain during its existence. They could have ended that (there was no hope at that 12 week ultrasound, the 20 week one is even worse). They could have ended it when they found out, they could have held out hope until 20 weeks then ended it.

They kept going; it was born alive and lived a few hours in only pain. With this kind of massive damage it would have had no higher consciousness at all and no sensations except pain and pressure.

 

[Miss Misery]

I disagree, even though I'm a utilitarian at heart. I think being able to communicate in some way, and to react to the world and people around you, is all that's needed to be worthy of life.

If you can feel anything besides pain, if you can interact, you're deserving of the very basics.

edit: POTATO braindead mechanical corpse monstrosities like we've seen here though

You are right about that

I very much meant potatoes that are nothing but a braindead corpse that cannot interact. Interaction with the world IS a contribution to society. The world interacting with you is a contribution to society. But a body in a bed that is beyond help, that will not improve, doing absolutely nothing but using up resources that could go to help someone else? No.

 

[MysticMisty]

Interaction with the world IS a contribution to society. The world interacting with you is a contribution to society.

Which is why tards working has become such a big thing, even though a lot of people miss the point and think they really can do things, and all by themselves even. Otherwise for most of them the only people they'd ever see are paid staff and other retards, which is a sad life (even if they don't realize it).

The violent and destructive ones really shouldn't though, because I don't think the benefits really outweigh the cost. We don't allow violent and destructive normal people to rampage though society, after all. And obviously this doesn't factor in the low functioning and the outright potatoes, even though their parents keep trying to force it.

 

[LazarusOwenhart]

The true crime group I follow has a post about a mom who killed her tard baby. In just 5 hours, it has accumulated over 1000 comments worth of virtue-signalling mommy blogger rage.

https://m.startribune.com/murder-charges-stearns-county-mom-silenced-disabled-child-s-medical-device-alarm/572517971/

Apparently one is not allowed to speculate about why mom might have snapped after having to spend a dozen years being a full-time carer to a trach vegetable. It's "ableist AF". The thousand commenters would all joyfully attend to the pulse ox monitor alarm throughout the night, every night, for the rest of their entire lives, without any sense of despair or frustration.

Many of them say they're "disabled" (of self-diagnosed autist and/or munchie variety) and are getting all DisabledLivesMatter about it. It reminds me of the high-functioning autists trying to lecture parents of shit-smearing head-bangers about accepting "neurodiversity". Like, y'all are in a different category. Forgive me for sparing a bit of empathy for the suffering of this mother, however shitty her actions were.

People love to paint mothers who snap like this as monsters. The problem is that (and I'm making some assumptions here having zero experience of either) being in a relationship with a child who is 100% dependent on you 100% of the time is likely, psychologically akin to being in a severely controlling or abusive relationship. Yes the child isn't an abuser per se, but their needs illicit the same level of control over the mother that the needs of a controlling partner would. you can't go out, you can't socialise, your primary concern is to the welfare of somebody who gives you little or nothing in return but you can't leave because of intense guilt or social pressure. It's not surprising that every now and again a woman snaps and brains her deadbeat husband with a golf club and the media are super supportive of her so why is it surprising, or monstrous for that matter that sometimes a woman trapped in a house with a severely disabled child breaks in the same manner.

 

[booklover]

People love to paint mothers who snap like this as monsters. The problem is that (and I'm making some assumptions here having zero experience of either) being in a relationship with a child who is 100% dependent on you 100% of the time is likely, psychologically akin to being in a severely controlling or abusive relationship. Yes the child isn't an abuser per se, but their needs illicit the same level of control over the mother that the needs of a controlling partner would. you can't go out, you can't socialise, your primary concern is to the welfare of somebody who gives you little or nothing in return but you can't leave because of intense guilt or social pressure. It's not surprising that every now and again a woman snaps and brains her deadbeat husband with a golf club and the media are super supportive of her so why is it surprising, or monstrous for that matter that sometimes a woman trapped in a house with a severely disabled child breaks in the same manner.

What you said is more true of people who do full-time in-home caregiving of their dementia-stricken parents, by themselves, often for year after year, than of parents of disabled children, but yeah, there's a lot of overlap between the two. Even people who look after their disabled spouses aren't this trapped.

Truthfully, with one exception, I've never heard of anyone who did that for a parent who didn't regret it, and SHE is the only person I can think of who went through nursing school after having kids and didn't eventually get divorced.

 

[Welpthereitis]

I hope this means Robyn is getting ultrasounds. I'm glad she is under medical care this time.