No, Kevin, you aren't supposed to "feel" the shape of your vagina. No, Kevin, you shouldn't have to FORCE a dilator or dildo in. No, Kevin, normal peopl don't find every part of being a woman "hot". No, Kevin, penile inversion neovaginas DO NOT self-lubricate, YOUR WOUNDS ARE DRIPPING. No, Kevin, your neovagina bleeding is NOT like having a period.
Everything Kevin says and does is a disgrace, especially to women and actually trans people, and he's teaching these people who need guidance that these serious medical issues are not only "hot" and "exciting", but that they are totally normal and to be expected.