Lolcow Melinda Leigh Scott & Marshall Castersen - Sue-happy couple. Flat earth conspiracists. Pretending to be Jewish. Believe Kiwi Farms is protected by the Masonic Order. 0-6 on lawsuits. Marshall is dead.

SAHM women pursue careers after their children grow up/get older

The number of divorced men with children increases at 35. Even more at 40. My pool of men to pick from will grow.

Go kick rocks HATER
Didn't you say something about wanting like 10 children though? Even with your 6 and a recent newborn and assuming you won't have any more children, you're gonna be in your later 40's to mid 50's trying to pursue your PhD in a field you haven't ever actually professionally practiced in, it's practically wasted knowledge at that point.

And you're never getting remarried lol
 
Are you insinuating I am bi-polar?

No, and honestly what I was insinuating was so flamingly obvious the fact that you failed to grasp it is kinda shocking.

Is bipolar written with a hyphen?

No.

Well, its a small business, not a big social media bamah בָּמָה so I like the platform and opportunity to debate. But the subject matter could be more dignified,

You are the subject matter.... so agreed.

and by that I mean no scapegoating

Okay, so stop scapegoating and blaming your failures on other people.

Some of the other threads I have peaked at have better content

Peeked, and why not try participating in them?
 
You still are on the blown out holes theory.

I feel sorry for your wife. She has a husband who watches porn and doesn't understand female anatomy. That all translates in my mind as a man who couldn't please a woman in bed because he neither understands female anatomy nor intimacy.

On the other hand, you may just be a man who is under the age of 30. Sex is very rigid at that age for men. Most men under 30 don't understand intimacy or how to touch a woman

Im not 20. Im 160 years old. Our species can live to 400. Also, who said I am a man? I identify as trans spacial. Please get your pronouns correct. Cant believe I have to school someone who is supposed to be an aspiring lawyer in Le Current Year 2020.

You know nothing about men in their 20's. Men in their 20's fuck just fine. Most are open minded since they consoom so much porn. They'd be open to raw anal bug chasing. Something boomers never would do.
 
When an addiction interferes with your relationships and your ability to do adult responsibilities, it is a problem






Only 2 of my exes were closet addicts (until I found out) and they were immediately dumped






That's called stereotyping. Get some education




Oh, your wife must get on you about your internet use too. That's why you try to defend him, I see.

I don't owe you an explanation for why I post here or how often.

My collective internet use is between 60 and 120 minutes a day. Many times less. I am on Kiwi Farms an average of 48 minutes a day each time I have been on here.

I am not on my phone 4 to 6 hours once I'm off of work, sitting on my ass.... and then another 12 to 16 hours on my day offs. That is Marshall. Phone glued to the fingers. It's disgusting and I'm over it. He's lazy and can't meet my sexual needs at night because he's too busy on the phone. I want a man who knows what his hands are for. Marshall lacks a capacity for intimacy and that is not my style.

And anyways, even if he wasn't a phone addict I would still be leaving you Marshall because of the other shit you do. DONE DONE DONE
Lmao you are factually here for well over two hours a day.
 
Lmao you are factually here for well over two hours a day.

You're an idiot. It doesn't take me two hours of typing dummy. Just because I check in between the hours of 8:30 am and 12 midnight doesn't mean I'm sitting in front of the browser the whole time. I pop in at 5 to 10 minute intervals. A secret I learned in business management classes.

Are you really that dumb?





And the quality will just keep going down, especially if you stay in virginia.


I don't know what you have against Virginia. This is where the first English colony was. Home of rebellion. Defender of gun rights. Defender of religious freedom.


Oh wait, you're the bimbo gal. You must not have paid attention in history class because you were too busy worrying about boys, eh?





Men in their 20's fuck just fine.

Yeah, they may be able to fuck, but not with much finesse. It isn't all about fucking.


Most are open minded since they consoom so much porn.


:disagree: The porn is why they are closed minded. Porn usually features only one type of "ideal" beauty. Anything outside of that norm is then degraded and devalued.

Porn is also quite stale and rigid from a female perspective. Not much going on in the male maneuvers. So if that's where men are taking their cues from...well. BORING

I have heard that there is porn made for women, maybe it's better, but I have never watched it. I've decided not to open that door anymore.





And you're never getting remarried lol

Lol. I knew a woman with 5 children that got remarried. I knew another woman with 8 children that got remarried.

I honestly think that for men who understand that a woman's children are only one part of her, not her entire being, it's the key,

I'm not in a hurry to get remarried. I need to lose the rest of my breastfeeding storage (baby weight), about 10-15 lbs. I also am not sure if I ever want to have another baby again.

Didn't you say something about wanting like 10 children though? Even with your 6 and a recent newborn and assuming you won't have any more children, you're gonna be in your later 40's to mid 50's trying to pursue your PhD in a field you haven't ever actually professionally practiced in, it's practically wasted knowledge at that point.

I might settle for 6 children. I would be happy with 6. Two daughters is a double portion of happiness.

Life isn't over at 50 lol. My great-grandmother lived to be 95 years old. Christine Kennedy ran a 2:59 marathon at 59 years old. The oldest Olympic gymnast is a 44 year old woman (and mother). Her name is Oksana Aleksandrovna Chusovitina. Amazing things you can do when you aren't limited by your mind of what "old" is.

Amy Connor Barrett is 48 and she has 7 children trying to be a Supreme Court Justice!

You don't have to have work experience to be accepted into a Master's Program or PhD program. If I get my Master's and PhD or JD between 50 and 55 that gives me about 20 to 25 years to have a career in that field. If I don't go for a law degree, I want to be a professor and researcher. I have experience in writing and teaching. I also know how to apply for research grants. So that works really well for that age range (55 to 79 years old). My grandfather had a Masters degree and taught in his 70s at a college.
 
Lol. I knew a woman with 5 children that got remarried. I knew another woman with 8 children that got remarried.

I honestly think that for men who understand that a woman's children are only one part of her, not her entire being, it's the key,

I'm not in a hurry to get remarried. I need to lose the rest of my breastfeeding storage (baby weight), about 10-15 lbs. I also am not sure if I ever want to have another baby again.



I might settle for 6 children. I would be happy with 6. Two daughters is a double portion of happiness.

Life isn't over at 50 lol. My great-grandmother lived to be 95 years old. Christine Kennedy ran a 2:59 marathon at 59 years old. The oldest Olympic gymnast is a 44 year old woman (and mother). Her name is Oksana Aleksandrovna Chusovitina. Amazing things you can do when you aren't limited by your mind of what "old" is.

Amy Connor Barrett is 48 and she has 7 children trying to be a Supreme Court Justice!

You don't have to have work experience to be accepted into a Master's Program or PhD program. If I get my Master's and PhD or JD between 50 and 55 that gives me about 20 to 25 years to have a career in that field. If I don't go for a law degree, I want to be a professor and researcher. I have experience in writing and teaching. I also know how to apply for research grants. So that works really well for that age range (55 to 79 years old). My grandfather had a Masters degree and taught in his
Life ain't over at 50, but at your rate your life is probably gonna be fucked by your 50s, By the time you've had your mid-life crisis, your life's already gonna be on the decline until it pretty much dies down around retirement age at like 70. You can brag as much as you like about older people being accomplished, but there are also people that have trained for years in their fields and could outright be considered professionals. Marathoners and gymnasts under-go a shit ton of physical training, something that stays with you until you're a vegetable. Many of my professors are on the older side, one being in his mid-60s teaching an x86 assembler class I'm in and he's been well accomplished, working for a few tech companies during the 80s through 90s back when C was still the big programming language most firms wanted employees to be proficient in. He's got wisdom and experience in professional fields because he actually has decades of experience with him that he can apply to lessons and labs. It's generally why I prefer older professors. You, however, really don't have much experience, with your only legal success being petty small claims filings, having your suit rejected for the same reason repeatedly, and having done nothing with your degree at almost 40. Chris-Chan's also almost 40, he's got a degree, and you should know where he is and what he does by now if you've lurked here long enough (fag).

Look up to your superiors as much as you'd like, but never in your life will you become an equal. You're even below fucking Andrew, who for as fucking weird and religiously-deluded as he may be, is actually a decent enough stock broker as of recent. You're below the ranks of the cat-fucking stalker now.
 
You're an idiot. It doesn't take me two hours of typing dummy. Just because I check in between the hours of 8:30 am and 12 midnight doesn't mean I'm sitting in front of the browser the whole time. I pop in at 5 to 10 minute intervals. A secret I learned in business management classes.

Are you really that dumb?








I don't know what you have against Virginia. This is where the first English colony was. Home of rebellion. Defender of gun rights. Defender of religious freedom.


Oh wait, you're the bimbo gal. You must not have paid attention in history class because you were too busy worrying about boys, eh?







Yeah, they may be able to fuck, but not with much finesse. It isn't all about fucking.





:disagree: The porn is why they are closed minded. Porn usually features only one type of "ideal" beauty. Anything outside of that norm is then degraded and devalued.

Porn is also quite stale and rigid from a female perspective. Not much going on in the male maneuvers. So if that's where men are taking their cues from...well. BORING

I have heard that there is porn made for women, maybe it's better, but I have never watched it. I've decided not to open that door anymore.







Lol. I knew a woman with 5 children that got remarried. I knew another woman with 8 children that got remarried.

I honestly think that for men who understand that a woman's children are only one part of her, not her entire being, it's the key,

I'm not in a hurry to get remarried. I need to lose the rest of my breastfeeding storage (baby weight), about 10-15 lbs. I also am not sure if I ever want to have another baby again.



I might settle for 6 children. I would be happy with 6. Two daughters is a double portion of happiness.

Life isn't over at 50 lol. My great-grandmother lived to be 95 years old. Christine Kennedy ran a 2:59 marathon at 59 years old. The oldest Olympic gymnast is a 44 year old woman (and mother). Her name is Oksana Aleksandrovna Chusovitina. Amazing things you can do when you aren't limited by your mind of what "old" is.

Amy Connor Barrett is 48 and she has 7 children trying to be a Supreme Court Justice!

You don't have to have work experience to be accepted into a Master's Program or PhD program. If I get my Master's and PhD or JD between 50 and 55 that gives me about 20 to 25 years to have a career in that field. If I don't go for a law degree, I want to be a professor and researcher. I have experience in writing and teaching. I also know how to apply for research grants. So that works really well for that age range (55 to 79 years old). My grandfather had a Masters degree and taught in his 70s at a college.
Definitely more than two hours a day. Lmao. I don't care what you claim.
 
I don't know what you have against Virginia. This is where the first English colony was. Home of rebellion. Defender of gun rights. Defender of religious freedom.


Oh wait, you're the bimbo gal. You must not have paid attention in history class because you were too busy worrying about boys, eh?
I have relatives from there and have lived there. The humidity fries your brain and the meth does the rest.

You are chronically incapable of retaining any information about anyone that you don't like, aren't you? I'm very curious as to how I've somehow become firmly planted in your mind as some kind of big tittied bimbo slut. Too bad I can't actually live in your skull, I am looking for a place right now and I'd love to not pay any rent.
 
Definitely more than two hours a day. Lmao. I don't care what you claim.
Notice she’s extended her total average internet time from 60 minutes to a range at now 120 being the max after being called on it. She came back with “DOESNT MATTER. IM AN ADULT. I CAN SPEND 4 HOURS ON HERE AND YOU CANT SAY SHIT.”
Oh, but indeed I can. And I love to, because it pisses her off that’s she’s challenged and criticized on every single action and claim she makes. :story:
 
I don't know what you have against Virginia. This is where the first English colony was. Home of rebellion. Defender of gun rights. Defender of religious freedom.

But you're not a smart, rugged, principled colonist, are you? You are a welfare-reliant single mother who would be completely fucked if the gibs didn't come for one single month. You are utterly reliant on government pennies to house, feed, and clothe your children. Nor are you surrounded by early Virginian colonists, you're living in a small poor town in a beyond poor county. Opioid abuse, meth use, alcoholism, poor education, high rates of unemployment, child abuse, and incest are sky high in your locale. Although you probably don't mind those last two very much.

Not to mention that just living somewhere doesn't mean you magically take on the characteristics of people who lived there centuries before you. The early Virginia colonists might have been a bunch of cousin-fuckers, too, but they didn't have any choice, seeing as how their options were limited. You just fuck your relatives and live off of handouts because you're trashy and selfish and make trashy and selfish choices.
 
But you're not a smart, rugged, principled colonist, are you?. You are a welfare-reliant

Who do you think owned the land of Virginia when the Settlers got here? THE CROWN OF ENGLAND DID. Every colonist was dependent upon the government for their share of the land.

I cook my meals from scratch.
I bake without a mixer kneading my dough by hand.
I lift hundreds of pounds of groceries from a cart to my car to my kitchen/house a month.
I lift and carry a toddler and baby every day.
I do 20 loads of laundry a week, which includes taking baskets up and down the stairs.
I scrub, wash, mop and clean a 4 bedroom townhouse.

Where on earth did you get your idea of what a SAHM does?

I am as hard working as they come. I have the steel arms to prove it.





Opioid abuse, meth use, alcoholism, poor education, high rates of unemployment, .... are sky high in your locale.

The people of this region have been abused by business investors and the government. Forgotten in economic development plans while congress sends billions of tax dollars to support illegal immigrants.

These social issues could be solved by proper government policy to restore this region through agricultural production. It could also be solved be proper recreational avenues for people in this area.

Before you judge the poor, you should learn to have empathy for the poor






Not to mention that just living somewhere doesn't mean you magically take on the characteristics of people who lived there centuries before you.



My mother's relatives helped to found this region. I've done a family history search on my last name SCOTT. Have you?





that have trained for years in their fields and could outright be considered professionals. Marathoners and gymnasts under-go a shit ton of physical training, something that stays with you until you're a vegetable.

Exactly. So if I've been fit my entire life, that will go with me. I never said my ambition was to be a marathon runner, I really don't have the patience for that. However, if you keep moving, you keep moving.

I was an athlete before I was a mother. Than I became an athlete being a SAHM. Many of the tasks I do as a SAHM keeps me in shape.


It's generally why I prefer older professors. You, however, really don't have much experience,

The problem with that thinking is that students don't do the hiring. Universities do. If a professor can convince a University to keep them, that's what is important. And quite frankly, there are many professors who are wierd, looney, anti-social, barely communicative, strange, and/or bizarre and yet they manage to be highly paid professors because they know their shit. Academics are there for the love of the game. Pompous or not, the fact is, intellectual play is highly valued among Academics, even if it never produces anything tangible. I have teaching experience in Homeschool Co-ops and good ratings with the students I taught. I have strong teaching abilities.

It's hard to find people who will sit behind books and research for a living. A bright mind is highly valued in the Academic world. And while you can mock and joke all you want on Kiwi Farms about how "dumb" I am, my professors always told me I was a brilliant writer. With a strong writing portfolio, I can get places. I am not a great editor when I am highly distracted, but many people with PhDs and Masters hire editors. Not hard to do.




Look up to your superiors as much as you'd like, but never in your life will you become an equal.

Lol. Mentioning women I think are "pushing the envelope" in good ways doesn't mean I see them as "superiors". Worldly accomplishments are not what makes classes out of humanity. It is one's righteousness, or lack thereof, which puts people in a superior/inferior status.

A righteous man may be poor and have less money than a rich man, but he is still greater than a rich man who is wicked.

"Indeed, what will it benefit a person if he gains the whole world but forfeits his life?" (Mark 8:36)
 
I cook my meals from scratch.
I bake without a mixer kneading my dough by hand.
I lift hundreds of pounds of groceries from a cart to my car to my kitchen/house a month.
I lift and carry a toddler and baby every day.
I do 20 loads of laundry a week, which includes taking baskets up and down the stairs.
I scrub, wash, mop and clean a 4 bedroom townhouse.
You literally do the same basic life things as millions of other people, except most of them have paying jobs too. 🍪 So there's your fucking cookie. Congrats.
 
The crown of England defrauded the Indians out of their ancestral lands.

True on some degree. Technically, most Native American tribes did not believe you could own land. They believed it belonged to all of humanity. So they didn't "own" the land, even by their own standards.

And of course, it wasn't only England that imposed their value system of "owning" land onto them. It was also Spain, the Dutch, and France that sought to colonize the Americas. But to the best of my memory, Spain's first colony was in Florida. England's was in Virginia (Jamestown).



You literally do the same basic life things as millions of other people, except most of them have paying jobs too. 🍪 So there's your fucking cookie. Congrats.


Except the difference is that I don't have major health issues from trying to work a job and do all the domestic work as well.

Overloading someone with responsibility is a form of abuse. It is a common abuse imposed on women by themselves or by their husbands or societal pressure. It causes health issues.

It's not healthy for a woman to work 40 hours a week outside the home and then do an additional 40 hours of domestic work a week. Especially when she is pregnant, postpartum or breastfeeding. It causes varicose veins, obesity, depression, aggression, irritability, low sex drive, sleep disorders, anxiety, and more. Sleep deprivation and excessive work loads can also cause mental health issues.

"All work an no play makes Jane _____":

(a) unhealthy
(b) psycho
(c) dull
(d) all of the above

*and
 
Overloading someone with responsibility is a form of abuse. It is a common abuse imposed on women by themselves or by their husbands or societal pressure. It causes health issues.
I study, work and share domestic responsibilities with my partner and I don't brag about it like you, you airhead, because it's normal thing in society.

If you need to do everything at your home, it's your fault for choosing lazy, irresponsible bums as your covenant partners, husbands or whatever.
 
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