Not jowls. I feel like Ian is kinda getting jowly tbh, but he is freshly 30-it's when your cheeks, mouth corners, and sides of your face droop. Anisa has pronounced nasolabial folds.
They aren't bad when she smiles she just insists on making tardy, "pouty" faces and can't figure out flattering lighting. That exacerbates them. She looks old because of how she styles herself mostly, but also she's almost 30, and it doesn't help that she got big bolt-ons that make her look dumpy on top of her intentional weight gain. She literally looks like a late 30 something with teen kids trying to look younger than she is in most of her pics which I think is what people are laughing at her over. She's got MILF bod and Ian's seemingly incidental interest in MILFs just makes it more funny and easy to tease over. And since they both get blasted over it, people won't let it go at all.
Nothing wrong with moms, the mom look, older ladies, etc. but there is if you're insecure about it or can't just accept you're no 20 anymore. Anisa just doesn't know how to "package" herself appropriately and it sticks out and looks bad on her. If she had the personality and understood why she looks momish, she could even act momish as a gimmick, and there is a big market for that. She could honestly embrace looking more mature and rock it successfully imo. But she is trying to sell the young 20/barely legal look in many of her sets and it just doesn't work for her because she isn't cute like the instagirls. She just comes off tryhardish and old in a bad way.
She should accept she looks older and stop trying to be younger. The instabaddie look is tired and generic, it would at least give her a niche look and thus an upperhand and make her more desirable among guys who, like Ian, have some interest in older women or MILFs and she could get away with more softcore poses and tasteful nudes without having to literally spread her asshole in barely-there thongs for likes.
Then again, Anisa legitimately doesn't understand sex appeal so Lord knows how that would even go.