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tantrums to essentially inevitable when raising a child, saying that you are such a perfect mother that you can avoid it completely is bullshit
This is because children’s social and emotional skills are only just starting to develop at this age. Children often don’t have the words to express big emotions. They might be testing out their growing independence and discovering that the way they behave can influence the way other people behave.
So tantrums are one of the ways that young children express and manage feelings, and try to understand or change what’s going on around them.
it can be stepping on a rock, arguing with another child, being denied something they want, or a multitude of events that parents do not have complete control of and changing from child to child how much it can affect their temperament
That’s why Bonnie is nothing of a character, she’s a pet not a daughter, Clily has no problems because she’s so perfect at raising this hybrid children with reality bending powers (which should make everything infinitely worse)
it should be a learning process for both, in patience and empathy and in time the tantrums decrease and lessons are learned
but we skipped everything to have meaningless events of "cuteness"
