I do think you're right, though on that note, would you feel okay with a person starving or cutting themselves to death? I'm not asking to be contrary, I'm just nosey, I suppose. I draw the line at it involving children. I find it appalling we are allowing women - and sorrynotsorry, it is invariably the Mothers driving it, look at Desmond and Jazz and countless others - cramming a trans identity on their children, Children should not be put on puberty blockers, seeing as how we now know more about the long term effects and harm and they are not mentally capable of making that decision, and it sure a hell should not be the choice of a parent. It's not medically necessary, being trans is a mental disorder and it should be treated with aggressive therapy and if needed, removing the child from the parent pushing the trans identity on them.
And you cannot change gender. You can surgically mutilate your body to have secondary sex characteristics and take drugs to interfere with your endicrine system and replacement hormones for the ones you suppress. But you cannot "change gender". A troon is still chromosomally XX or XY (intersex people are incredibly rare, most are spontaneously aborted in urtero because even nature knows that shit needs fetus deleetused).
If grown adults afforded the rights of other adults, and with the mental capacity to function in society want to do that to themselves, then whatever, their funeral. But we need to stop pretending we're helping them. We're helping them by surgically altering their bodies to treat a mental disorder, and as we say with lobotomies, ultimately we caused far more harm than good with that, as was proven in the longer term. I'd even argue, lettting people troon out is a form of lobotomy. it keeps them quiet and docile and pliant for a few years while the doctor shop and take hormones and chase the lie that the surgery offers, but after a few years, the grave harm and damage becomes obvious, they realise they cannot come back from it and that's why 41%. We can carry on doing it, but ultimately we're saving up harm for the future because we lack the spine to say no in the short term.