- Joined
- Nov 10, 2014
I realize that it's been a few months since this was posted, and I'm not quite sure how to use kiwi farms although I do browse it occassionally, so I apologize if this is inappropriate or if I'm misusing anything.
I'm "his bf" (now EX, thank god), Jeff. I can post proof of some sort if needed, but I have not been in contact with him since March/April 2020. Lucky for me he was indicted on my birthday, I'm glad that fuckers in jail.
Last I saw of him he was nursing a ketamine addiction I'm fairly sure.
I met him in September of 2019 at a local fur meet, I was horribly impulsive and frankly quite depressed and much to my demise I ended up involved with him.
Most of this is nsfw related and will be spoiled.
The funeral was in December I believe? The one where he decided to molest a kid. If I recall correctly it was the funeral for his grandfather. Thats not much to go off of, but it was mostly relatives at the funeral and even the legal documents I dug up mentioned how he was taking pictures of relatives.
I remember I had Christmas dinner with his family, including his ~12 year old niece and nephew, I was helping set shit up, yadah yadah, he was downstairs and was taking a while, so I go to get him and find him in the process of busting a nut. Just 10 odd minutes before his niece and nephew and I had been down there but I just wrote it off as his normal weird fucking shit.
He would frequently do things like this, even when people were in the room, he would try to touch me under blankets or try to pull my hand over to his dick. Dude even recorded himself jacking it under the blankets once at a party and proceeded to upload it to a chat they were all in as it happened. We saw the Sonic Movie on premiere Feb 14th and were sat next to some kids and he tried to get me to jack him off.
Dude was super autistic, literally diagnosed.
He would repeatedly tell me about how he wanted to fuck my brother's dog, and if I could get him alone with the dog so he could "play" with him, how hot my brother's dog was, yadah yadah, I always said no. He'd talk about plotting to kidnap a dog out of someones yard and fucking it, or how he jacked off the next door neighbor's beagle. He'd "joke" about getting my dog to lick his dick, and at one point we even had a husky puppy and all he could think about was how much he wanted to fuck it while I was just trying to keep the puppy trained.
Even the husky knew something was up honestly, when we first got the puppy it would sit between both of us but within a literal day it would sit on the other side of me away from him because he'd constantly touch the dogs paws and poke and prod at it like some object. Dude moaned when the dog accidentally stepped on his dick. It was horrible, I feared for that dog. We "broke up" shortly after and the dog ended up with someone else about a week after because dude didn't know shit about actually training dogs outside of abuse. I still miss that dog but my family wouldn't let me keep it. Since I'm ill my family had to get involved and threatened to get a restraining order since they knew something was up but couldn't really tell.
I honestly should've reported the dude at this point but feared for my safety and was honestly in quite a state of disrepair after my experiences with him.
Outside of that, he'd frequently show house guests how "easy it was" to take advantage of me by pinning me against walls in front of them, forcing me to the ground, trying to grind on me against my protest. My defense mechanism when overwhelmed by a threat is to often just shut down and go somewhere else mentally, which he'd often explain to them and say how he could "do whatever he wanted and i couldn't resist". Eventually I learned I had to shout "no!" and squirm away from him to get him to stop, although it didn't stop him from trying over and over and from trying to physically restrain me so I couldn't escape. I'd get panic attacks and he'd pin me down and hold me in a choke hold to "help" me stop shaking. Dudes like 200-300 something pounds and a security guard, dude was smothering. I'm weak as shit.
I had alcohol poisoning once (he was the provider of said alcohol) and ended up throwing up way more than is healthy and after he set up a bucket in front of me he just sat on the other side of the room and jacked off before walking over and finishing in the bucket of vomit in front of me.
He proceeded to then leave me half naked in the middle of the living room for his room mate to step over in the morning.
I stayed with him for so long because I honestly thought it was some personal hell designed just for me, I'm not mentally well. Dude knew how to manipulate me to make me afraid of leaving and it worked. I was honestly afraid someone else would have to go through the same shit or that he'd drag my ass through the dirt over some fake shit. Which I mean, he did, but it didn't really work too much. I'm glad the fuckers in jail.
Overall, he was abusive, egotistical, a zoo, a pedo
I mean honestly he was an overall asshole and everyone could always tell something was off
and yeah
he was a babyfur. Dude has a bunch of telegram stickers of his sona in diapers and whatnot. Probably should've been a stronger hint but I wanted to believe at the time that he just did it to cope.
He told me how he fucked some dude and only found out after that they were 14 but I heard from said 14 year old that he was fully aware of his age. Take that with a grain of salt though as the 14 year old in question was frequently known to lie about their age in attempt to get sex.
Honestly the dude would get hungry eyes at any "cute" person that was at the house and would try to get me to help manipulate people into "having fun" who were often uninterested and sometimes even visibly uncomfortable. There's this one super innocent person we both knew who was like, vocally uncomfortable with sexual comments and arbor would persist to ask him inappropriate questions anyways.
I have no idea if this is even worthwhile information, I apologize for the wall of text.
Honestly, make fun of me if you want. I'm not here for support or sympathy. A lot of shit is hard to remember and I know there's stuff that I'm only just skimming.
I'm just glad I'm out of that situation and want more people to know how scummy the dude was, so much of what he did isn't even documented. I doubt there's much that can be traced back to me outside of this but honestly I don't really care.
I feel like this might break the first guideline, but I'm really the only person who witnessed/knew about the brunt of it considering everyone else was smart enough to keep away from him.
interesting. it’s good you got out of that relationship. You avoided a bullet
also, might want to have twitter remove this if you still use this character. Having a great character tainted by pedos sucks.