I'll direct you guys to the website RealSelf. It's basically a site for (mostly cosmetic) surgeries where people ask questions, discuss their experiences, costs, and before/after photos. I used it to know what to expect for some dental surgeries I had, but they have pretty much every surgery you can think of. Including MTF vaginoplasty. I took a look at one before and after post and that's all I want to see since I'm currently eating breakfast. It has a 77% "worth it" rating by the way.
https://www.realself.com/surgical/mtf-vaginoplasty
They have one for phalloplasty but there's not many posts about it. There's probably other grs associated procedures as well. You do need an account to view pictures and certain things but hey, if you want to check it out.