Fat Acceptance Movement / Fat Girlcows

[DNA_JACKED]

I already hate myself enough since I subscribed to this godforsaken forum.
I was just trying to give a example at how this haes can contribute to fuck with young and impressionable people lives. When I met this movement i was still a teen.
Of course I know I am responsible for my acts but some ideology can contribute to bad behaviour.
Also I assume most people in this thread is also overweight but know they are not healthy or are normal sized apostates of this "fat cult".
Anyway why are you mad at a post that was even under spoiler LMAO

Have a gravy and calm down fatty.

Spoiler: This is not the place or time fatty

just because you spoilered a worthless power level that contributes nothing to the conversation doesn't mean your power level is anymore appropriate then your diet.

 

[Garbage.Theory]

Good lord can we just go back to hating on the Fat Apostles instead of the fat apostates?

 

[fishing bird]

fullbodiedbekah sounds like she’s either on the verge of, or is already having, a mental breakdown. Today’s post is about how she sometimes doesn’t recognise her own body as hers:





And at the risk of receiving horrifying ratings, is this her hairy pus poking out from under her gunt?

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[brooky]

Real talk, what kind of help is Bekah receiving? She makes me the saddest of anyone on this godforsaken site. Whoever is in her life that is not helping her during this very obvious downward spiral is not someone who loves her.

 

[MerriedxReldnahc]

Bekah's looking on the brink of tears here, it's terrible I can't get over how painful her stretch marks look, she's even admitted at some point that they do hurt to an extent. I can't imagine being in a situation where you are growing so fast that you're in genuine pain and not thinking "there is something very wrong here."

 

[T0oCoolFool]

fullbodiedbekah sounds like she’s either on the verge of, or is already having, a mental breakdown. Today’s post is about how she sometimes doesn’t recognise her own body as hers:

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And at the risk of receiving horrifying ratings, is this her hairy pus poking out from under her gunt?

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My god, I know it's been said before, but what the hell. Watching this lady quickly become more and more grotesque is such a sad and horrifying sight. Other fatties I see on this forum are already annoying, fat, and their change is much more gradual. This though? I don't even know how to properly explain how it feels to witness someone normal looking quickly turn into this lumpy sad sack of lard in real time.

What really gets me every time I see a new post about Bekah, is that it's still not too late for her to fix this massive fuck up. Sure, the stretch marks will always be there, maybe there will be slight skin laxity in some areas too, but otherwise, she's still young enough that she could bounce back from this. She's still not too fat that it would even take a ton of effort to lose the weight. And yet she just can't see it. She's ignoring all the warning signs and sprinting to her demise.

 

[Autisticats]

Real talk, what kind of help is Bekah receiving? She makes me the saddest of anyone on this godforsaken site. Whoever is in her life that is not helping her during this very obvious downward spiral is not someone who loves her.

Almost all of those 126 comments are each variations of enablers too,

Why is it only us spergs here that have some level of concern for Bekah? I rarely ever see a comment which is concerned or criticising her on her IG.

It reminded me of Chance (600goingon700), nobody seems cares about her ballooning while she looks dead inside. Sad man

 

[DefCon Dumb]

The several death fats I follow here generally either make me roll my eyes or can easily piss me off because of their: "Fuck you!" attitude.

Bekkah just makes me sad. For someone claiming to be comfy with her 'new' body she sure writes a lot of stuff about it that seems far less celebratory & more trying to convince herself that her body is fine; in spite of her clear misgivings about it she constantly reminds us that: "it beats the alternative".

What alternative is worse than this slow descent into poor health, decreasing ability to do daily life tasks, (that's coming) & clearly deteriorating self image?

Like many death fats she's "all or nothing". She never mentions a possible meeting in the middle. One can be not depressed & in fact, thriving & happy while still imposing sensible limits on ourselves. Maybe she'd understand it in terms of parenting herself for positive development; I don't know. If she's getting any kind of therapy, I don't think it's the right fit.

Not sure what she's doing right now post college, to earn her keep but whatever she's doing - it's not enough to keep her mind focused on positive, adult things.

Instead, she's cultivating depression as though it were a rare, expensive & finicky tropical plant that she has to succeed with. She needs to find a way to break those ways of thinking before they get locked into a pattern that becomes increasingly difficult to break.

She's young, intelligent enough to get a law degree; there's so much more availbale to her in life than brooding over dark things.

 

[FuckDuckSeagull]

Bekah needs some intense therapy. When Kiwis are the ones most worried about you, you got to re-think your life over.

Bekah thinks posting nudes on Insta will help her accept her body that has turned into an uncomfrotable sluggish thing. She doesn't feel sexy, she isn't happy, but she sees all those fat women Instagram and they seem super happy! If it works for them, it must work for her too! (Those women are just as unhappy, shocker) Posting lewds with "inspirational" captions must be the key, because intentional weightloss is fatphobic and wrong.

 

[Not me]

If that would be my reflection I would reject it as well.

Bekah needs serious mental help. Inpatient, no smartphone, no internet, no shitty enabler people around. She needs to get out of where ever she is asap.

 

[Logical Fallacies]

I get the feeling that not the depression but a deeper issue (like a Personality Disorder) is the actual underlying problem with Bekkah, that's why pills and normal therapy won't help her. Her thinking is greatly disordered/distorted and her posts smell of inner emptiness, anhedonia, dissociation and identity disturbance.

Mere depression doesn't make you balloon like that in such a short time.

She needs an intervention (not pills) before she spirals any further.

 

[Fliddaroonie]

If that would be my reflection I would reject it as well.

Bekah needs serious mental help. Inpatient, no smartphone, no internet, no shitty enabler people around. She needs to get out of where ever she is asap.

Theres actually an inpatient mental health facility in Glasgow at Gartnavel Hospital near Anniesland. You can self refer to there and if they've no beds they get you in community help. She should look into it.

Lovely grounds for taking a stroll in too.


Edited cos types. Seriously she should look into it. Shes fooling neither herself nor anyone else with her posturing. She is so damn unhappy,it screams through the pictures and the basic bitch pseudo deep thoughts.

 

[lisa_simpson]

Bekah still is 100% engaging in her eating disorder, she's just cycled onto a new one. It's very common, almost expected, if you don't properly fix your relationship with food and only focus on correcting behaviors. I feel terrible for her, but there's absolutely nothing inspirational about a girl swinging from restrictive eating to binge eating.

I wonder if Bekah is truly getting help from trained professionals, because ED specialists are very cautious about the refeeding process for reasons exactly like what's happening to Bekah. Her body is exploding and becoming damaged due to too-quick weight gain. A dietician who teaches you how to properly nourish yourself and slowly helps you increase your food intake is usually part of the package.

I realize she's taking meds, but if you've ever seen a psychiatrist you'll know their singular job is to pretty much assess whether pills will help you and write prescriptions- they don't do any of the cognitive therapy part.

 

[Fliddaroonie]

Bekah still is 100% engaging in her eating disorder, she's just cycled onto a new one. It's very common, almost expected, if you don't properly fix your relationship with food and only focus on correcting behaviors. I feel terrible for her, but there's absolutely nothing inspirational about a girl swinging from restrictive eating to binge eating.

I wonder if Bekah is truly getting help from trained professionals, because ED specialists are very cautious about the refeeding process for reasons exactly like what's happening to Bekah. Her body is exploding and becoming damaged due to too-quick weight gain. A dietician who teaches you how to properly nourish yourself and slowly helps you increase your food intake is usually part of the package.

I realize she's taking meds, but if you've ever seen a psychiatrist you'll know their singular job is to pretty much assess whether pills will help you and write prescriptions- they don't do any of the cognitive therapy part.

No she isnt getting help. No1currr and I'm not gonna pl but I know a shitload about mental health care specifically in Glasgow and I an guarantee she is not a patient actively being seen. If she was she is ignoring all the advice she is getting. Massive if though.

 

[Narc]

One crappy thing about being fat, for me at least, is that I can't do certain things. I couldn't work a manual labor job for more than two hours before my back started to hurt and I can't run more than a quarter mile without my shins hurting. I tried to do an aerobics class at the gym but I didn't even make it 10 minutes. This sucks so much that this alone makes me want to lose weight.

Individuals can't manage certain things (wealth, popularity, activity) on account of lots of characteristics: weight, bone structure, manual dexterity, attention span, work ethic, and so on. The vast majority of living beings are having somewhat of a perpetually delusional experience involving some idea of pure capacity, where all of these characteristics' pros and cons are considered in the abstract. That sort of confused thinking about oneself as a freely willing agent is reducible to an autoaffective disorder of the mind.

Forgetting what you look like in the morning can be an ordeal for some. Is that pain real? Yes and no. It's symptomatological and based on a few delusions about needing sympathy from other people, when, yes, you live and die alone, and your life is not worth that much, especially if you aren't an essential worker. Utilitarianism is just a ruse for the vast majority of the population, who will spend their whole lives in gluttony thanks to agricultural overproduction, never putting in more than they take.

 

[ARAVIS]

Going through my old icloud and finding this gold from 2018-19

 

[DefCon Dumb]

If the Fat Positive Movement has all these caveats for 'membership', they need to change the name of the movement. At best it's disingenuous; at worst, the name does nothing but draw in "others" for TRUE FP members to dump on.

 

[Inkleborque]

As much as I love Bekah's stomach struck by Beetus lightning, it's time to revisit the I drove 45 minutes to Sonic while on Weight Watchers crybaby.



Let's play the Is it Thalidomide or Train Accident? game.

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*Edited because weekend

 

[JambledUpWords]

Apparently, being fat while being black is supposed to be some political statement. Fatness isn’t anything special these days when 2/3 of Americans are considered overweight.

 

[DefCon Dumb]

Nice way to try and equate soft with fat, out of shape & clearly self indulgent.